If You Love Someone, Let Them Go? Does Letting Go Work?

You have heard people say, “If you love someone, let them go. If they come back, they were really yours.” But does letting go really work?

Relationship expert, Coach Lee, discusses this saying and whether it’s true or not to get back with the one you love.

If you love them, let them go? Set them free? Is that true? How do you let someone go who you love? And does letting go work to get an ex back or to restore a marriage?

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[TexasToastSam]

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” Ernest Hemingway

[jasmar]

Time, space and freedom is the best gift you can give someone. Let them experience life without you. If they wanted to be with you, they’d make the effort.

[givegodthanks]

Letting them go is sometimes your only choice, especially if they left you for someone else.

[seanj]

It’s soothing to hear someone say “it is unrealistic to just turn off emotions and feelings when they were genuine.” Remaining in No Contact is painful, but at this point, my self respect is worth more than anything. One thing I’ll NEVER EVER do again is beg someone to stay and correct their mistakes. I don’t want things to end due to the amount of love I had, but it’s out of my control. If they never come back, at least I’ve learned Im stronger than I thought…Everyone in the midst of a heartbreak, you are not alone.. I am going through it at this very moment!

[glen]

At 61 I’ve been through a lot of trials and tribulations, pain, loss, I’m well armed against loss, but moving on from a woman I’d take a bullet for is the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life, bar none, these videos help, thank you !

[JamalAlii]

To all the strong men and women out there watching this video, ignore the negative comments. You’re here to listen to Coach Lee and not to read comments and take their advice. If you TRULY love someone, hang in there. Don’t give up, not giving up is strength itself, it’s the kind of strength not everyone has.

[betherealdeal]

The most powerful way of saying I love you in this case is to give them give them what they want Time /Space use that time to work on oneself: finance health mind spirit
It hurts like a mf

[ramonvillaster]

The one who lets go first does not deserve to be chased. Loyalty is only reserved for the people who stay with you even if the attraction has faded away. That's why it's so important to love a person beyond looks. Because once the physical body no longer attracts the other person, the love and respect will carry the relationship.

[Niababy]

Anyone else feel like he is the only one who understands? Thank you sir you are helping me through devastating times!

[whitneysteed]

I'll let him go as soon as he dates someone else. Rebound or not it doesn't matter. As soon as he crosses that bridge, ours burns 💯

[paladintactical]

Coach, you are a gift from the Universe..you we're put on this planet to help the broken hearted...thank you.

[birdiecurry]

Very difficult to let go after 6 years. Journaling and listening to you coach Lee. Thank you. Stay strong everyone. One day at a time.

[messrsandersonco]

"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was." Susan Polis-Schutz wrote this 40+ years ago when I was a teenager. I remember it well.

[gymrachel]

You have to cut loose, if they want you they will return 💔

[djcaly]

"You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free." Thich Nhat Hanh

[toms]

Thank you for defending us fools who still believe in love. We have broken up before, this time she said Im not returning this time. Sorry, it was a five year relationship, I will explore all possibilities before I give up. You just cant throw ALL those years away.

[brandonlyon]

She'll always have a place in my Heart coach Lee I want to see her Happy & if that's means not being in her life anymore well.. I Love her alot

[Tabiannaxx]

If I truly love myself, I'll let him go.

[dallas]

My grandpa is no coach Lee. But he has some experience. He told me the same things coach Lee is. But he also said remember “if she wanted to, she would and if she doesn’t want to, it’s out of your hands already”

[advent]

Love is so precious. We don't know we have it until it's gone.