Do You Actually Like Them? (Even If You Don't Think So)

In this video, we're going to explore the topic of whether or not you like someone even if you don't think you do. We'll talk about how you can slowly start to fall for someone, even if you don't think it's possible. And we'll provide some tips on how to deal with the awkwardness that comes with liking someone you're not sure about.

Even if you're not sure if you like someone, this video is for you! By the end of it, you'll have a better understanding of the delicate balance of liking someone without knowing if you actually do or not. So let's get started!

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References:

Jonason, Peter. (2009). The Value of Physical Attractiveness in Romantic Partners: Modeling

[royxeph_arcanex]

I like how emphasis on each word in it turns it to a different question.

DO you actually like them?

do YOU actually like them?

do you ACTUALLY like them?

do you actually LIKE them?

do you actually like THEM?

[thefreechains]

Last one: Did you think of them while watching this video?
Me: Aw shit😂

[aComedicPianist]

You’re so popular that even your unlisted videos get watched!

[yuj]

Adrien Agreste: She's Just a frie–

[lanalowlifer]

Pros
-He’s cute
-He’s smart
-He’s funny
-I love his smile
-I love making him laugh
-I love when he sits next to me
-He makes me happy
-he gives me lollipops
-He sits behind me and I always look to see what he’s doing
-He helps me with work I don’t understand
-I actually like him

Cons
-he’s dry
-He doesn’t talk that much
-I don’t think he likes me back
-I’m leaving to another state so I can’t fall for him/ be with him :(

[ariana]

what if i don't necessarily find them physically attractive, i mean i think they're cute, but i'm more attracted to their personality and more specifically enjoy spending time with them?

[jijithecat]

psych2go: not like chatting to your best friend
me, who thinks they might have a crush on their best friend: uh-

[Anoski_Domain]

"sound familiar?" Why do I feel like I'm getting teased by one of my friends right now

[literallyyourrealmother]

For all the people out there that think their crush may not like them:

Just like Eugene from Wednesday once said, you still get a 0.1% of getting in that dream relationship.

[Yongboksbrowniesnacher]

I called my crush on my friends phone. I asked if he knew who I was and he did. He said he recognized my laugh ❤️❤️❤️❤️. I couldn’t stop thinking about that little moment. ❤❤❤❤❤

[angelsfunworld]

1 reason u like someone - ur watching this video

[EcpliseCrow]

1. 0:25 Do you find them physically attractive?
2. 1:05 Do they get you excited?
3. 3:02 Are you nervous around them?
4. 3:40 Are they the only person you think of like that?
5. 4:20 (nice) Did you think of them?

[AkiraTux]

I have a crush on a guy that sits right next to me, so I'm ALWAYS shaking and thinking he's looking at me- he's VERY attractive but we don't even know each other so he probably thinks I'm some kind of weird stalker.

[Tealeaves_k]

Not only is this a hidden video I was able to find BUT IT’S EXACTLY WHAT I NEED RN. Lucky me☺️🍀

[thecalabian]

I liked the same girl for YEARS but finally realized she wasn't somebody I wanted to have that kind of relationship with. I've had a few other minor crushes before and since, but recently I haven't had a single girl that I've tried to pursue, if that makes since. It's a really weird feeling that I thought would feel so great and free, but I couldn't have been more wrong. It's complicated, and hard to explain, it's just a lot of confused feelings going from trying to get the same girl's attention for almost 9 years to, well, not. I'm hoping it will pass over soon and I've been trying to wait patiently for someone I do want to have a relationship with.

[rickbolturd]

Kind of sad to say actually, but this comment was about me gushing over my boyfriend. Sadly today my boyfriend has broken up with me. I wish him so much luck and hope he lives an amazing life!

[grumpycatz]

tbh yall are one of the reasons I confessed to my boyfriend lmao
(context: before being a couple we were like besties but almost something else but my feelings for him weren't clear until some friends and ur vids helped a lot, came into the conclusion that I rlly love him etc etc)

[thederp]

The thing about this video is that a lot of these feelings are related to infatuation and as soon as that wears off it’s one of if not the most common reason for break ups, if infatuation is the only reason the both of you got into this romantic relationship it probably won’t last. For love you need common goals, common interests and chemistry together to make it work, you also need integrity, honesty, kindness, compassion, patience and whole bunch of effort with the willingness to be responsible. Infatuation can help push a relationship to start but if there’s no ground you can’t build a relationship on it, if you ever got a crush and gotten over them, then realised they really wouldn’t have worked, that is pretty much infatuation. It doesn’t last forever.

But hey! this is coming from a young guy that has never been in a romantic relationship before, I am not a professional relationship therapist but I would look into the whole “love” at first sight thing, because I wouldn’t want the mutually shared destruction of two people that thought they were in love, when in reality they only thought it was love because they didn’t have information of psychology and the behaviour of people just because the entire world is in love with the idea of love that isn’t love, just the feelings of getting a new toy then getting sick of it and throwing it away because infatuation can do that. Also if someone does realise that a breakup would be best please don’t hate them for not understanding and explain in great detail why, don’t leave them in the dark because confrontation is needed because both people deserve to be happy in life and I would hate people to hate other people because of an illogical reason or misunderstanding.

[Itz_Zero]

This video really helped me, because my feelings for my crush would always switch, so this really helped me understand my feelings

[TeethRock]

"why don't you explore those feelings"... Because i'm stupid and fell for someone already in a relationship