Stop Worrying About Failure

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Dr. K’s Guide to Mental Health explores Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, and Meditation

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[mord]

“ it is a curse to get something right the first time” – Robert Green

[hassassinator]

LMAO THE ENDING. A lot of ppl are gonna be confused abt this

[grtbobo]

I don’t worry about failure anymore, because I’ve failed so much that now, failing is just another Tuesday for me.

[NobodyReallly]

The funny thing tho "to truly protect yourself from failure is to never try" which to do in practice is arguably, a failure in the highest form.

[Zalmithius]

"The longer you live, the more you fail. Failure is the mark of a life well lived. In turn, the only way to live without failure is to be of no use to anyone." - Hoid, Oathbringer by Brandon Sanderson

[SkyBearial]

I really appreciate how he attributes the possibility of the book not doing well to himself writing a bad book and not other people not liking it. Feel like it says a lot about him as a person

[Kulgia]

"Kids, you tried your best and you failed miserably. The lesson is, never try."

[MrMultiHillo]

Failure is not to give it a shot.
When you give it a shot, whatever happens, you can be glad you tried your best. But if you don’t even try, that shit will haunt you the rest of your life which hurts way more than not making bestseller or whatever the project would have been.

[natecw]

"Hockey is a game of mistakes. The only people who don't make mistakes are the fans in the crowd."

Patrick Roy

[gytisbl]

Wow. Dr. K is putting gems of psychology in such a short format. The ending was 👌💯

[Dutch_is_a_Weird_Language]

Gotta admit: I always feel the worst when in the proces of doing an assignment, extra if it's high stakes or it progresses slowly. But once that thing is sent for evaluation, that pressure is *gone*.

[dend]

Protecting yourself from the possibility of failing by ensuring that you are definitely failing by not trying, means the failure itself isn't what you're truly afraid of

[Evilevilmonkeyy]

If you never try, u still fail at the bigger picture and that’s a worst kind of failure

[dylan]

Dr K I really love your videos. They get the point across basically every damn time. Thank you for what you do...

[marilember]

Dr K you are changing my life with your channel. I'm so grateful ❤

[xymos]

Agreed.

There are extreme exceptions to his words, but that's another matter.

[meinishikawa]

To be more specific, practice selective attachment. People get crushed easily when setting their expectations too high. Life is like when I first started skateboarding, YOU WILL FALL and bust your ass all the time there's no way around it. However, once you accept the risks and stay persistent you will end up doing a kick flip eventually. If the process is too frustrating for you, find another way to have fun/succeed.

[El_Wlad]

Reading his book at the moment, good points that I had never thought of. Also good advice on communication technique, not just for the game-addicted child. I'm more aware now how i communicate with my child.

[leialuminous]

Worry is pointless, we can't control others, only how we handle it. Concern may be allowed, but again, we can't control how others interpret us, if we like it, why should it matter what others think?

[Heheikki]

I really needed this right now. Thank you, perfect timing.