How To Get Someone To Stop Talking - Fast | Carol Tuttle

Have you ever had that feeling in a conversation when you know it's time for things to conclude? Someone is going on and on about something and not mindful of others or the time they are consuming. Perhaps you think to yourself, "It's time for this to wrap up."

In this video, I'm going to share with you a simple technique using Energy to end those rants and awkward conversations. Watch the video to learn what's worked for me since I started thinking about this a few years ago.

This probably comes up in your life quite frequently. Think about all of the times when:

* You need to get off a phone call or Zoom meeting
* Someone is talking too long at a party, event, or other gathering
* You want to get out of a meeting that's carrying on without alot of productivity
* People keep repeating themselves or explaining something unnecessarily
* A speker is not paying attention to the time

In all of these cases, someone just isn't being mindful of the time or the Energy around them. By you helping things "wrap up", you're benefiting everyone involved. Just be polite and do this with the positive intent and respect in which it should be delivered.

This is just one small technique I teach in my Healing Center. I offer multiple healing plans, several courses, and a group supported experience to help people create an amazing life. Get my free Energy Healing guide by going to:

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[mortega]

Tell them to shut up 😂 I died lol. Thanks Carol!

[laurenlosson]

I love it! As someone who has a tough time knowing how to give clues to others when to "cease and desist", this was SO helpful. Thank you.

[juniordominguez]

When you’ve said “Dam That’s crazy” for the fourth time in a row and the homie won’t stop talking

[rachelroot]

T3 here, I totally needed this for phone calls with a family member and a work colleague

[stariadreamtea]

I noticed that people who speak a lot (think of the homeless who rant to the crowd) can be lonely people who aren't listened to properly. I noticed when I listen to people properly with empathy MOST (not all) of the time they stop after truly feeling heard and not rushed.

There are selfish people who you do have to cut off when they have a monologue AT you rather than with you.

[heartquaked]

Carol, you crack me up and you are such a treasure. Thanks so much. I am going to use this at work when on annoying calls!

[annmartin]

Looking forward to putting this technique into practice. Thank you Carol

[beccismith]

Fascinating technique and makes sense.
As a T one/3 people generally feel pretty comfortable talking to me and I am generally pretty gracious and polite and keep nodding and have a hard time bringing things to a close myself sometimes, but can also get really impatient if there’s something that you need to do or something I’m really not interested in… And there’s actually one person that I tend to avoid because he has his own topics and goes on about them, often things that I know nothing about and am not so very interested in. Perhaps this technique can help is things next time we see each other in person! Finding the balance between giving people the chance to be heard and respecting myself…

[TiffTheTyrant]

I’m a type 4-I struggle with being charitable in these moments to others because of my bluntness and ‘get to the point’ of things. If I want someone to stop talking it will be written all over my face, and over the phone I’ll just say ‘it was nice talking with you, but I have to go.’

[hamzahmpiano]

My roommate keeps talking to me, like bro I got shit to do 😂

[thesingingfarmer-earthsongfarm]

Really interesting concept. I'm going to try it out and see what results occur :-)

[sattvadevi]

I wonder if this will work in Sweden where we don't have the expression of "wrapping up". We'd rather say "round off". Im going to experiment with this and what images will work. The stop sign I believe is universal though! 😊

[jacalynmiller]

So funny - you birthed him, fed and raised him, gave him a job, and now he's using your technique against you? KIDS THESE DAYS!!! ;-) Actually, I was fascinated by this video b/c I lived in the Caribbean a couple of years, then moved to a place where there are lots of indigenous people - those cultures are just "slower" in general, and sometimes the ability to speak eloquently and for a long time is very valued!

[TiffTheTyrant]

Look at your beautiful nail polish! Gorgeous!

[autumnpal]

So you visualize wrapping a package and throwing it into their energy zone?

[chanibanny]

Very interesting Carol. I have a specific situation I've been struggling with. My father talks too much. There's no other way to put it.. He has a minor stutter and he gets very offended if someone listening nods or cuts him off while he's speaking, bc he thinks people won't let him talk bc of his stutter. But that's wrong. Firstly, it's a normal thing people do (so it's really his perception) but secondly he talks too much and not because of his stutter. He really doesn't know when to stop, he's just really not sensitive to that.
The issue I have with this is the amount of resentment I have towards him at this point. I feel very trapped. I have to listen to stories that go on for 10-15 minutes without being able to nod or gently say something to move it along.
Your technique is an interesting one, I'll definitely be trying it. I just wonder how to get out of the feelings of anger and resentment that he is taking up space that isn't his and I can't set boundaries. I'm usually good at setting boundaries, but here there's just no way out. It's so upsetting..

[uhqitfw]

I like your advice but could you wrap up your advice a little quicker 😊