Is Secret Nikah Valid? | Secret Marriage in Islam | Mufti Menk

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[BingoBinjin]

Whoever reads this please pray for me I get married this year. Ameen!

[Misskisskiss]

I am getting married in 1 month 🥰 Nikah here we come just my love and I and our union ❤

[michellesimpson]

Thanks for sharing this information 🙏 people only hide when they have something to hide 😊. Allah is most merciful

[bunnygirl-]

whoever is reading this, may Allah bless your nikkah. may your whole family accept it may you successfully get married this year and also have children soon.

[aikaadmi]

The whole point of the walima is to announce the marriage and not keep it secret

[Treats]

Please pray for me for my marriage..May Allah grant us spouses who will make us go close to deen..As life lived in spirituality is better then living life with stress

[saimayousuf]

Thank you so much for sharing May Allah bless you....

[jamillalambat]

Shukraan Mufti for enlightening us on this topic Allahuakbar

[lostcause]

I married my husband as soon as I moved to his area and for the first six months he didn't want to tell anyone other than the witnesses. He told me I could not tell anyone and I was very scared something was very wrong with him and I will regret my marriage. I started to get marriage proposals and such from others and family members of people looking for a wife. I took their numbers because I couldn't tell them I was married. I showed him all the numbers of the people wanting to marry me and he was furious, but I was forbidden from telling them I was married. Finally, he told me he is so scared of the evil eye on our marriage because so many men in our area want an american wife so they can get citizenship. Since he married me (an american) he knew they would think he married me for that purpose. Well, if he did I guess I cooked well enough to make him stay. He had his citizenship for years and now he doesn't hide he is married to me. He was SO CLOSE to a divorce though, because I felt like he had pulled me into something bad and I didn't know what it was. Oh, people still say he is married to me for citizenship, so he was right. Even more that a decade later they are still saying it.

[Riley_bacon]

A proper men will do a nikkah by telling everyone.

[bahriaproperties]

The women wali is a must. No marriage is valid without a wali.
No marriage is valid without a wali
No marriage is valid without a wali

[skellingtonmeteoryballoon]

Public nikkah is more valid than secret muta dahman dahman. See Q. Surah 5:29

[assmainamdar]

Got an answer to my question.. I was struggling to find my insight.. now m guided n can take better decision inshaallah

[ArshiyaJabeen-ii]

Please pray for me to get married soon.My parents are worried aloads because of this

[rosliahmad]

Its true from the Mufti point of view. However with the temptaion environment, one may ask, will the delay cause the couple to fall in zina trap? One big reason for a couple to wed is to prevent such sin. Desires are no joke .

[nghani]

Subahanalla. First time I hear the flexibilities in Islam. Like this, many flexibilities should be for Islamic women in education, job, dress code, etc.,

[kathymiller]

Let’s be happy people wanting to be married instead of not marrying. Marriage should be the easiest and the simplest thing. Let’s make it so easy and effortless so that every one can marry because in this day and age, you can live as a married couples without marriage. If they will sit between them and agree and do it in the presence of Allah and him giving her the Bride price. Wallahi it is valid.

[MuhsinLaskar-MBBS]

"If your family is not allowing you to marry a person you love because you are too young and too close to Zina, then I think a secret marriage is the best option to avoid Zina. After you become older, you can then tell your family that you are married."


Am I wrong??

[faizeleckstein]

Aslm Algamdoeliellah. It's correct what Mufti say the wisdom by this is to avoid gossip.

[rosannatimars]

Marry them with the permission of their families and give them their due as is good, chaste women, neither fornicators nor secret mistresses.

Surat al-Nisa 4:25.


Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:

أَعْلِنُوا هَذَا النِّكَاحَ وَاجْعَلُوهُ فِي الْمَسَاجِدِ وَاضْرِبُوا عَلَيْهِ بِالدُّفُوفِ

Announce this marriage publicly, conduct it in the mosque, and strike the drums for it..

The difference between an unlawful and lawful marriage is the beating of drums and the raising of voices..

Marriage must be announced publicly after its done but Menk says its wrong from social perspective only.

Looks like he hiself participated in it.