If You Feel Like You Can't Do Anything Right - WATCH THIS!

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[amandataebby]

It's just very disappointing in myself that when I say something, it's the wrong thing, my facts are never correct, I can't explain normal things the right way. I always get something wrong. I feel like there is actually something wrong with me that my mind can't grasp something accurately the first time - I have to have someone else correct me and then I'm like "Oh yeah, I did know that, but I don't know why I didn't say it right in the first place." I've always been like that as a little kid - I could never get 100% on any test or homework assignment. I always got at least 1 thing wrong even though I knew the material. Even in my work today, I never get anything right the first time and I always have to re-do the work. It is very depressing sometimes because I know things, but I can't communicate that I do.

[ritacymbalista]

What a wonderful video. My entire life was just like this. I never did anything right in my mother's eyes. Sometimes it still haunts me. She's been gone since 1997 and I'm still working through her negativity.

[poonyaTara]

This hits home because my "need" to be perfect makes me the person who criticizes myself... and not only myself.

[andriaknobel]

Definitely true of coworkers. They always seem very comfortable telling me what I am doing wrong.

[reanndonaghy]

Thank you so much, I felt like you made this video just for me!!!! After years of this, is has beat me down. The saddest thing that my son as ever said to me is that Mom you’re not the same person you used to be, a lot more carefree, and confident. My son is not the one who is doing this but he sees the effect it has had on me. 😢

[ltg]

Bless you for caring so much about your clients, and your viewers.

[skooflefloofandfriends]

My children keep doing this now that they are older...I get so excited to see them. I pick them up and the start in critiquing me and my parenting. I have been such a loving fair mom. I was having a great day I was so excited to see them today and they just critisized me the whole way I am hiding in the bathroom crying. I dont know what to even do....my heart is sad. I will go make dinner and pretend like nothing happened. But it hurts....I wish I was better....

[cooperandpriss]

I can never do anything right and I hope this helps thanks ❤️

[tamerajackson]

Omg, if I had heard this years ago, I could have saved myself from years of hurt and doubt about my own abilities and self worth. It’s one thing to hear this, it takes effort to believe it by actively negating all the negative talk with positive thoughts. But how do you do this without going too far in putting yourself on a pedestal? Don’t want to be vain. I just want to feel just as good as the next person.😳

[nelsonquinney]

You're Right Tracy And Some Peoples Are Don't Having Emotion And Some Peoples Are Don't Care About Autism, Intelligence, Obedience, Smart And Relax And But I Like Everyone In The World And Good Question Anf Thank You So Much

[justinagalindo]

Hi Tracy!!!
I really love the tone of your voice is very calm and clearly ☺ I'm learning the language, it's helping me a lot to hear and vocalize!!! Thank you so much!!! Also yours blog is really interesting all of them!!!💜💜💜
Greetings from Newport Coast Ca!!!

[meenabhatti]

Great video, I have been criticized by my spouse most of the time that I am not good at doing anything he is the only perfect person in this world.

[natasaslekovec]

Thank you so much, Tracy. I have learned so much from you and your videos. You are the best <3

[MP-fkem]

Thank you for sharing such valuable information with us. You are wonderful. I love watching your videos and so appreciate your honesty! Your willingness to share information with us so freely is such a gift. Your videos have helped me so much over the past 4 years. You Are such a beautiful person on the inside and out ♥️🌷🦋

[depresseddog]

Why cant i do anything right…? why cant be the person everyone wants me to be? why cant i be good enough. Why do i have to feel this way? why do i have to be bron like this. Why couldnt i be perfect. I hate myself and i want to die so badly.

[kaileystarr]

But what happens when a spouse critiques you and gives advice constantly, you ignore then, and then they don’t feel heard.

[lorielliott]

Hello Tracy, I haven't even watched this video yet, but I wanted to let you know that today is the first day this has come through my YouTube feed. I was surprised to see that this was filmed in May! Anyway, I'm about to watch it but I know it will great - all your videos and IG post are!

[suzanacouto]

You just described my husband to a T … in his eyes I can’t do anything right 😢

[naturespicknic]

Hi Tracy! I know you don’t have a lot of personal experience with blended families, however I love your wealth of knowledge and would love to see a video with advice on how to function in the mother role in a large blended family. I have three children and he has three children. His kids live with us 100% of the time while mine go to their fathers house three days a week. It’s small things that I feel build up over time and I take my frustrations out on my husband. For example, we have been telling his oldest daughter, for over two years, to leave my cell phone charger alone. She loses her own charger once a month. This morning I searched this huge six bedroom house for my personal phone charger until I found it in the toy room where she plugged it into her TV she brought in there. Just last week her father reprimanded her for taking my charger. It’s seems small but it’s many little things, I try to overlook them but when my phone is about to die and I’m working from home and step away from my desk for 15 minutes while on the clock, to search for something that belongs to me, for the 100th time, it becomes not so small anymore. This mom of a blended family of 8 needs help! You are the only youtuber I watch.

[lorigonzalez]

l am 46 years old . I remember my mom told me I have never done anything to make her proud . She has criticized me so many times . I’m to skinner to fat . Dress bad. She’s even said to my friends when I was younger why works they want to be my friend? My kids put me down always and As single mom who has no one but them and works every day for them two jobs fsu and night it hurts . I am so insecure I’m afraid to have friends I feel like they don’t like me or talk behind my back I don’t feel valuable at all in life I’m afraid to date because I just feel so stupid like no one would really take serious interest to me maybe just use mean I never felt good enough for anybody or anything I do have ADHD and that makes it even worse I never feel like I can get my shit together to save my life I try so hard but I isolate myself from everyone because honestly I’m afraid no one would actually really care about me and I never feel like I can do anything right I literally found your video and your beautiful face because I googled why can I not do anything right thank you for the video