5 Tips To Get Your Child To Listen Without Yelling

It's hard to get children to listen. And we have a tendency to yell and stress ourselves. Here are 5 tips based on the Principle of Self-Government on how you can get your child to listen.

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:55 Getting your Child to Listen (Yelling Not Included)
01:43 Your Heart in the Right Place
02:54 What do you say?
03:27 Steps that ANYONE can FOLLOW
04:23 What Skills to Equip your child?
06:23 Don't leave them in the dark
07:45 Recognize the moment
08:24 Calmness
09:15 FREE GIFT!
09:41 BONUS TIP!
11:59 Learn more

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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?

Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system — Teaching Self-Government — can help you turn chaos into calm.

"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.

Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.

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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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[yamunajolicoeur]

You deserve to win an award for your advice all of this works I used it and wow 👌

[varshahpink]

Thank you mam. I watched this coz my 6 year old told me . I dont like it when you are loud.

[gabriellepalandy]

I believe that calm talking really does work because when I think of each time my father spoke to me it didn’t take much and I did listen every time

[abetterme]

Blessings! I am a single mom of 4 and struggling. This house is crazy and I find myself yelling A LOT! My 6y/o now yells when he’s upset. I really need guidance but funds are low right now. I don’t know what to do at this point. Any advice would help.

[brandywagers]

When I started trying to be calm... when I would take a step back from one of my screaming children or go outside take a breath or pray.
They follow me. Screaming, throwing themselves down, crying. I can't get away. When that happens I usually loose it. If I'm not naturally a calm person how do I avoid essentially acting like a toddler and having a freak out moment? 😢

[yamunajolicoeur]

EXCELLENT DROP THE SUBJECT YES YES YES LET IT GO LET IT GO...💕💜🙏🙏🙏

[annegriswold]

Thank you so much! So much valuable information!

[Tsiontsegey]

Nickly I love you, I wish I found you earlier to have those skills, my 6 years son start to progress. Than you

[ZoeDlamini]

4 Basic skills
1. Following Instructions
2. Accepting no answers and criticism
3. Accepting consequences
4. Disagreeing appropriately

[Lerato_M]

What happens when I didn’t do all this Pre work? When things are bad and I need corrective measures in place?

[kristinyaekelnegley]

How can you not take it personally when you realize the way they are acting is because you have been lacking in a parenting area? (Asking seriously)

[crystalmeadows]

Can you tell me where you put that free tool for parents to learn to be calm in the moment

[terriporraz]

I have a 15 year old that hits me and it's the walls and tries to run away he has autism they put him on medication and put him in facilities and he came out even worse I don't know what to do do you have any advice before he comes home he is going to be saying there for 3 months he could not accept consequences I have your book and I've been with your courses but it's not working I need to learn how to save more calm but it's hard when he's not calm and he is saying bad words to me and hitting me what do I do

[sohelpmee]

I was with you until you started regurgitating that coersive and abusive line of teaching that emotions don’t lead to truth but to bondage. There’s a lot of science that explains how and why this is false and harmful. Brene Brown has a lot of helpful insight as to how and why that’s the case. Check out Atlas of the Heart.
Bye.

[oxanashatrova]

Omg! Too much info, she gave me headache.