The #1 Mistake Women Make When Dating Men (Do NOT Do This!!)

Do you want to learn the biggest mistake women make when dating men? It's not what you think... and it forces perfectly good and decent men want to leave perfectly good relationships.

In this video, I talk a little bit about something called the Overcompensation Cycle and how it's killing your chances of catching and keeping your dream man.

There are a ton of mistakes that women make with men that drive them away... and I do talk about them in this video. So make sure you watch this video all the way through!

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[doreenjoel]

Ur so amazing I really like your videos

[sadisticparagon]

Am so proud of you being from my home town Van City and so thankful for your amazing advice!!

[andyevansbusinesslifecoach]

Good advice to the girls. i had a girlfriend who exhibited (in hindsight) the narcissistic pathology and one of the things she did was what you covered here, everything is going fine but she starts being jealous and questioning me about my ex wife and accusations and i withdrew further and further and she went harder at me to get painful and guaranteed to ruin your relationship.

[chenda]

Love all of your videos Amy I'm so happy to have found you!

[freebird-dana]

Wonderful topic!! I needed to see and hear this!!

[Lovelearnings]

Great work, Amy! This girl knows her stuff.

[lisaforce]

What a crazily strong and powerful video...Amy North strikes again.

[alexycastillo]

I am guilty of this. This I think the reason why we broke up. You are really a great help ma'am! Kudos!

[secureconnection]

Hi Amy! I've been dating this man for a month now. He's a business owner and works a lot. The pattern I'm starting to notice with him is that he waits for me to text him during a week with a suggestion for the next date on a weekend. And if I don't, he just keeps working or hangs out with his (grown) son, etc. I did that a couple of times, but ultimately I believe a man should do most of the initiating and asking a woman out on a date at the beginning of the courtship. There's also an emerging pattern of going out only once a week and only on a Sunday. This week I decided not to contact him and to just wait and see when he will reach out first. I'm slowly starting to lose interest.. seeing each other only 1 time a week and exchanging a couple texts a week is not enough to keep the spark going, imo. We're not intimate and when do see each other, always have a great time - hanging out, dining, movies, beach, etc. What should I do in this situation? Thank you so much in advance for your help!

[sanaraza]

I love your videos Amy !!! They are super gd :) keep it up 🖒

[stephlrideout]

Just FYI, I'm a solid 15 mins into the (non-scrubbable, sans progress bar) free video on her website, which is an ad for her "Devotion System", and still no mention of the apparently magical phrase.

[zentours]

Hi Amy, im Hasna from Morocco, we are a travel agency , your videos its just wow and helpful, keep it on please .thank you

[slardebard]

Out of curiosity, where do these dating/relationship coaches come from? How does one get credentials in that line of work? Something is stinky man.

[VivVal]

Amy, keep on doing your videos, i love them!

[vidhivithlani]

Amy I actually behaved really clingy and I was very overprotective about my boyfriend and isn’t talking to me like he used to. It’s crazy because he still tells everybody he likes me but with the way he is behaving I don’t think he likes me

[savannahblanchard]

I'm stuck in this said cycle right now. My boyfriend has started leaving me on read recently and texting his old crush while I'm on read. Everything has been going great and now I'm panicking because of the recent coldness.

[oyrikwe]

HI - does your system work on a long-distance ex, that I overcompensated cycled on! thank you

[EmmA-lnhe]

Thanks for this great video Amy.
This guy I recently met ONLINE seems just perfect, so I did what I always do : I came on a little strong (maybe less than in the past, as I have been aware of this since my last breakup), nonetheless, he ended up telling me that he needed a little space, after an entire day of chatting back and forth on whatsapp. Although it came as a bit of a surprise (he seemed to really enjoy our texting all day and came back for more after the conversation stopped several times), I think I had the right reaction, which is to respect his need and not inquire him about why. I was (to my own surprise, haha), quite cool about it. Now, I have to really make sure to not repeat the same mistake when (if?) he comes back... (it was 2 nights ago, not a single text since then, I've given myself a week before moving on). What is your best advice in this situation? I really like this guy, and as he pointed it out himself (and I do agree with him), we have the same vision, life projects, we like each other both mentally and physically, and we even share the same sexual desires. Unfortunately, the other thing we both share is also a lot of insecurity (he's really gorgeous but he keeps thinking I might not like him and even sent me a selfie saying "still wanna meet me?"). I shared my insecurity with him too, which I know is not really sexy, but I felt in a kind of bubble of trust with him.
I hope you get to read this comment and give me your insight. Thx, E.
PS: Sorry, english is not my native language :)

[lorenakadar]

Can I just say that I think you have a talent when it comes to this. I have watched videos from other dating coaches on youtube but none go into such detail, are so clear and so on point like yours. You seem to just get women and get it. Keep em coming. I like! :-)

[preciouzafg]

Hi Amy, first off great videos!! Now I wanted to know if it's possible for me to get someone back.. So I met this guy in February/March and we casually dated for two month and to make a long story short he was everything I ever wanted in a man but when I actually found it I wasn't taking him seriously because it seemed too good to be true! And I wasn't being nice or respectful because in my previous relationship I was used to being spoiled and somewhat have the last word..but he was so different and knew exactly what he wanted and didn't like to be disrespected etc. So he kind of friendzoned me or more likely distanced himself and told me he wanted to take things "slowly" and I felt like I was kept on the side as a second option/backup plan... So I completely cut him off for my own well being lol! And now from here and there he occasionally replies to my snaps, drunk missed called me once but never replied me back the next day, readded me on snapchat..