Why Do Guys Suddenly Disappear?

[kittylikesmilk]

Seriously, when men do this... It seriously hurts women. I wish men knew how bad this is.

[tnt]

This is cowardly and just horrible to treat another person like this. Very damaging.

[staargiirl]

In my experience he disappeared bc he got what he wanted from me, was no longer interest and found somebody else that he liked more.

[randomrandom]

The men who "suddenly" disappear, disappear because they are assholes who couldn't just give us closure and tell us the truth. I know that is "harsh" to say but I had 2 men who did that to me in my life, and when I started falling head over heels for them. At no time did they tell me "I just want to be friends, " NO instead they just vanished leaving me with a broken heart. Now I understand... if the guy continuously tells you "I just wanna be friends, " or if they straight up tell you "Sorry, not interested, I can't see you anymore." I respect that because they are respecting you and telling you the truth.. now to the DOUCHEBAGS who just leave, don't give you closure, leave you wandering and missing them.. hopefully they will get a taste of their own medicine and see how it feels XD. lol Sorry for the harshness but its so true it really does hurt and it's a really jerk move when a guy or girl does this. 

[ramngar]

I really like your videos but in this case I highly disagree. If a guy disappears let him be disappeared, forever! Unless you are willing to put up with his indecisive personality and enjoy perpetual instability. When a guy disappears only three things should come to mind: 1) He is selfish, 2) He will do it again, 3) You deserve better.

[maxilo]

Guys disapear because they can... Nobody said it was illegal or wrong to do that. Everybody hurts everybody. Everybody plays games.. Real love has died, and aint nothing or anything real anymore

[patty]

It seems like women have to walk on eggshells and wait until a guy makes a decision. Ladies, date a few guys and pick the one who is putting efforts to be with you; do not wait until he decides either you are worth investing.

[eveheart]

Unfortunately don't have time to be catching feelings. Men mentality is different .. Women are emotional. But is easy when a guy is into u is all about progression and wanting more of u. Lol I am not a fan of begging or waiting to see what happen. I just observe the signs and if I sense patterns or so many change and gaps in communication my feelings start to get turn off and I doubt things. I know that real love is a feeling u got figure out and is not confusion or pause.

[BrittneySamoneSilver]

Off topic...that bald look really works for you!

[LOADING...o.o.o]

Common sense. Even when u don't reply ur friend, that friend is going to get panic. It's just common sense. He is doing it on purpose.

[asmaal]

I hate when men do that it’s sooo hurtful

[taylortaylor]

They could disappear because of a lot of other things- like talking to another woman, an ex, stress, financial problems, and mental issues.

[janetmele]

There in another relationship but forgot to tell you.

[mr.swagily]

I “ghosted” a girl I really liked. It’s bc I could tell we were clinging to this fantasy idea that we would be in true love. Which I have been before during the talking stage it didn’t end well I wasn’t ready but I believe I wasn’t my true self and was changing too meet her ideal expectations and beliefs of who I can be instead of being my true self.
I feel that I needed space for myself to find myself and see if she compliments me at the same way around and also our happiness and drive has to come from ourselves self-love.

[iDalisMediaTV]

Its called communication...influence him...wtf....he has to say what SAY hey this is the deal...

[tesschen]

Why human cant just be honest with each other and Tell what's on their mind?

[amathest]

Wow cool stuff. i have been talking to a guy and we were getting on just fine i was stroking his ego' and i meant it tho! we laughed alot, he agreed to everything i said, he laughed at all my jokes, he does more then he should. Even he admitted that we laugh lots and we have fun and now he has pulled away Ahhh! Text messagers are short, and when i praise him he does not respond the way he use to..crappy.

[victoriaalexander]

Geez. I panicked. Wish I found this yesterday. * palm to forehead*

[lunarl]

I watched this and many others, yet this is the ONLY video that gave advice. The others were either put downs or explaining the males mind frame without stepping into the empathic shoes for us whom are confused.
Thank you so much.

[taylortaylor]

Why are men giving and wanting numbers but do not call? What’s that about?