How To Flirt Without Being Creepy

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Hey there and welcome back to my channel. Those if you don’t know me, my name is Kate Spring. And I’m in dating and relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. As you can tell by the title of this video, we’re going to talk about how to flirt without being creepy.
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1. The “You-Caught-Me” Glance:
The first point of contact to make with any woman with whom you’re trying to flirt is to make eye contact. Or, the best way to get her attention is to get caught checking her out or glancing at her. Try to do this subtly, you’re glancing at her, not staring at her. So do a quick glance. After she catches your first glance, give her a little nod. And after the second glance, smile like an “oopsie, you caught me checking you out.

Why I want you to establish eye contact first is to ensure that she meets your eye contact. Eye contact’s purpose is to establish mutual interest. I’m not saying that just because a woman makes eye contact with you means that she wants to sleep with you, no, what I’m saying is that she could be interested in you if you’ve made this connection, at the very least, you could approach her and see what happen.


2. Mirror Her Posture to Build Rapport:
Remember that flirting is a response to attraction. And attraction is evoking interest, pleasure or liking for someone. So what else can you do to persuade a woman with whom you’ve never met that you’re the best candidate with whom to flirt and maybe even sleep with?

3. Compliment:
Our third tip in learning how to flirt without creeping women out is to look at the topic of conversation. Pick-up lines are a thing of the past, but compliments are the way of the future.

The thing about flirting is that it is all about making the other person feel good by giving them attention and asking them questions. one way to give them positive attention is to compliment a woman on something that she has chosen. If you’ve watched any of my other videos, then you will know that I am a firm believer in a good compliment on something that a woman has chosen to wear, or the way that she has chosen to style her hair or to compliment her on something that she has worked on.

Compliments make people feel good about themselves when they’re around you. And as Maya Angelou once said, “people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” And that is a statement that I personally live by.

4. Gentle Touches:
Psychologist Dr. Nicolas Guéguen in his essay “Courtship Compliance: The Effect of Touch On Women’s Behavior” suggests that there is research to prove that light tactile contact increases compliance to a wide variety of requests. He conducted three experiments in three different locations. Each one, however, had two different approaches, a man approaching a woman and gently touching her and another encounter when a man approached a woman and made no physical contact. The results were that women were more attracted to men who engaged in gentle, momentary, tactile touching because it made them seem more dominant.



So use touch to your advantage. Playfully touch a woman to deepen your flirtatious connection. Tickling is one of the oldest flirting methods in the book, you can touch a woman’s arm to get her attention, place your hand at the small of her back to guide her somewhere. Find quick friendly ways to make physical contact with a woman to better your flirting experience.

5. Have Fun:
And my last piece of advice when flirting is to remember to have fun. Take it slow so that you aren’t showing all of your cards at once. Give a little and then see what you get in return flirt wise from a girl. But flirting is also a mindset, so please, please, please, remember to have fun with it because if you aren’t having any fun, neither will the girl with whom you’re trying to flirt.


So go forth and prosper! I hope that you’ve enjoyed what you learned in this video. If you did, give it a thumbs up and don’t forget to subscribe to my channel. And I’ll see you in my next video!

[Imaboss]

I like the humble message at the end. Im sometimes guilty of actually forgetting to enjoy the simple things while i still have them.

[mathieufryns]

Personal Favourite: - You-Caught-Me Glance "Oopsie you Caught me Smile". Going to try that one out. Thank you Kate !

[Warhawk_]

Lesson one.. How not to fall in love with your attraction coach!

[sydneydufauchard]

It’s my senior year and I never had a boyfriend. That’s why I’m here...Pray for me y’all 😆

[bryanmccallum]

I love coming back and reviewing past videos and learning more about life thank you.

[IamMcKnightww]

Gracias the Hermosa Kate came through again with the assist means a lot

[dennisb]

Good video I like the way you present the subjects you talk about.Thanks Kate

[ada]

The thing is that flirting with the one already gave u hints its not hard, whereas the one doesnt like u back is complicated, id like u to tell how we can make her feel curious at least since there is where attraction begins

[brianwinston]

Kate Spring I know i have said this to you before, but i really love how you are so natural in your videos. You could edit some awkward moments, but you leave some in and it shows people that everyone is vulnerable and nobody is perfect. Great, straight to the point advice from a beautiful woman that actually cares about what she is doing. Love ya Kate !

[YoungSwaggness]

Kate Spring I like how you don't edit out anything when you mess up, that shows me that even though you are absolutely gorgeous your still human and you make mistakes just like anyone else.

[pauser]

Hello Kate, Would you please do a video about dating tips for the older guys, like the mid-30s till mid-40s and tips when couples have an age gap. Thanks so much for your awesome videos :)

[bryanmccallum]

I love your videos. They are helping me understand what flirting is. Since it has only been a month that I knew what flirting was. Thank you Kate Spring!

[JeffreyJeffreyFLF]

Good job Kate, Thanks!.. big highlight of this video is the Public space, Social distance, personal distance, and Intimate distance.. I think your the first one to ever mention this in Dating lesson compared to other dating gurus.

[lotusse]

Thank you Kate. I'm Divorced. It's been. Years since I've dated. Your videos are helpful! Your style is rational, a little edgy but not over the top.

[kitbolton]

Definitely worth watching. I needed this to help with my life’s unfortunate life’s circumstances. Thank you

[barrybebenek]

Great stuff again.
I can only speak for myself: that of all the advice here folks, they are so easy to remember and most of all to put into practice, if you live by the last rule...have fun! Just relax and have a fun time.
If you’re having genuine fun, it shows big time. If you aren’t, the other rules seem rehearsed/practiced.
Thanks again Kate.

[InTheBleakMidwinter]

I just discovered your videos and have watched a ton of them. I like youre way of explaining complex inner dimensions to attraction, your insights are really thoughtful and enriching and if that wasnt enough, youre eyes are amazing, with all due respect my lady, youre bloody gorgeous. Will be keeping up to date with all you so generously share

[jeffreygann]

Thank you for the videos. It is very informative for someone who constantly ends up In. The friend zone.

[valkyriekhan]

Thanks Kate. Since you were talking about eye contact, i just want to say that you have very pretty & kind eyes yourself. Keep the wonderful videos coming...

[Khufuuuuu]

Hey Kate could you do a video on whether a guy should tell a female friend that they like them or should they ask her out or both? Also, what if a girl recently got out of a relationship, should you not express interest so soon after a break up?