3 Girl Tips I Wish I Knew Sooner: Dating Edition pt. 2

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[BlvckAmericana]

Don’t post him on social media until you’ve been married for 40 years and he just passed away.

[ME-vrqi]

Don’t ever forget ladies “EFFORT REFLECTS INTEREST” 🤔

[marissaveloz]

Fact: people make time for who they want / for who they love. This applies for family and friends as well.

[folded_pizza]

Number 1 is also true for friends. If you're the only one trying to make time to meet the other person, or the only one who reaches out, just stop. If they want to be your friend they can put in some effort

[sailor]

You’ll know you found the one when they treat you differently (BETTER) than anyone ever has before!! Constantly messaging you, making solid plans to see you, introducing you to friends/ family, doesn’t hesitate asking you to be official

[tenwaystowearit]

And if he’s only active talking and texting during business hours he’s married or has a family. They usually go silent around 8pm then hit you with that “Good morning beautiful.” again around 7am. 😂

[magnusbane]

Girls please listen to her. Even the ones who are the most optimistic and the biggest hearts, if you believe his dumb excuses that he's too busy and shit like that, you're just plain DELUSIONAL! I've been that very same person. And I used to fall for whatever he used to tell me.. the pain and all that waiting wasn't worth it. When I met the man of my dreams, he told me he was gonna show me with actions. And he does. I never beg or ask for his time and attention, his love, care and affection. If a guy really loves you, his actions will show. He will prioritize you and make time for you no matter what and NOTHING will be an excuse. Being with my man right now, I just have one regret, why didn't I leave that toxic ass sooner!

[PaulEllisBIGDATA]

Amen sister!!! PUT no one but your fiancé or husband on social media.

[letsgetfittogetherp]

She’s right and always remember if he can betray someone his married to or with he will most likely eventually do it to you

[THELOVELYBAD]

I can’t with you running in plain clothes on the treadmill!!! 😂Love your energy!

[dannamals]

Thanks babe, we’re over anyways and he means nothing to me now. It was a 2 1/2 year relationship and it was honestly crumbling because of him and I was just too attached to realize it. I feel free now and though it hurts a bit to not have him around, I know I deserve someone who will actually put effort in and not be a waste of my time. I’ve been healing for the past few days and honestly, I’ve never felt better! I Can focus on myself and improve my self love and look for someone else that knows what they want as well as have what I need :)

[Truthfreesandheals]

love the way she disappears and reappears everytime😂

[Mrscarricom]

Adult tip: Never think about the embarrassment of a failed relationship. If your first thought about a failed relationship is what would others think, you don't love yourself enough. A failed relationship is better than wasting time you can't get back, and it's definitely better than a funeral.

[jessekafoxx]

My husband was replying a lil too fast and was around me too much in the beginning. On day 3 I had to double check that he had a job because he was always available lol

[marklamlam]

She's right about people make time for the one they want

[cheeckypeach]

Her facial expression in the beginning, I'm dying 😂💀

[immunityvi]

With number one though… I can’t be asking for a man to provide if he’s not WORKING and getting busy getting bread to provide. Like, you can’t have a man that has all the time in the world and well off in the same time unless he’s a cryptogeek or internet scammer. Gotta understand that, ladies. I’m busy myself and my man is too. We strike balance and understand each other. So if my man busy, I don’t immediately dump him. I understand that he’s working to provide for us.

[halroxdynasty]

I know this doesn't apply to everyone, but not everyone is ignoring you because they "don't want you" or "don't like you that much"...a normal person, sure, but I struggled with mental health problems for years, namely depression and anxiety. It makes me not want to deal with people, even those closest to me and those I really do want to see. Even more recently I struggled with bipolar, and it made it even harder. I had a boyfriend and we would hang out a few times a week. When I was really struggling with medication stuff, I wouldn't be able to respond to his texts or explain, I was really avoidant. It doesn't mean I didn't care about him. Life isn't that black and white, even though in general I agree with what she's saying.

[playcousin]

If he is always actively texting when he is with you and take 2-3 days to return your text he might not be that into you.

[claudiahazlewood]

Girl, not the dryer !!! Dwl 🤣😂🤣🤣🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲♥️