Why would my Mom say this about my Kid?

Why would my Mom say this about my Kid? How would you respond?

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[lillena]

I agree with Slick, mental health is just an excuse. She’s an adult! She’s being malicious to get a response from you. It’s okay to forgive people but you DONT have to allow them back in your life or your space especially when they intentionally disturb your peace!

[Sweet_love]

I just want to say this it’s okay to cut off toxic parents or distance yourself. If at any point she is causing you harm mentally, emotionally, etc.—you do not owe her your suffering.

[racgillett]

Ephesians 6:4 Do not provoke your child to wrath

[Itsgigi]

Latoya, I've been watching your videos since before you had Samia, long time! I'm an older woman with grandkids. If your mother says things you believe at your big age to hurt and make you feel bad, in my opinion, she is jealous of you, yes jealous. There are parents who are jealous of their children, its a real thing. Mother or not, she should be avoided just because she has the title mother doesn't mean she is mothering, loving, caring, supporting, nurturing, and I could go on. You know, like all of the things that you are with your beautiful children. I could say a lot more, but I won't be disrespectful. Stay strong and keep negative ppl away because it can affect you in a negative way. Love you and your family as always ❤️

[mckaylaalee]

Latoya you are appreciated & valued. Tell your mom you wish her well in her healing journey & go your separate way until she does the work and becomes a different person who deserves to be in your circle. You need to have boundaries . Love you girl, been watching you for years and your mom I'm sorry.

[ItsBonnieAdams]

“Jesus blessing Steve Jobs to create the block button” Slick that was a word!!!🤣🤣🙌🏾

[Lizze]

I agree with Slick she’s fully aware of what she does. The thing is island moms are the most judgmental, critical, and cynical. I am Trini and my mom is so slick with her mouth and never thinks what’s she says is wrong. Never apologizes and thinks she’s one of those proper demure bible toting elders. The best thing to do is live your life Latoya have no expectations and do you. God bless Slick for loving you and your babies unconditionally. Remember appearances is everything for an island mother, we have some of those traits in us but it’s up to us to change how we speak to our babies. That stush crap is real.

[Rudeyyyy]

Diabolical for her to call a baby a bum .

[imdatchyck]

She’s miserable because she’s getting older and sees you thriving and pushing through no matter what. She is threatened by your resilience and your success. It’s okay to forgive without reconciliation. Release her in peace and with love. ❤

[TheWinningTeam]

Isn't it crazy how the only time you arr expected to tolerate these behaviours is when its your parents.

[MakeItPritty]

Bless your heart. Don't listen to that foolishness. That baby just fine. He comfy, cute, and clean. Rebuke that meanness! ❤

[patriciagrant]

Okay. I have to say this. Latoya, right after you told Slick about what your mom said about the baby ( his appearance etc.) You right away going in on Slick about his appearance . "His pants are ugly, he need to be more stylish in the gym. And, you wanted to throw away his pants" Girl, even if you're going to say that you learned to be like from your mom. If, you want to be right with God about this behavior. You probably need to check yourself as well. The best part about you, is that you are a great mom, I've seen that for years in you. Don't allow ANYONE to take that away from you. As for your mom. I look at it as her problem. things she may have to work out for herself. Some people can't admit when they are wrong. You need to have a long talk with her to set some boundaries.

[kaya]

Latoya, you are blessed that you had a great mother figure in Grandma and still have a fantastic mother figure in Auntie Jillian. It has always been so obvious to us how influential and supportive Grandma, Grandpa, Auntie Jillian, Uncle Warren, and the rest of your paternal family has been in your life. I know it doesn't make the toxicity and trauma from your biological mother hurt any less, though. We all want good relationships with our actual parents, but sometimes, our actual parents are not capable of providing that, and at some point, we have to just pray for them and let them go for the sake of our own mental health and for the sake of raising our children far better than our parents raised us, which you are doing.

You are a FANTASTIC and loving mother. Every time I see you with your children, I always say to myself how awesome you are as a mother. Your kids LOVE you genuinely, and it shows. You give your kids what you probably dreamed of having in a mother yourself. In a way, you learned from your own mother how to be this great mother because you were shown exactly what NOT to be. She says these negative things to you about your motherhood because she's projecting. She knows she has not been a good mother to you, and she wants to make you feel the way that she feels. Some relationships are just beyond repair, especially if the other party refuses to do the work to repair it. It doesn't matter if they are our biological parents. It doesn't give them the right to constantly disrespect and hurt us. They should know better as parents.

I really want you to find peace and happiness. Distancing yourself from your mother and accepting things for what they are may be the only way to do that. I really do wish you could have a mother who wants a good, non-toxic relationship with you because I know that's what you want. It's what we all want, but I don't know if she's capable of that, and it will just continue to do more harm to you. She probably has a lot of unaddressed childhood trauma herself, but that's not an excuse to continue hurting you. You are her literal child. She should know better. You do not deserve that, and I hope you really realize that one day. I am always praying for you and your family. Love ya, girl! From an OG hunty who has been through this as well!

[kcurlz]

Slick is so chill, his advice was perfect. Sometimes it’s not worth giving attention to certain situations, especially when they are reoccurring. Just have to give people over to God and pray for them continually for HIM to change their hearts.

[priscillaa]

An adult with a Southside ponytail!! 😂😂😂 Slick!!

[myacool]

So many Caribbean mothers are this way towards their daughters. I deal with the same thing. Sending love and light sis.

[ceez]

Shout out to you LaToya!!! I see you breakin those generational curses. It's very challenging, but when your babies are older it'll be the greatest joy ever!! We support you girl, even when it's painful and you feel alone but you don't tell anyone, yo hunties is thinking of u and sending u love n support.

[talissa]

Slick’s view was absolutely right. As someone that works within the field of mental health I agree that different disorders can be linked to challenging behaviours. But I also agree that it should not be used as an excuse, Debbie’s grown enough to seek help and learn appropriate communication tools. Not poor Yari catching strays, he stays cute😂😂. Latoya your growth is real but imo forgive, forget and let go.

[jasmineador]

You blushing when Slick was complimenting you☺️ lol so cute

[emeldakadema]

Choose peace that's all I can say