NARCISSISTIC MOTHERS ARE EMOTIONAL BULLIES/LISA ROMANO

#narcissistic #narcissism #mother Narcissistic mothers are emotional bullies and learning to heal your life, requires that one learns to feel their feelings. However, narcissistic mothers brainwash a child to disown what they feel. Often, adult children of narcissistic parents deny what they feel and focus entirely on how their narcissistic parents feel.

In this video, adult children of narcissistic parents speak out. I apologize for the poor video/audio quality. This video was recorded when YouTube first started its live streaming. If you are the child of a narcissist, you may appreciate this video. I hope it helps you feel seen!

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[vitravegastarsystem]

This is so true for me. My whole life I put up with my mom's emotional abuse and neglect because I felt sorry for her. My brothers say to this day they love her because she's the parent that stayed. Anyway I never truly processed my feelings or acknowledged how toxic the relationship with my mom was until I experienced a traumatic loss. I started going to counseling 7 years ago out of desperation and attended recovery groups 4 years. I have a half sister at home still who is 17. It's been devastating to watch mom repeat her neglect and abuse with my sister. I used to think it was my job to fix and protect her. It would trigger my depression and anxiety so bad. I gave up seeing my family all together for about 3 years now. I stopped letting my mom babysit my daughter as well. I still don't feel strong enough emotionallyto be around my mom and not seek her validation. I really feel scared of her. Just how much pain she causes me and how It effects me so much. I definitely have that programming of not being able to stand up to her, so I just avoid her at all costs.

[ainsophaur]

My mother is a social worker and a narcissist. I feel like I’m constantly trying to prove myself or justify how I feel and think. I know she knows better… that’s what hurts

[amandadunn]

Thank you for this Lisa! My Mom causes me so much pain! When I told her there was a issue with my baby girls heart (I'm 7 months pregnant) and we had to see a specialist she just said "oh well". But she will get moved to tears and so upset by the people on the reality shows she watches. That's just one example. She loves to make me feel worthless and insignificant. Literally will chase me down to upset me and won't stop till I'm a crying broken mess. Then she will laugh at me when I'm tears. I've even had suicidal thoughts because of how she makes me feel. I plan to raise my daughter knowing her self worth and knowing her feelings matter! My Mom isn't welcome in my life anymore.

[zofiajaneczek]

Lisa that’s so sad. 😞Unfortunately my mother did the same to me, literally chasing me down to get a reaction out of me. She generally kept going at me until I was a hysterical crying and screaming mess. I remember pleading to be left alone that never helped as she just kept running me into the ground with even more voracity. It was so terrifying. Later on she would blame me for my hysteria and overreaction. Blamed me for my bad behavior that made her even more angry. I was labeled as an angry and problematic child.

[tommiller]

We existed to take care of Mom. Often she would respond, "I can't take this right now." Once, when I was an adult, I answered, "I can't either." Wish I had stood up for myself like that more.

[girlrey]

This is EXACTLY what they do! They keep arguing until you feel pain just from conflict even though conflict can be healthy.

[kittycruz]

I always explain my answers! I hate that I feel (shame) compelled to always do that.

[creator]

I had an experience the other day when someone asked about my finances.
Really. I just said, "uh, I would rather not talk about that right now."
Holy cow. I never ask people about their finances because it's non of my business and, I really do not care about someone elses finances.

I like what you did with Miss Snoopsalot. Really, we aren't even obliged to answer.
Do what they do, lie and then when they come back to you, say you don't remember sayingthat. For the Really Nosy Parkers.
I have one or two like that at work.
As a matter of fact, it could be half an hour or five minutes after you walk in the door, they are drilling you with questions. It feels like a job interview. Entitlement to know your business.
Omg!!

[creator]

Narcissists think they have the right to cross your boundaries. They don't see you as a human with your own mind. Also, they don't want you to feel better about your life.
And, they will do what they can to stop this process.
So, if getting their validation means going downhill, i do not need it from them. I have to validate myself.

[TheIllestNails]

Yes I would definitely make excuses for my mothers behavior. I would just blame myself. Like for everything that would happen being the parentified scapegoat it was normal for me to just think of it as my duty to be everyone’s emotional slave.

[larisabolivar]

Wow. I never even consider codependency and really the only reason I stayed in contact with my toxic family was out of feeling bad for them but they have ZERO empathy for me. My whole life and trauma was minimized and I suffered through MASSIVE gaslighting at the expense of my mom and siblings, her flying monkeys. I have been no contact for a couple of years and have never been happier and healthier. It took many many years of therapy to heal from the emotional abuse and from the negative self talk as a result of my upbringing and emotional abuse and manipulations, aka bullying. This is profound. Thank you.

[felineaura]

Codependency ruined my life. I'd be so far behind if not for your videos Lisa ty so much you changed my life and my 3yo daughter too. Im 27 and so thankful i know why i am this way. THANK YOU!

[mezzymoon]

My "mother" was abused by her alcoholic mom and sexually abused by her step dad and she always swore she would be the absolute BEST mom She was so obsessed with my sister and I as babies and she did only the absolute BEST for us!!! Then when we were about 11 and 9 she found Jehovah's witness religion and started to become very very strict and seemed to even be angry that we were getting older. She would always tell us about the horrible life she had and she would cry and tell us how good we have it. She ended up leaving us at the age of 14{myself} and my sister was 12. She left us and never came back. I am 41 with 4 children and I have not seen her since. She has never seen my children. I have suffered so long it's mind blowing. My heart has been in the most pain and my life has been very very hard because of the abandonment. I have even tried calling her work and writing her letters and she refuses it all. She told us she was leaving us before we had the chance to leave her because she couldn't bare it if we left her. The emotional abuse of this situation has ruined every moment of my life. I am now awakened and I have found extreme peace, love, forgiveness and joy. My path to finding this has been about 15 years long and year by year I am very very very healed. You Lisa are one of the healers and teachers that changed my life. Love you all and many blessings to you

[Smjourney]

Lisa, I have been listening to you daily for 2 years now. I am learning now why I keep attracting Narcissists over and over. I am learning to detach from their comments and not get so upset. I have Narcissists in my family. I am learning to set boundaries. I truly get now I need to change my programming. It's is so exciting to know. I now know what I need to do to stop this cycle. You always make me feel accepted and I get it is not my fault anymore. I now have tools to get better. Thank you so much!! I love your spunk. You are so so awesome!! You are truly an inspiration to me. I put my headphones on nightly and sleep through your videos at night to work on my programming. I am in deprogramming boot camp. Lol lol. I have been doing this behavior far too long and I will get better and have healthy relationships. You have helped me get back up when I was beaten down over and over by these Narcissists. I am a retired Mental Health Professional, and it was a huge ego buster to see it was on me to stop the cycle. I kept thinking if I was nicer and more of a people pleaser the Narcissist would change. This went on for years. I now see different. Yay!! I have tried to get help for years and only you reached me, "It's not you.. it's your programming." Nameste 💕💜💕💜💕✨✨✨🙏🙏🙏🙏. I am a recovering Empath and Codependent 😀. Susan

[hayjazzy]

Don't be afraid of sounding New York! Appreciate you...You helped me break the code.

I am the little sister who moved forward because my elder sister did. I am forever grateful. It wasn't without incident, she had to watch me fall (into toxic relationship) before getting up. It is so worth it!

[Onewaybackhome]

What a beautiful spirit / mind / energy / heart. You are a gift indeed.

[jcat]

I also knew my mom was hurting when she abused me when I was very young and I knew it wasn’t my fault so I thought her abuse didn’t affect me. Now I realize it did and I’m 53 and still working my way out of the fog

[marilynstarck]

OMG! I just found you today, quite by accident!!! This video helped me comprehend my life experiences! I’m totally focused into turning things around. I’m determined to get this 68 year old self...into a happier senior citizen! Better late than ever!!!! Thank you! Will be back to view more videos!

[laboheme]

I can't thank you enough for creating this channel. I've spent 31 years of my life wondering what was wrong with me and why my mother didn't love me. I decided to severe ties with her months ago and have been struggling with guilt concerning myself with how much I've hurt my mother.

[erainalewis]

The only time I've had a break from Mom was when I went off to college... living below the veil as you say..I am growing up from the toxicity..I didn't want to completely disappear from her life because of her age..you hit it with the mirror neurons...so much negativity had been reflected back to me..projection that would create rage in me...it's getting clearer.. but I need a break..