How To Tell If She's Interested Or Looking For Attention & Validation

Jocelyne, Chunky and Corey discuss a viewer question that asks how to tell if she's interested or just looking for attention and validation.

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[DanTheVocalist]

I agree that women will have open body language if they are a confident woman but ive had plenty of instances where the woman is not confident in herself and actually shys away from you. For instance if its a girls night out, sometimes the group of girls looking at you arent the ones interested, they could be gathering intel for the girl that has her back to you

[SonnyWest]

Long distance women are a sign too. A woman thats eager to talk but doesn’t live near you. Once i did this, we spoke for a while. She lived about 4hrs south. I have an old friend that lives around where she stays. I decided to visit my friend there and to hit her up. After weeks of talking CONSISTENTLY. Never really NOT responding, and not showing signs of not being serious. I get down there she goes ghost 👻, doesn’t text back, or respond. Validation and attention seekers. Theres a LOT of these women in the dating market. Nobody talks to them so they feed on validation from men far away while maintaining relationships with former exes, living with husbands, etc.

[sebastianrodriguez]

Sometimes I run into a clip from some of these channels like Fresh and Fit and I FULLY understand why the relationship advice community needs Corey Wayne. Wow. Most people there are completely clueless. They believe everyone cheats, and that all men and women are the same. They almost never consider personal responsibility of the individual, that's why the Coach's knowledge is so valuable.

[NoName-zbgm]

Three words: "Ask her out". If she says no or a lukewarm yes then you know she is using you for validation.

[brandonsaunders]

Corey is so God damn smooth, I gotta achieve that coolness

[ronandheather]

This is wisdom. Absolutely. The girl will put herself into your “orbit”. She makes it so easy.

[stingray]

A majority of chicks are gonna want to go on dates for a free meal.

[danielmeans]

After reading some of these comments I can tell y'all haven't read Corey's book 10 to 15 times, c'mon man lol!

[Josh-fpqn]

I've never had a woman ask me anything about myself. I'm 35.

[standardofexcellence]

I still get the interest over attention validation all the time, but since chicks fear rejection they usually have indication of consistency for a man's state of mind. I'm a really confident and rare dude but even I get sick of it. This is what happens when they have no accountability and seek attention over advice as we dont validation and seek knowledge for self awareness to build the confidence. A woman's value is almost always inflated and a man's is underrated but be careful lads this is how both females and the media want it

[EternalxFrost]

While I agree with the fact that women don't want to teach a man how to be a man, they should make a real effort when they like someone, instead of just putting themselves into your orbit and HOPE that you know what to do. Women are not blunt enough (generally speaking) to go for what they want. Their nature is to bond & connect, so they should act accordingly and go for what they want. Because obviously, if she likes you, she'll want to bond & connect with you. It goes both ways in my opinion. Women like bold men who don't fear rejection. But I can bet that many men love bold women who don't fear rejection as well.

Yes it's our job to know what to do when those situations do occur, but when a woman approaches me, it always kind of surprises me and I love it. While it's the man's duty to open up a woman, I think they should do a better job to communicate what they really want.

Throw me sledgehammers if y'all want, and I know I can't reinvent the wheel. But it would be so much easier, if in any given situation, both parties really communicate to each other. And communication should start from the moment you both hit off, to the dating stage, to the relationship stage. EVERYTIME.

[pablogiorgio]

That's a good question. In the gym a lot of girls likes to flirt. Sometimes you wait several weeks to ask her out to really know (you not in a hurry in the gym cos you always see her). Theres one i asked her out and she told me she can't go out with me. I stop give any validation for her completely, but she keeps trying to flirt with me everytime rsrsrs

[dv]

I have a coworker for almost 4 months...we are in each other's "orbits". We work well together and we even have lunch together. We take turns who pays. A few coworkers hinted to us that we should go on a real date and he would go silent. He hasn't officially asked me out, but yet enkoys my company at work. We go everywhere together and carpool during our work day (we have off-site places to go to during work). We talk- he can be really quiet and shy though, yet there are a handful of times he opens up and we laugh a lot. We work well together. He hasnt ever made a move, but we are in each other's "orbits". I guess we like each other. Recently he told me he is agnostic and i'm a Christian. In my head, I told myself i cant ve with someone who is Agnostic. So i decided in my mind that i can just keep him as a friend. We love each others company and all. Thats too bad! But also, he is so shy and an introvert that I dont think he has the confidence to ever ask me out formally. But....we can always have a friendship I guess!

[TrenerBorisFarkas]

The gym scenario happens to me. If they are just positioning themselves near I ignore them and if they ask something I reply with: "I have a client who's paying for the session and my client is my highest priority now, I'm not going to bother with your requests". I get a lot of fun from doing it lol.

[Itsmelucky]

It’s all a mind game. Might as well swing even if it looks like a foul ball.

[caamtb]

What if she puts herself into your orbit after no contact ?

[jakeoreilly]

You guys spend way to much time on women. It's not worth it. No return on it.

[ChristianYepez]

I read your book my friend, cool, stuff there. In this era of social media, IG, Facebook etc. now when I go out with a girl on a date after that, she sees my posts, like my posts, but where is the mystery for me? Now he knows more about my life, entertaining with friends, hobbies etc. what to do? I am not stopping my life for a girl, right? In other words, at first she was okay after our date, we talked and after 2 weeks I went to a party with friends, put a nice party video with other girlfriends as well, but now I try calling her again and she is ignoring, , why why? I read your book and now I won’t call her either, let her come to me…ideas here?

[andikrause]

Whenever I see a guy and a girl "flirting" in the gym it never goes anywhere, you barely ever see them together talking again or if then it's the typical he tries hard to make something happen while she just plays along game. Never seen a guy picking up a woman from the gym. Couples usually enter the gym togehter but they rarely ever meet there, not even for a hook up

[YungsteppaMel]

I’m a humble leader after taking a couple Ls off dis video 💀