some narcissists and toxic people will be overly honest up front #npd #narcissists

[heathershaw]

Then when the narcissist cheats on the new supply and he's called out he can say "Hey I told you I was a cheater from the start!" 🤨

[phoenixrising]

To cover their tracks, attempt to gain your trust by lowering your guard and to test your reaction to their future indiscretions

[heathernks]

Ahhhh. This explains so much! My n-ex had an old f*** buddy come around one night and said, "I 100% know I did nothing wrong, but having a girl knock on my door is still so strange that if you want to leave, I won't blame you for going. I would leave if a guy knocked on your door."! The mind games seem exhausting; don't y'all ever get tired?!

[milena]

Mine told me in my face that he’s a narcissist

[kaylives]

Yup don’t trust em even when they are telling the truth abt cheating cause they gon keep doing it anyways

[janicemurphy]

TALK ABOUT MANIPULATION. 😰 WHEW

[andreamadkin]

First date, told me everything and was very emotional with it. Everyday after rollercoasters.

[grovermartin]

It is logical, isn't it? If I tell her about my cheating, and she accepts me anyway, don't we then have a freer and more transparent relationship? Unless she tells me she's a cheater, too, which makes it a no-go. That would make me too uneasy, right?

[dianegron]

And a person with more than 5 functioning neurons should run away, ‘cause that level of “honesty” is 🚩.

[triamoore]

Also to make the ex sound like she didn’t do her job and deserved to be cheated on but he/she’s telling you because they see something better in you and wouldn’t do that to you it’s a form of love bombing too to make the new supply feel so much better than you it’s a part of triangulation too it could even prompt a reverse Hoover to make you wanna try to do better and they string both of y’all along narcs aren’t opposed to multiple partners at once

[cyberrasputen]

It they will only do so if they think their lies will be revealed. They will not allow you the opportunity to make a choice based on an honest representation of themselves. If they did that then no one would ever date them. But it’s still bad that even their greatest honesty is still manipulation. Don’t think that they will be different for you. They will not be!

[CtrlAltDeliciousGaming]

So If I understand correctly, when he’s doing that, he is chasing happiness and the path of least resistance for him is to use this strategy. But in his mind, he isn’t doing it maliciously, just selfishly?