5 Deep Conversation Starters To Get Someone To Open Up

Looking for deep conversation starters or tips on how to get someone to open up? You came to the right place.

Today, we're getting real about making genuine connections with a few deep talk conversation starters that go beyond the surface. If you're tired of small talk and craving those deep, meaningful conversations, you're in the right place! So, it doesn't matter if it's a romantic relationship, family or friendship, if you're ready to level up your social game and build relationships that truly matter, hit play and let's dive deep together.

#relationship #dating #advice

Writer: Clarisse Delos Reyes
Editor: Caitlin McColl & Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Ashleigh
Animator: Naphia
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:

Duckworth, A. (2016). Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance. New York: Scribner.

Brown, B. (2012). Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead. New York: Gotham Books.

Lyubomirsky, S. (2007). The How of Happiness: A Scientific Approach to Getting the Life You Want. New York: Penguin Press.

Gardner, H., Csikszentmihalyi, M., & Damon, W. (2001). Good work: When excellence and ethics meet. New York: Basic Books.

Lyubomirsky, S. (2008). The How of Happiness: A New Approach to Getting the Life You Want. New York: Penguin Books.

[Psychgo]

Some of you requested a topic on how to start a conversation with someone. Here's this video to help you out! Share your tips that has worked for you below!

[JustaNobody-jx]

As someone with social anxiety and socially awkward, this is what I need because I really need to work on my conversation skills. I don’t even know what to talk about most of the time, and always having those awkward silences, making us feel uncomfortable. I look at other people who are great conversationalists and they’re so comfortable in their own skin making it look as if they’re good friends with everyone they meet.

[MissTera]

yesss the komi cant communicate art *heart eyes*

[Nayavio]

1. Facing challenges 0:25
2. Showing vulnerability 1:10
3. proudest moments 2:15
4. Personal values and beliefs 2:58
5. Influence and inspiration 3:41

[me_justme]

OMGGG KOMI CANT COMMUNICATE
THIS IS SO CUTEEE

[pygmalion]

I needed this, cause every time I hear people say they want deep conversation, I always picture them and myself like that one scene in Barbie where she's dancing and just goes "You guys ever think about dying?"

[dragonqueen]

Some time ago a person I barely met strated a conversation with me, and at the beggining it went surprisingly well (I'm kinda bad at talking with ppl unless I get to know them), but then they started asking these questions, like about my personal values and beliefs, and I completely freaked out and kept saying 'I don't know' 😭
I hate smalltalk, but these questions are too personal for me, especially as a conversation starter. I guess I struggle with talking about myself... I mean, give me 2 days to think about "what challenge made me grow" and then I'll give you an answer 😅

[niasiamack]

As a introvert like me this is the video i need for comfort and commutation skills

[-.oOo.Tuluna.Falemunla.oOo.-]

As someone with a talking disorder I really like the Komi can't communicate thumbnail :D

[astro]

I-is that Komi and Tadano on the Thumbnail?
I fucking love this channel

[Jesus_For_President]

As a depressed person that prioritises someone else’s emotions, this gave me advice to people which I suspect to have a mental illness. I plan on becoming a psychotherapist when I grow up. For now, I’m only 15.
Love the channel! I came back to this channel after some years and I’m glad it’s still popular. It brings tears to my eyes.
:)

[Bee-eautiful]

i mean i don't really think these can be used to _start_ conversation, as they feel really out of place, but that's just my opinion

also, thank you for that message at the end, it's not much because my mind interprets them as a bit empty as they're not aimed at me, but sometimes they really do brighten up my day

[TheTrueAuthorMRS]

I love people who can have these conversations with me. I was born a genius, (don't mean to brag) I found I think a lot deeper than a lot of the people I know, so people who can share that with me are respected highly

[laberbla]

I know it's unfair to say - but whenever I start a video and it's not @amandasilvera doing the voiceover I cannot focus long enough or listen as close to what is said 😮

[Manuel-port]

I'm a normal guy, I see Komi and Tadano and I'm excited!!! Nice video.

[StarrSun]

I am NOT good at small talk I am WONDERFUL at deep conversations.

[anderstermansen]

You guys have the courage to walk up and talk to other people, like a normal human interacting with another human? How? Is it possible to learn this power?

[neofulcrum]

What is a favorite childhood moment?

What’s your funniest memory ever?

What’s a goal you want to reach? Is there a way I can help with that?

I think those are some good questions to act during a conversation. Especially if it’s your crush or just someone that caught your eye.

[Sssparkleuwu]

Its cute how they used komi can't communicate

[StuermischeTage]

These are great questions to ask, but also keep in mind, that not everyone will be willing to open up and share how an emotional vulnerability helped them grow in life. These questions will require a rapport beforehand, as it's usually not someting to share with a complete stranger.