How to instantly build rapport with others

This technique is similar to matching and mirroring but instead of focusing on mirroring the other person's body language, you're mirroring their vocal foundations, ie. their volume, rate of speech, tonality and pitch.

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[alexanderwhitney]

Little did I know they only talked fast because they thought I talked fast and now we're in an ever increasing battle of volume and speed. What have I done?! 😂

[dooderman]

For the longest time I’ve thought I’m a fake person and I’m not real because I act and talk a bit different when I’m with different people, but I no longer have that fear. Being yourself doesn’t mean being the same monotone voice all the time, it just means expressing yourself contextually

[LaReinaHealsHearts]

Match the energy when it’s positive, don’t when it’s negative. Matching a persons energy creates a sense of familiarity there for, connection

[No-jsbs]

Matching energy is pretty difficult, especially as an introvert. Non the less your right. It is critical. This was a good reminder. Thank you

[dedeborya]

Mirror & Match - tone, volume, speed, energy, distance, and body language

[link-kun]

This explains why I get really annoyed and can't get along with some people I've met. We just don't share the same vibe.

[Andy_Diep]

Mirroring is a great way to build rapport quickly with people. I noticed some comments asking "Why do we need to change ourselves to match others?"

The answer is you don't, but you are watching shorts on teaching communication with others. Apply what you have learned here or don't. You will only become a better person for it if you do. It is that simple.

[ltillman]

Wow this level of communication takes time and effort. I never realized these things. the Best part is he's right! These techniques are really helpful. When he speaks- I listen. And I'm working on having the same effect on others.

[johnnulf]

I agree with the concept of harmony but I think it’s best to let it happen organically in a way that brings both people in towards each other instead of one person trying to flex themselves all the way to match the other.

[VishalMCreates]

When you resonate with people, that's when you build rapport.

[LuisXGP]

First couch that actually teachs something useful in shorts

[GaryTheExpert]

One thing I learned about being in harmony or rapport speaking on stage,
If your feeling nervous, the audience can feel that… Now here’s the kicker… that is a form of connection!! Boom! Your actually in harmony… Now, don’t stay there in nervousness, that’s the next lesson 👀

[aggi]

This is what I use every day without thinking about it and it has gotten me in with so many different people

[OfficialChikezie]

I’ve never heard such a clear and concise explanation of code-switching.

[TimzshotsPhotography]

This skill has helped me to realize, understand why you need to be in harmony with a person.

[doraliddy]

You are an absolutely brilliant person, Vinh!!! I love your posts! Thank you!!! 👌

[brycelynch]

The best advice I’ve found for boosting your rizz

[randomthingsthathappened]

Thanks! This is amazing advice! I love your videos!

[juliannacolombo]

From many years of bartending, I am very comfortable striking up conversations. Your content, in just a few minutes of browsing, has taught me so many tips for taking my communicating skills to the next level!
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