How to Flirt without being Creepy (HOTAPE Technique)

--- Invest in yourself ---

[Rien--]

i usually show her my runescape account

[anduro]

4:33 "Walk like you just won 1 miillion$"


Walks in a paranoid fashion whilst looking in every direction with a death grip on my brief case and running at light speed when someone gets in a 5m radius of me

[appledough]

HOT APE Flirting Method:
H - Humor:
Very attractive trait. Don’t take life so seriously. See the humor in mundane situations.
O - Openness:
Have an open and relaxed body posture. Point your feet towards her. Don’t cross your arms.
T - Touch:
Shows confidence and dominance. Start by touching hands or upper back. Look at her face when making contact.
A - Attention:
Too much attention is bad. Don’t double text or compliment them too much. Treat her like she was a guy friend. You wouldn’t hurry to hang out with them, double text them, or what they thought about you.
P - Proximity:
If she stands close to you that’s good. Arms length is good to stand near her.
E - Eye Contact:
Very important! Differentiates between friendly and flirty.

[pacho]

Idk why my mom looked so surprised when she saw me practice flirting with the fridge but we've never been closer

[kylefer]

2:53 "Observe other funny people"
A few hrs later
Cut to me with a notepad at the comedy club laughing like Arthur Fleck as I write notes.

[Panda]

It's funny I pick up girls alot more than my friends who rely on tinder. My dad always said " a man who isn't willing to risk talking to a women deserves to be alone"

[maskedbadass]

SUPER IMPORTANT: Everybody already knows that humor is important, but the most common mistake is to rely on self-deprecating humor. Regardless of a girl's intelligence or social awareness, if you put yourself down for a laugh girl's will start to see you as a dork who is beneath them. Especially nowadays where women can turn to social media for constant validation which inflates their egos.

You have to balance this out by making cocky humor and teasing them where you purposely frame the situation like she's the one chasing you. With complete confidence you have to be able to say things like, "Do you normally behave like this, or just around handsome men?" This is one of the reasons for the pattern of women preferring cocky assholes over nice guys.

The best time to do self deprecating humor is when you are already perceived as high value. For example, you will notice a lot of likable actors make fun of themselves. In turn it makes them seem humble because their high value is obvious.

[ElixirEcho]

You are flirting when you're attractive and creeping on her when you're not.

[PowerMatrixAnime]

*To attract the one woman you must learn how to attract all women.*
One way to avoid being creepy is not to stare for too long and To avoid escalating too quickly.

[shua_the_great]

When people hold hands before marriage-
*Pukes*

[sidgar]

Is it Hot Ape or Ho Tape? Either seems to be acceptable 😉

[leonardjoesten]

I have lots of experience flirting and this is accurate. But I'd like to add one thing. Always try to look your best; shine your shoes, comb your hair, wear nice clean clothes, lose some weight. You need this to get to the starting block.

[mintymelancholy]

Lol my boyfriend kept tumbling over his words on our first date and saying things like "I drink my food" and I just found it funny and endearing

[theartofmastery]

Me: Looks at a woman
She: I have a boyfriend
🤦🏻‍♂️

[lifegameplan]

Humor is always key when you are flirting. Thanks for the tips! Much of success to everyone :)

[almendrinybailarin]

The eye contact is the most key part, and also something that isn’t on the video. When you flirt you should focus on listening more than monologuing, so if a girl speaks to you and you just genuinely listen to her while making eye contact with a slight smile, you can get more girls with less work, I swear it always works and confidence is always key too don’t be afraid to getting rejected

[saintsfearful]

One caveat to the "facing a girl when you like her" thing. Don't do that initially. When you meet her turn your head and lightly smile, over your shoulder if possible, and try to get eye contact for at least 2 seconds. Trust me.

[JoeJ-]

I've always said that dating, relationships, even just getting a girl to be interested in you enough to start talking with her, shouldn't be this damn complicated!... There's *way* too many societial "rules" of what to do, what not to do, for how long, etc, etc, but the way I see it, it all just keeps the world's population from exploding out of control to the point where this planet can't adapt and handle all of us living here, so it's ultimately probably a good thing that it's rarer for people to really have a connection and hook up, than it is for so many more times, a girl just ignores a guy and doesn't even acknowledge his existence even though he might be attracted to her... and yes, I guess the same goes for women liking guys who won't give them the time of day.

[mickgold]

H - Humor
O - Openess
T - Touch
A - Attention
P - Proximity
E - Eye Contact

[ishaanarora]

Well YouTube knows me well enough to put this in my recommendation!