Feeling Like You're Bothering People

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[syrollesse]

I've been told that I was annoying by other kids as a child and it pretty much stayed with me my whole life. I can't talk to anyone without feeling like I'm being annoying. I can't reach out to a friend first without feeling like they don't want to talk to me and I'm just bothering them. I'm really not sure how to stop feeling this way because even if I mentally know I am not bothering someone, emotionally I feel ashamed of myself for even speaking to someone.

[TheBashfulne]

When I'm confident and myself I feel like I'm bothering others. I'll get a sense that they're more talkative with others but with me, they're very limited to the point they seem bothered. I'll receive one-word responses and the tone of their voice would sound different. It keeps me from being my true self and it sucks

[joecormier]

Overthinking is my worst enemy. And makes me think I am always annoying, cringe or bothering people, especially girls I'm talking too

[Daisy_boulder]

I've always felt like I was one of the different one's. I'll always try my best. But I can't lie, I feel pretty lonely. Sending love to anyone going though a hard time. Feels like everyone is though we don't always show it. <3

[westernmike]

Its better to be humble and wonder if everyone around you is okay than to be arrogant and assume everyone likes you. That said, glad for cool folk like yourself giving me some guidance. Sick of the “oh it’s you” sense. Wish only rich kids dealt with that. Thx

[kgarcia]

That's exactly what I feel right now. It doesn't feel good. I just decide to shut down and not talk and have conversation to avoid anything I might say .

[TheCollinder]

I have a lot of good friends, but I feel like I talk to them a bit too much. Therefore, I feel like I''m annoying them a lot. It's mainly because they're heading to uni soon, so I don't want them to lose contact with me. But I feel in doing so, I'm trying too hard and disturbing the flow when they're in conversations with others too. I feel like a bit of an outcast in the group, I can't lie.

[sarahkalonji]

People like you are making our life so good I am in higher school and I feel like I am so annoying because I stay happy do my work happily I am always chaotic I eat my food with full happiness I dance I sing I honor my family parents teachers everyone I don't try to annoy people but they are frustrated all the time and I feel like I am annoying them and when I shut up I feel like I am boring I don't want to be left out thanks for your recommendations

[HappyTheClown]

whenever i get comfortable with someone i trust i always end up getting annoying because I'm overly hyper and i hate myself so much for it because i just push other people away and i wish i knew how to control it but it just comes out

[jamaican_cute_gal]

It's an amazing feeling when you get up in age like me, and suddenly realize you don't give a $hit if people like you or not, lmao!

[moonlightstargem]

It’s real. The other person doesn’t want to be bothered. It’s true. Some people really are just jack asses and don’t want you around. I want ya’ll around ❤be safe. Stay away from haters & surround yourself with good people

[Comeonmanreel]

We can all be annoying at times. You just gotta be a bearable person. Some people are just unbearable. What gets on my nerves is some people who are unbearable see that people are annoyed by them then they want people to feel sorry for them. If that doesn’t work then they don’t care if people don’t like them or are annoyed by them

[kitsa]

this feels accurate
hope you're ok man

[lionkid]

You explain things so well and my anxiety always dissapear when I listen to your videos

[Daniswatching]

I'm going through a lot and I was wondering if I'm annoying my friends. And it makes you feel unwanted, uneeded, and well just not worth it. And I'm really starting to think that I'm not good enough at all. No matter what my friends tell me. I'm always 2nd best it seems. "Hey! Need someone to talk to? Why not Dan?" And it really makes you feel like nothing. And they just don't talk to you when they don't need you.

[shyguy]

Thank you so much, I needed this because I always feel like a bother no matter how hard I try to be good and helpful...

[exoticamirah]

But I really am a burden, so therefore I found the best solution is deal with whatever is bothering or hurting me on my own. Other people already have so much on their plate already and it would be very selfish and annoying if I add up to that just because I wanted to talk about what i am going through. I am a very unlikeable person who keeps overwhelming people with my personality when I try offer any help or love. I found that when I stopped telling people anything about my life, they were happier and even though i am internalizing so much self hate and pain, that would be good because hurting myself is better than hurting anyone else. To be frank maybe if i did not exist my parents life would have been easier, my friends would not have to deal with my existence, even my co workers seem to dislike me, well i don’t blame them. So yeah i guess shutting up on my side is the best i would have done for other people.

[actuallyher_]

Why did this litteraly exaplain my whole entire existence

[SF]

Thanks for your insightful video. I’ve been having this problem for a long time and not sure how to overcome it or train my mind to overcome it. I constantly feel that I’m holding myself back because being afraid of making mistakes or accidentally say something that would offend people. When I’m asking favors from others, I feel I’m being a burden and I’m creating hassles for them. And asking for help has been difficult and unpleasant. I’m better with people I know well or feel comfortable being around with. But with others, it’s been difficult because I’m being held back by my self-doubts. It’s been frustrating but I’ve gained a better understanding of why I feel the way I feel. Thank you!! Would you considering to create a video addressing the fear of making mistakes and how to stop being so self-criticizing?

[Chocokaylarobin]

It's hard if i talk too much im bothering them if im not talking I'm bothering them ugh