Recovery Dangers - Part 3/10 - Sitting In The Unknown

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[anikalee]

I really need this because I'm in procrastination mode. I now understand. Thanks you so much

[LiLi-knxt]

I paused twice when listening to this one. I am very triggered, lots of flash backs about the feeling of walking on the egg shells...fears, unknown, uncertain, anxious, full of emotional neglects and abuse, physical abuse as well.

[LilMsLorelei]

Reiterating what you said: as a child living in an unsafe home environment, you’re often in danger several times a day and so your day is filled with scary unknowns. Often you were unable to resolve what was going on. So you learned that unknowns = going into fight, flight and/or freeze… as adults, we then do it automatically when we count encounter an unknown.

Great explanations Tim, and so true! Thank you for your work.

[jackperry]

this is good. seriously 19:00 is amazing, helps me get out of this situation. I've lived in this for YEARS. Just desperately hoping someone can get me out of my own uncertainty. Insanely irrational, emotional thinking. Can't talk or problem-solve.

[staciehulm]

Interesting. I've had issues making snap decisions in uncertain situations in order to control outcomes, even if the outcomes weren't favorable. Good to know that my reactions are quit normal for someone who lacked control and grew up in an unsettled environment. Now, learning to trust God and sit in the moment wthout making rash decisions. Not easy, but doable. Thanks again, Tim!

[anjknelson]

Oh I can relate with house renovation. I lived in construction zone of kitchen and living room for these 12 years, with a divorce that was started then cancelled in 2015 then now that the kitchen is in an almost done stage, no more plastic sheets, dry walls on the ceiling and walls put back, painted, door and window frames done, he started another divorce, even wanting to go without the attorneys. After all these years he's got a good paying job that's so close to home, he is still in the anxiety mode. I am all done having lived in squalor. The arm of wickedness must be broken now. God loves me more than He hates divorce.

[edinacsaki]

Thank you so much for your hard work and helping us! You are one of the great man who serve others!God Bless! I love the Bible part!😍

[jackperry]

the stuff about the lymbic system is great.

[caseylabelle]

I am so happy these days, I can smile at these videos even get a little chuckle at points…it wasn’t long that I had to stop for anxiety attacks learning about these things. What a journey! Thank you Tim and team. Big hugs!

[Productionandmixing]

I appreciate the truths you teach us! Thank you for your work!

[emilianoherrera]

Really love this, deserves a lot more views. It will happen eventually.

[yourenough]

I can so relate with this! As always love these talks. Hope everyone is ok.

[Cheesycat]

Unknown=pain
Wow. Yes.

Anxiety today is not rational. It's the past.

This is trauma. Wow

I'm in the process of leaving my narcissist. It's scary. I know it's going to be better than the abuse. The uncertainty is the hard part. The not knowing exactly what will happen. I'm trying not to seek fortune tellers. Its too much to put on someone.

[AnnLaustsen]

I feel like this video isn't just for people dealing with complex trauma. It's for everyone right now.

I was in mortgage forbearance and am still unemployed. Now I'm battling the bank to get the back balance due added to the end of the mortgage. But it's going to take 4 months for the process to be completed. It's been a little over a week and I am so tired.

[MrBrunoUSA]

I am the introvert's introvert: I have been doing Social Distancing since my age was in single digits!

[AncientIntegrations]

My thing is people aren’t coming up to me and I’m completely unwilling to approach them because they behave like they’re doing me a favor. We’re in a position of exploitation.

[charlene]

I'm sorry but as you describe this biblical stories to me it sounds like the people's complaints were valid. Anyone going with out food are gonna be angry. I don't find their complaints "irrational."

[lisbethbird]

Tim, now we're really sitting. In "the unkown". I'm still looking forward to this, so, could someone fix sound?

[Elcee-ct]

He's talking but there's no sound....

[HelenDriggers-lmcj]

I'm the granddaughters to people who served in the military and ministry of God christ and my uncle died was navy and schizophrenia and ministry of God christ and my two grandchild are in the military now enrich Lynn McKenzie army and William connor McKenzie marine I have prophet es in my jounel entry HELEN Marlene Evans DRIGGERS prophetess and Ellen Darlene Evans prophet es in my jounel entry Marlene is a derivative of Mary magdalene and I used to have syncope like seizures and schizophrenia and my uncle died was navy and schizophrenia and ministry of God christ or pzyziphenia same thing