Being A High Value Woman Is A Myth

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[lauren]

Havent listened to this yet but the title is so aligned with my recent realizations.... its called having class not high value, everyone has value, while class is not intrinsic

[corlianoltej]

Please consider an episode of advice to women in their 20’s, aside from dating. Hobbies, habits, self care, finances, passions, jobs etc🤍

[LylaDr]

The thing is, just be authentic and try to heal your traumas as early as possible. Otherwise all this High Value/Black Cat stuff can really mess with your head and you will end up frustrated because you’re doing all the right things but not seeing any results while still being hugely affected by your trauma that is still there. I’ve been into feminine energy content since 2018, and yes it might get you some minor results here and there. But I was still being triggered and attracted to the very wrong type of men and dynamic. And let me tell you narcissists LOVE feminine energy women and you can get incredibly intense love bombing experience when they spot a delicious feminine energy woman. And it can ruin years of your life when you find yourself stuck with them. So the point is - healing traumas is the key. Forget about Black cat and other nonsense. You will attract the relationship that is good for you once you heal your wounds, your energy will shift to the ones that is authentic to you whether it’s black cat or golden retriever or whatever.

[miss.bishhhh]

What I like about you is that you don't consider women as goddesses the way so many videos do. You talk about practicality and how things actually are than sugar coat our existence. It's one thing to feel special about being women because we are unique and full of potential but it's another to consider us as some superficial being from a man's perspective. We cannot be who we want to be unless we work on ourselves. There are so many toxic feminine advices online that I almost fell for but then realised that they were destroying my mental health. I like the way you put things out there and destroy myths like these. Much love 💖

[ishtaneel]

I’m 45, single, very sexy, middle class. Teenagers ask me for tips & my mom’s new friends ask if I’m her grand daughter. I realised I’m anxious & wanted to change at 30. Healing takes long, I decided I’ll give up on babies at 37 coz I dint find a pursuer. It hurt but better than remaining an anxious. I chose to continue working on my inner child. She is became my baby. As an anxious or Co dep we easily get into toxic men. Instead of passing on toxic family trauma to next gen, it’s better to heal this life. We women shd not be obsessed with just giving birth but focus on giving d kid a emotionally healthy family & future. If we unite n not give babies to such men, they will mend ways. Babies or money must not come on d path of our evolution, neither is it Gud for d baby or society.

[Poochipup]

Wanting a relationship doesn't make one desperate Margarita. It's acting desperate that makes a person desperate.

[marisortiz]

As a single mom, I'm so tired of hearing men online talk about how no one wants us and that we aren't of value.

[trulystarr]

I’ve been chased all my life. Looks, values, intellect & personality yes men love but for the most part - they are the perpetrators, the nuts. The stable, good men aren’t online or chasing…they work, have a close circle of friends and some family, do hobbies and aren’t obsessed with the gym either but stable with great common sense. They’ve been burned like we have & stay more to themselves unless a hidden gem comes along his path. This, as a whole - are 2% of the population now. This as well - is a hard pill to swallow

[Flora-ag]

Actually, new research has been found that proves that children born to very old fathers often have health problems, related to diseases and malformations. So men themselves, if they want to have children, should start having them earlier as well. This is also important for women who want to have children, to take this into account when forming a couple.

[GentleSpiritASMR]

I think it actually is possible to be the one who's chased but at the same time kind of mesmerized with your partner and think "wow that is my man" and the chaser can be successful and high value, too

[TheElevatedWomancircle]

You're like the sister I never had! I appreciate you so much and all the hard work you put into your content.

[kellysegerson]

I love your videos, but there is a difference between being chased and being pursued. If you’re chasing something, it’s running away from you. If a man is chasing you, it’s because he’s searching for validation outside of himself. A man who respects himself is not going to chase a woman because he doesn’t need outside validation, and understands that a relationship is reciprocal. Pursuit is healthy whereas “the chase” is typical in men who are emotionally unavailable or only view women as objects they have to win.

[ShopgirlNY]

I know Matthew Hussey advises to drop the hankerchief as well, I’ve tried making eye contact, approaching guys, trying to start conversations and giving compliments and it seems like so far most just don’t know how to carry on a conversation or want to. So I have pretty much just given up on trying to focus on an outcome and going to live my life and not even try anymore.

[polinamal]

I feel like this is one of your most important episodes. These messages would be beneficial in other videos as well - specifically the part about being real with yourself and acknowledging what you actually aspire to in life. Being chased is nice, but a lot of us dont have the time or the energy to play these games.

[Just_my_opinion_]

“You see that soul across the bar? I’m gonna go talk to it” 😂

I really absolutely love this video and it has in a way brought me back to reality. I have been watching too much black cat energy. I really needed this! Thank YOU ❤

[irinasp]

In perfect world both partners are equally loving. But in reality a couple is more stable when man loves more 🤷🏻‍♀️

[MrJweb]

Very good points! A lot of online relationship content is for dismissive avoidants, not those with anxious attachment styles

[elodiegerard]

Loved this genuine video. It's all about balance in supporting each other. Each aspect of one's life is only a small percent of our personalities and I find that making a relationship successful is about finding how each one can help the other grow by completing each other. I am happily married to a great man and I often tell him I'm lucky to have him. He tells me the same thing. It's so true when you say we have to work on ourselves too. And this never stops. I find we cannot expect to get princess treatment if we don't act with kindness with our man, and you have said it in another video, which comes back to my mind regularly, we should be easy to be around, while remaining ''hard to get'', in a gentle way, in order to subtlety have him want to continue doing everything he can for us (that only works if your man is not a narcissist/psychopath. (I was married to one before). I wish everybody to be happy and to heal from past wounds. We are resilient! Have strong boundaries and be kind to one another. God bless everyone!

[pinoniks]

I was really looking for relationships in my 20's and no one ever chased me, I chased and now in my 30's I chase no one and now they chase me. Age is bs, it's better to be alone then chase, you just end up feeling stupid.

[oxford_phd]

This is absolutely true! I'm so sick of the advice out there of being the one pursued and being a black cat. I'm naturally more outgoing and take more initiative even in my friend's circle. The advice to act all mysterious, hard to get, and attracting never rests well with me. I also find it a bit rude and entitled! Men are the prize too and they're just as valuable, and there is nothing wrong with pursuing the man you want.