Do You Have These 6 Attractive Habits?

Have you ever wondered what makes people light up the room? Is it their charming good looks? Their sense of humor? Or something else entirely? Your likability can be perceived differently across people. While you can’t be liked by everyone all the time, there are a few subtle things you can do to make people feel more open and warm towards you.

Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes and is based on personal opinions. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but for general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.

Writer: Joshua Munoz
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Naphia
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References

[Psychgo]

What's one quality that you look for in a future life partner?

[TEAforMIND]

"You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear." 💞

[ComicalRealm]

"Don't worry if people don't like you. Most people are struggling to like themselves" - Kermit

[highliving-animatedvideos]

*6 habits to make others like you instantly!*
0:26 - Spend time with them
0:51 - You own your flaws
1:28 - Mirror them!
2:08 - Be genuine with your compliments
2:52 - Emphasize your shared values
3:24 - Tell them something personal

.. however, it’s ok if some people don’t like you. Not everyone has good taste ❤️🚀🌙

[RealAmper]

"Ask classmats if they want to hang out after school"
Me living 9km away from my school: No

[DrJustininJapan]

Leaving a good first impression is especially important when applying for a job. I think that "being genuine with your compliments" is especially important in this case. Saying what you think others might like to hear can actually be counterproductive

[Cherrycreamsoda]

Body language is something I struggle with so much; it doesn't come naturally to me. Even if I like someone very much I have to mentally work to turn myself towards them, make eye contact and sit up straight (I have autism so I'm not always comfortable with eye contact or people I don't know well being close to me or showing affection),
but that just means I am putting effort into our friendship!

[ethandominic-]

"You have to do more than watch from afar."
Me: I didn't come here to be personally attacked😣

[datboi]

1. spend time with them 0:26
2. you own your flaws 0:51
3. mirror them! 1:29
4. be generous with your compliments 2:08
5. emphasize your shared values 2:52
6. tell them something personal 3:25
I hope I could help!

[GiadTheShyCat]

People just don't like me, no matter what I do. But I don't care, as long as I'm fine with myself, everything's gonna be okay. I don't like myself rn, but I'm currently trying to improve and things will eventually get better. Before you want someone else to like you, make sure that you're the first one that likes yourself. ♥️

[helpmereachksubswithoutvideo]

These videos is the thing we need in our lives

[fflol]

*6 Habits To Make Others Like You Instantly*

0:27 1. Spend time with them
The familiarity principle ~ we get attracted to the people we see regularly
0:51 2. You own your flaws
The pratfall effect ~ committing small mistakes humanizes you - making you more attractive
1:29 3. Mirror them!
Copying another person's mannerisms can make you more likable
2:08 4. Be generous with your compliments
Compliments makes other feel appreciated
Spontaneous trait transference ~ the way you describe others is how they see you as well
2:52 5. Emphasize your shared values
The similarity attraction effect ~ the natural gravitation of people towards others who shares similar qualities
3:24 6. Tell them something personal
Personal things gets you closer each other

[ryujinswater]

"Ask classmates if they wanna hangout after school."
Me, a socially awkward introvert who overthinks every little thing: No.

[beanicecookiedwoohoo]

I think an attractive habit/quality/something to have is being a good listener. Showing that you care about what the other person is saying, and that you're interested. Not interrupting, and not saying unhelpful things. I remember when someone did that for me years ago, it created a wonderful friendship, and now when I do it for others, I become closer to them. 🌻🌻🌻

[frankiehansen]

The animation is so cute and I love it.

[manufacturedpie]

I’ll start practicing these now! Thank you for all the great content and I appreciate your hard work <33 I think other people in my class are getting annoyed with me for some reason... so I’ll try this out!! Thanks again. Have a nice day ^-^

[lurelin]

Yayyy so happy that Naphia is now able to animate videos in the entire video frame and add ambiance to the animation!

[womenwhodate]

This is my favourite channel. I especially like it when you explain everything so nicely. I wish you a lot of success with the channel and happy life ❤️

[anu]

I like myself ❤️ that's enough for me . It's really good if one is genuine and not a people pleaser.

[roytinney]

I'm a recently new member. But I've been watching these videos and going by them and they have helped substantially. U feel like im becoming a better person and having myself put there more helps thank you!! 😊