How I Teach My Kids to Challenge the System

In this clip from The Kelsi Sheren Perspective, I discuss how I teach my kids to challenge the system.

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[stevenlowe]

Hierarchies are reality. Kids should be taught to play the game convincingly without buying into it internally.

[JohnDrummondVA]

Teaching kids Self-Authorship is definitely a win.

[jeffreydamonte]

I would totally buy an Everyday Spy guide to kids. More on what skills, idea, and resources you all use please.

[hansmortensen]

On the topic of homework, I learned late in college that my grades increased when I did fewer problems, I would choose the 2 most comprehensive problem sets that had the final solution in the back of the book then work those problems until I discovered the right answer, this often involved redoing the problems 2-5 times. The results were fantastic. I was nearly failing for the first 2 years and made the deans list in the last 2 years. I hope this encourages someone who is struggling with the volume of problems often thrown at us by professors.

[grafxgrl]

Your kids can be respectful and call their elders sir and ma’am without being victims. It’s all about boundaries, and living feeling based will be their downfall.

[Spookdog]

I taught my son to respect people but that doesn’t mean they can’t lose that respect. I do believe there has to be an authority figure in the classroom and the lack of one and the lack of respect in the classroom for teachers today is a big problem. That being said I told my son not to be afraid to question teachers and provide proof of what they are saying. I also told my son if a teacher is only giving one point of view be aware the attempt of trying to influence you. As far as Amanda how much of that was earned respect vs acceptance over time. I once bought a car that I said was the ugliest color I’ve ever seen I’d never own that thing. The color grew on me and I owned the car for twenty years.

[Jakobeejaylen]

In ninth grade I was hospitalized by the school bully. Almost died but still picked myself up as I changed my tragedy into someone beaten but not broken 💔

[bruceallen]

I agree with this, you should be able to read and write and do basic math after that whatever it is you want to learn about should be up to you. One of the things that I've noticed in my lifetime is how many people go to college for four years spend all this money and never ever work at a career that had anything to do with their college schooling. most of the time their college degrees never even pertain to what they do today. That fat college bill haunts them more than anything.

[daliasworldschoolingcalabria]

This is so true! That's why I homeschool my child

[thinktank]

How does that work for jobs? My management isn't going to wait for me to have them earn their authority?

[andreafong]

I think the choices to optimize education for each individual child are fantastic. I’m interested in your approach modeled on the higher economic level of a private teacher as I’ve seen it tried in a more general frugal manner as in some educational philosophies.

[pikebishop]

Andrew, you cares about your kids more than anything, which is natural, I don't contest it, but don't say you don't care about geopolitics after hundreds videos of geopolitics when you explain to us, why it is necessary that is utterly necessary for the US to bully the world. Also, learning to your kids the spirit to challenge the conventions after praising the sheep's virtue of the US society...
Respect for your candor though.

[MDpart]

How about the tax authorities? How can we ignore them? Asking for a friend.

[DoubtfireClub]

I will give you a dollar if you write a book about this and I would pay $29.95 for a book about this

[RayPointerChannel]

The problem with home schooling is that it is only as effective as the knowledge of the parents. If the parents were poor students, how can they be effective teachers? While most people through life experience should have an amount of valuable knowledge, this does not necessarily apply to everyone. There are some reasons for having structure in the classroom. It prepares them for becoming adults where there are responsibilities. Carrying out an assignment is the same as doing a job. And developing the habit of carrying through on assignments teaches that this is fulfilling a promise. Many times it has nothing to do with "how someone feels" about it, especially when it is for someone else. In this, there is the value of empathy towards other, and establishing a sense of ethics, or doing what you agreed to do. So there is some merit to this.

[MrMikeV]

1:31 That's a much better way, I believe. I had it impossed on me growing up so much that I had to respect other peoples authority no matter what. I became an easy target because of this. I was way too accepting and set almost no healthy boundaries for myself, and I tell you what. It's a shet fight establishing boundaries when no one respects you because you were to easy later in life. Suddenly, you go from disrespected to the devil. Confusing time in my life that was.

[R.Merkhet]

Key: "allow them to earn respect "

[CharlesAlexanderJr]

This is an awesome idea to break up the mindset from the authoritative state that we have gotten ourselves into and unknowingly push upon our children.. Granted no form of public service, including first responders, is ever needed.
Respect.

[sarahhuyler]

Is there a development system that is can apply, as a format, that I be can apply?

[huiajoy]

This is awesome the world is a smaller place fantastic