How to Flirt Without Being Creepy - 11 Flirting MISTAKES + FAILS (that Creep Girls Out)

Gentlemen, today, we’re showing you 11 things guys do when flirting, that girls creep girls out.

AND because we want to be EXTRA sure that you don’t wrongfully come off as a creep, we’re also letting you know 1 powerfully simple way to always come across as the normal, confident guy you really are.

So.... here are 11 flirting mistakes that creep girls out + the 1 thing you need to know to avoid flirting creepiness altogether.

0:32 Too Much Prolonged Eye Contact
0:56 Seeming Rehearsed
1:28 Learning Too Much About Her On Social Media
1:52 Too Much Touching In The Wrong Places
2:25 Making Overly Dirty Jokes Or Comments
2:52 Paying Too Much Attention To Just Her Body
3:15 You Want To Hang Out Too Much, Too Soon
3:45 Being Inconsistent… Or just Flat-Out Lying
4:10 Giving Her Too Many Fake, Superficial Compliments
4:35 Giving Her heavy Compliments Too Soon
5:04 Making Her Think You’re A Pick-Up Artist

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Episode #32

[jfranco_official]

so complex. I feel like I need to earn a degree on this subject

[funkydpalomares]

It’s hilarious the hole message: don’t do this, don’t do that, never say this, always say that... BUT... be youself. Jajaja

[mpfrierson]

Actually “Being Yourself” is terrible advice! Let’s say you do all those flirting mistakes or if you’re shy and an introvert then how does being yourself on a date actually work? Truth is it doesn’t. It provides a feeling of false comfort. It gives us validation to stay the same, and reinforces our current behaviors. And our behaviors may not be an accurate reflection of who we are inside and the person we want to become. How do we uncover this? By continuing to develop. How do we develop? By taking risks and creating new life experience. “Be yourself” does not support this. It give us that all we are, is all we should ever be. There is nothing further from the truth.

[abubakerkahtan]

what if you're not normal or confident??!!

[danielmarquis]

Hate to be Captain Obvious, but did you ever notice that CREEP is "Gender Specific, " meaning males are Creeps. I get that from about 80-90% of these Dating Advice Videos.

[f.lashby]

Number 11 is totally BS. Of course you're not going to stare at her completely for hours while being out with her. But the last girl I went out with, I tried to hold eye contact as long as possible and guess what, she's all over me. If you're on a date with someone and they barely make eye contact with you, guess what you're with the wrong person. It's an indicator of low interest if she's not making eye contact with you at all.

[TheOctoJon]

too much eye contact isnt a thing, as long as it isnt a blank stare. if youre eye expressions are reacting to the dialog, she'll love that.

[zetagannon]

"But that doesn't mean she wants you to look at every single picture she's posted."

Heh. If a girl has a crush on a guy she will look through every single picture he has posted on facebook at least once a week.

[Novaximus]

If you're not yourself then sooner or later you'll be faced with her saying, "You're not the same person I first went out with. You've changed and I'm not ok with that" But hey, by this point maybe you at least got some nice company and some short term fulfillment out of it? But it's just not going to end well. And who wants to put on a fake mask and personality? It'll just lead to stress for yourself.

[Hello-xbxe]

Just be good-looking and you'll never be considered creepy.

[mattmc]

I like to add to not be all nice all the time or you will get friend zoned. Let her miss you, don't text back all the time right away. I like to make a naughty comment then I quickly change the subject. You wanna, be the one to put the brakes on it not her. If she changes it it's game over beat her to it.

[vampireloverman]

just be yourself....if a girl likes you anything you say or do (within reason) will work. Don't waste time on those who act like you are seeking king midas fortune when talking to them...time catches up to all women ...too too many of them around and they all have a very short shelf life.

[InvestingHustler]

How to avoid being creepy while flirting 🤔 don't flirt lol 👌

[cslcojoco]

Arrrghhh! Poor guys! This makes women sound so stressful. TBH, the most important piece of advice this video gave (and 100% on point) is just genuinely to view the woman as another human being. Not an object. Not just a body. Sure, a human being that you're sexually attracted to. But hopefully, a human being you also want to get to know as a person, as well. And then you can just have a genuine human interaction with her. It can take off a lot of the pressure. It won't mean that she's attracted to you in return. You may end up in the friend zone, but it will keep you out of the creep zone. Even if you're awkward and try too hard, it can actually be endearing. (Most of my crushes have been on awkward, insecure guys. Who also happened to be very attractive. But didn't know it. Deadly combination.) Awkwardness doesn't make a guy a creep. Really, the main thing that makes a guy a creep is the feeling that you're just an object to him. That sex is a game. That he's not looking for a relationship, just hoping to get laid. And if that's how he views the interaction, then he belongs in the creep zone. Some women will still go for it, I have no idea why, maybe brainwashed to think she's supposed to want to be nothing more than a piece of meat. But it is that attitude that makes a guy creepy, no matter what else he has going on. Truly, no woman wants to be devalued like that. She may put up with it because she doesn't actually understand how degrading it is or because she likes guy attention (don't we all. Of course, we all want to feel beautiful. But beautiful and valued for the inside and the outside) and she misinterprets that kind of attention as a compliment instead of the insult it is, but none of us actually wants to be seen as nothing more than just a body.

[markfischer]

What about the things women do that creep men out. There are plenty of creepy women out there.

[sonoftheabundantuniverse]

If she’s attracted to you, it’s not at all creepy whatever you do.

[brattberg]

Just go with yourself! You dont have to pretend be somebody you are not! She will find out later on anyways! Many girls have to get over themselves! If they are like they are portrayed in this video But most i know in 3 countries in 2 continents arent like this at all! Some will get offended even if you say hello, it happened to my cousin in Canada, she felt like an object after he approached her in a party & said hello, with a regular voice tone, she got up said to him he was a creep & walked away, my cousin was like what the heck was her problem, my friend approached her a bit later n told her she has hot thighs! She smiled n asked him to dance with her, so go with yourself, just dont go over the line, if she is attracted to you you are cool if she isnt then you are a creep to most of them...

[Iamsuniljinde]

Your videos always helps.... Thank u very much keep it up... 🤗❤☺

[BBarNavi]

She doesn't need to know you've crossed the social media line. Just stay incognito and don't leave any comments, FFS.

[ms-vvgg]

Never take dating advice from a woman. 'Nuff said.