HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE LESBIAN

10 SIGNS YOU MIGHT BE LESBIAN! 🌈 What are the signs your a lesbian? Let's talk about how to know if you are lesbian.

**Note on Number 6: A few people are getting this mixed up. If you genuinely like men who appear slightly more feminine, you are not a lesbian since they're still men. Please don't ONLY use this sign to determine if you're gay. You must experience an attraction to women. You need to go through all the other signs to help figure out if you're lesbian.

0:00 Intro
0:32 Why I Made This Video
1:01 Uncomfy Watching Straights Kiss
1:34 Can't Imagine Yourself With a Man
2:16 You're a "Late Bloomer"
2:37 Can't Relate to Your Friends Crushes
3:10 Attraction to Feminine Men
4:05 Abstract or Unobtainable Crushes
4:29 You Don't Find Guys "Cute, Hot, Sexy etc"
5:13 You'd Live With Ur BFF
5:46 Straight Women Don't Have Girl Crushes
6:01 Ur Fave Characters are Gay
6:35 Obsessions with Women
7:20 Final Thoughts

I see everything you comment and message, thank you cuties! ♡

[laurenelloise]

**Note on Number 6: A few people are getting this mixed up. If you genuinely like men who appear slightly more feminine, you are not a lesbian since they're still men. Please DON'T only use this sign to determine if you're gay. You must experience an attraction to women, so make sure you go through all the other signs to help figure out if you're lesbian x

[lanaberisa]

another hint: you find yourself "fake crushing" on a man because you think that you have to, so you can fit in

[NatLeRat]

Wait- you're telling me, some people ENJOY those straight kissing scenes?!

[mathilden]

A big gay flag for me was realizing that I was only attracted to guys who had personality traits that I wanted for myself. Like I don't want to date you, I want to be like you

[kroozee]

I told my parents I was lesbian and since then they haven’t stopped buying me pride stuff they’re so sweet 😭😭

[blackbutterfly]

“You're only attracted to fictional men or celebrities”
**Takes off glasses** I cannot see **Takes out earbuds** I cannot hear. Therefore, these facts cannot affect me 🗿

[annitaytay]

When I was younger I always imagined my wedding dress and how i wanted it to look, but I never thought about marrying a man🤭

[sun-lmbz]

I love a girl, but here in Saudi Arabia we can't declare our love or be together, and unfortunately we don't have the money to go to countries that support homosexuality. We just live with all disappointment and fear that we won't be able to be in one house and embrace each other. Or kiss each other😔💔

[smarie]

haha I realized that straight girls don’t get butterflies when girls kiss

[OatLnu]

One time my mom went on about marrying a man that will love you, and then she said "or a women" as she looked at me. It's like she had a feeling. . . Mothers know everything. . .
Edit: holy this got so many likes, thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰. And I still haven't even came out if the closet yet🥲🥲🥲.
UPDATE: My parents, sister, and my friends all know now

[aprilmilnes]

Attracted to "feminine" men. That describes my dating life up until now. Except now I don't know that I was necessarily sexually attracted at all, I always loved snuggling/cuddling, hand holding, etc, but I didn't enjoy much past that too well. I think for years and years I told myself that that was what kissing (and other things) were supposed to be like. And still only told myself I was Bisexual because the first party with alcohol I went to, all I wanted to do was make out with one of the girls there (I never in my entire life felt that way about making out with men, I kind of just tolerated it lol). But practically every man I have dated in my 30 years of being alive, have been "feminine-looking" to an extent. And about 4 or 5 of them actually were already bi or ended up being gay later on. It makes complete sense now.

[jankinair]

Lesbian here. Been so for a while now. None of this happened to me... I grew up in a fairly conservative society. Getting into a heterosexual marraige was kind of considered a norm for me. So I did dream about it. I had "crushes" on traditionally "masculine" men. To be very honest, all of these gendered things that are mentioned are not indicators of your homosexuality. I am a complete femme myself. I love dresses and makeup and baking and women. So the only true way to find out if you're gay is to put yourself out there. To date and meet new people. Don't put yourself in a box. Be open to new experiences. You'll eventually figure it out. And if it turns out that you don't like being with a woman, that is ok too. Just because you like motorbikes, you don't automatically become a lesbian. Just because you like cooking doesn't ncecessarily mean you're straight. Just because you find a guy on TV cute doesn't mean that you would find him cute IRL (and vice versa). The only way to truly know if you like something (or someone) is to be open and honest with yourself and the other person. Try it.

[lillypopstudios]

It’s weird when I’m tv and two straight people kiss I get uncomfortable but when I see gay/lesbian people kissing I feel relaxed

[iheartts.]

i just don’t think i’m ready to admit to myself, but i might be attracted to women and .00001% attracted to men

[moonroseluv]

I am a lesbian and I’ve only had a total of 3 crushes on real life men. All 3 of them acted dressed and looked super feminine. I think one you forgot was the feeling of wanting men to be attracted to you but not necessarily being attracted to them . I still find myself doing this but as a kid if I saw a boy my age in public I would always try to make myself presentable or feel accomplished when guys noticed me. But when it came to deciding if they were attractive I always drew a blank. Another thing is if you confuse anxiety around men for butterflies. If you find yourself feeling nervous around men, especially the loud boisterous “masculine” type, and you think it’s butterflies, you might just be feeling anxious. I always found guys like that just a bit unnerving.

[anandakai]

Omg number 6 hits so hard😂😂😂😂 thanks a load

[meganb]

I DID NOT EXPECT TO GET CALLED OUT THIS MUCH

[emmaodonnell]

The biggest sign that I got was that I would notice particular girls A LOT and I would want to be best friends with them and I would try to get their attention and I would get really exited when they talked to me. I always thought I just wanted to be friends with them but those were all crushes

[stmn]

growing up i never imagined myself being married at all, like you said, it never crossed my mind. but now if i imagine dating any of the women i know i start smiling. shit

[Moodyfrogg]

This video actually helped so much. I’ve been questioning myself for so long now, and this video puts things a lot more into perspective for me. For the longest time I was scared, I think. But I relate to the majority of these points.