Definition of a High Value Woman - Jordan Peterson

Jordan Peterson defines what is a high value woman.

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[lin]

if she is the type that can say no and he is the type that can accept a no they have value. if she is the type that can't say no and he is the type that can't accept a no they have less value

[williamtanck]

I once knew a man that said he would marry the first woman who said no. and he did.

[ketherwhale]

Women of yesterday used to call the shots and do a little thing called courting. They went on dates to see if they liked the guy enough and could get to know him better to see if they were marriage material. They didn’t throw themselves at men in desperation or sleep with them off the cuff. They made serious choices as to who they felt would be a life parter not a party partner.

[elyz]

For me, it's difficult to say no because when I reject a man, often, that man insist, and insist, and it makes me feel guilty and very uncorfortable. I'm trying to be less agreable and more confident in saying no multiple times, despite the insistence, but it's not easy. Too many men I've dealt with are not able to accept rejection, and this is not good.

[reginamemoriesforever-vcql]

She is biologically, physically attractive, first and foremost, she’s fertile, and then she displays traits of maternal instinct, decency, self respect modesty, sweetness and loyalty- that’s what makes a woman high status. I’m not convinced that a woman simply saying No climbs the rank of status. Saying no is a consequence of her her traits not the origin

[qmbyshm]

“One of the biggest signs of being rich and powerful Is saying no 90% of the time” - Warren buffet

[stefansavic]

Saying no isn't enough.You must act that way.

[ludovicacastracane]

No means taking risks if revenge but is also a mark of respect

[valllerya]

To know what not to do is so, or even more, important then to know what to do. Keep high values at mind all the time, If feel in your heart "don't take it" keep it strong in your mind. Don't need to be nice. I don't know if there is a way to be nice at say no anyway... focus on you, girls! In your heart, in your values! Keep it high!

[starbright]

It is voluntary "no" on the part of women that signals their status. - JP

[Pupchipp]

And that's why men love the chase.

[kellileaneriley]

They tried buying me and I said no.. Idgaf how bad I'm doing, I AM NOT FOR SALE... who the fuck even does that shit 🤦🤦

[wackapoodle]

I think that how many men are lining up with an offer is also an indicative of her status, like even if someone is doubtful of her status, with so many others you'd be inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt.

[Amateur_Pianist_]

This is one reason why women have a higher sexual market value to men. It’s not just about pregnancy, women inherently being more picky, more good looking and socially competent, women are more content with being single. So they will say no to any man they simply aren’t into. Women aren’t desperate for financial security or anything anymore. So he has to bring more value to her life than when she’s single.

[mhd]

I couldn't trust my ex girlfriends because they said yes and they were in a relationship with me. I never thought they were high value. I only value women who say no. So now I can't have a relationship

[lyn]

A high value woman would not be at a drunken frat party. She would be out at the gym, possibly a movie by herself or take her parents out, she would be getting her proper sleep for health and skin reasons or having a cocktail with an old friend at a really great bar. A high value woman’s “no” actually means “no” so don’t drop the “not actually” into a great dialogue of describing a high value woman. You just spoke out of both sides of your mouth.

[thestorybehindthat]

Whenever I've done this they just leave.

[aditisharma-bv]

So often have i said no and the men have got so offended by that to the point the couldn't take that and became verbally abusive.
Men need to learn to handle rejection.

[mhd]

It's the same for men. Women evaluate a man's status on his ability to say no...to sexual temptation, to desperation and obsession in a relationship...and on his ability to say no when they come back to him after rejecting him

[robertsixto]

This is so weird dude. As a guy who doesn’t have problems with women, I don’t evaluate my attraction to women based on how many men they have rejected. I evaluate my attraction based on the chemistry we have, their sense of humor, their kindness and intelligence, and if I’m physically attracted to them.

The way he talks about women it’s as if he is discussing commodities and not people. I and many people who have good relationships with women don’t think of people in those terms. This is a very bad role model for boys who don’t know better and adults who never really developed healthy views of relationships.

Rejection is a natural part of dating. It just means two people are not a fit for each other. I’ve been rejected and I’ve done rejecting. Usually it’s less about status and more about personal preferences and standards. You should not take it personally. Take any person who has had an active dating life and you will find they’ve been rejected many times, man or woman. If you dwell on rejection and take rejection to be a sign of your own personal worth, you will never move past it. You may even come to resent the person who rejected you and see them as a representation of all women. On the other hand, if you remind yourself your own view of yourself is what’s most important and you work on yourself and keep putting yourself out there you will likely find a person who is a better fit for you than the person who rejected you. Also, unless the person who rejects you does it in a mean spirited way, dont feel resentment for the person who rejected you. It can be hard to let someone down and just because they don’t want to date you doesn’t mean they think your awful.

Also, When people say no means no they are talking about the importance of consent. Women don’t want to be sexually assaulted or raped against their will. No one is making value judgements about a womens worth because of her ability to fight off a creep.