LOVE BOMBING 101 by RC Blakes

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LOVE BOMBING 101 by RC Blakes
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[clarissahoward]

1. Talk less
2. Pray more
3 Ask meaningful questions
4. Monitor your flesh
5. Run for your life

Good message Bishop Blake, thank you for teaching us, and keeping it real! You and First Lady have a blessed Christmas!

[ccgreen]

Biggest take away… “everyone who is talking is not sincere.” Took me most of my adult life to realize that just because my intentions were/are genuine, doesn’t mean everyone else’s is. when you are not operating from a place of self love it is hard to see the true intentions of others.

[PrettyReddTheDoula]

When people try to rush me, I'm instantly on High Alert. Why we rushing? What you trying to do?....

[tyoung]

Been single for some years now until a few months ago. Was patiently waiting for Mr. right, but he ended up being Mr. wrong. Never heard the term “ love bombing” but sounds like what just happened to me last week. I guess the bright side is it only lasted about three months. Thanks for discussing this. At 40 it just makes my stomach turn how people think it’s okay to play with someone’s heart. I know the next time. Thanks Bishop. 🙏🏾

[liesascott]

When a love bomber is getting bored and wants to end it they usually do a number of things to you and are making sure you "catch" them doing it.
It can be anything but usually it's exactly one of those things that they know will hurt you and force you at some point to let go of them. The entire "getting to know" process of a love bomber is focused on the things you want but equally on those things you claim not to tolerate in a relationship.
They give you what you want in the beginning and when they get bored and tired of you they openly do the things they know you wont tolerate.
They could just simply leave you but that would be too boring. The problem is they really ENJOY hurting you and forcing you to call it quit. That is their default program.
Their entire behavior is based on total lack of respect for you or anybody else. Remember that there is NO love possible without respect!
One way of staying successfully away from love bombers is to force them to deal with you face to face. As soon as you use social media you open the door to all kinds of frauds by allowing them to get to know you to the point where they pin you as a next victim. They want fast results. Face to face only takes too long for them.
Listen carefully to how they act and speak. Another method they use is to dangle those carrots in front of you that would make a tough situation for you easier, solve a big problem or fulfill a big dream of yours. They often have NO intention to give it to you but use it to lure you in.
Love bombers are psychologically skilled manipulators. Anybody who manipulates does not respect and therefore does not love.

[BijouDeChocolat]

I thank God everyday because He gave me the strength to leave that toxic mess!

[onevenus]

Your teachings should be included in the curriculum, especially for girls, beginning in middle schools worldwide. What is better life we would live, decent and in order.

[cathy]

I was love bombed, but I recognized it when I disagreed. Then I saw the head spin and green stuff spewing out, It was enough for me. I ran 🏃‍♀️, blocked 🚫 and no contact. 3 months strong 💪. No turning back!
God is a deliverer!!

[cindeed]

It’s not about education, it’s about validation Pastor. When many people are lonely, unaccepted, and rejected, they will do anything for attention. It’s about manipulation for the love bomber. These people are salvage. I’ve seen it happen and years later the person they love bombed still hasn’t recovered. Use discernment on these people. I did. God gave that to me. Don’t put so much value in what others think. That’s the quickest way to get used.

[beautyforashes]

Thank you Pastor R.C Blakes for discussing this topic. Unfortunately I married a narcissist who did this to me and I'm currently going through a divorce, it's devastating. Women please aware of men representing as upstanding and righteous when really their ravenous wolves like the Bible talks about.

[colleenakaleeannrogers]

Flattery is like a spider's web, attractive to look at, but dangerous if caught in it!

[clare]

A love bomber wont give you the space to think. He was always hugging me and kissing me and in my face, and his mom was in on it too. Always “i love you I love you I love you” bringing me things, doing my chores, just toooo much. I ran. They were definitely spreading a net for me. I’m so glad it’s over.

[virtuous_committed]

Thank you God for keeping me from myself, that I will not be tricked, hoodwinked, and bamboozled. Bishop Thank you for this word. EVERYTHING that comes out of your mouth, it is so needed.

[joy]

We emotionally abuse our selves, because we allow people to linger in our lives far longer than they should. We fall in love with the idea of a person and not the person themselves. Surely the signs are there, we just choose to ignore them.

[carlissable]

I discarded my ex narc and word is all that accusing me of cheating with someone.. He has moved in a woman known in the hood for sleeping around... More power to both of them. I was done when I discarded him.

[RobertaOnDeck]

I was married to a Live Bomber fir 8 years. He was so quick and made me feel like Cinderella. The gifts, trips flowers, etc. At 4 mos he came to the lobby of my job and proposed. Although shockEd, I said yes. On the honeymoon we got into our first argument He exposed his true self.

[thequeenofresources]

Whenever a man tells me how did I get so lucky. I know right away that I am out of his lead. That is a clear sign that he is use to dating low class women. That's my cue to Run! Amen

[LoveWithin]

No more General Educational Development males for me! I didn’t even know what a Narcissist was until I married one. Therapy and prayer saved my life! I started therapy because I thought something was wrong with me and found out what a Narc was! After a year and a half of marriage I ran!!! All the health issues I had went away!

[edytadelfel]

I don’t drink anymore and haven’t touched alcohol for years now and intent to continue this way. If I go out on a date I get a man to get me tea or coffee and talk to get to know each other and that’s if he even qualifies for my time. Bless!!!

[thequeenofresources]

Absolutely, No re-entry allowed. I buried it, mourned over it, and moved on! Hallelujah.