Watch Out For These Red flags | Sh. Waleed Basyouni

Lasting love is full of difficult and necessary choices. 💭
💕Choosing to believe in marriage, 🔎 Searching for and choosing the right partner,
Choosing to stay with them or.... when necessary choosing to end things 💔.

How can you navigate these choices? Craft your personal love story, from start to finish.

❝𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐅𝐢𝐪𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 | 𝐌𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐂𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐈𝐧 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞❞

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[SharkysTravels]

Salaams, this session really touched my heart, I am a male and was a victim of abuse, in a marriage that lasted a very short time ( 6 months) when she showed her true colors, when she even turned violent and broke a couple of my ribs, even after this i forgave and tried to get on as i was in Nikah, then she was constantly being verbally abusive, at the same time I was going through loss of my mother and also myself being diagnosed with cancer and going through cancer treatment, eventually 2 weeks before my treatment finished, I built up the strength and courage to get out of the marriage. Alhamdulillah Allah is great and showed my a way out. now in fear of getting involved in another relationship. traumatized. Allah knows best 🙏

[GEPF]

Shubhan'Allah. Green flags lecture would be good too.

[khairathassan]

Ya Al Qadeer make me among those who do Umrah this Ramadan is it's what good for me.

[SaltLake]

Excellent lecture. Marriage should be an informed decision not left to your destiny.

[ninaadams]

Perfect golden nuggets of reminders and help people have our heads screwed on. Jazak'Allah kheiran for sharing

[jamesgund]

Thank you for calling out not to cross in front of the camera. This happens often and is distracting. Very good lecture. I wish this was available 20 years ago 😅😅😅

[justicejay]

I'm victim of this. Married someone I never met in my life. It's crazy yoo.. may Allah Azzawajal Bless us with good spouse ls. AMEEN ALLAH

[noor]

Jazakhallah khair sheikh this is so important!

[sahrakhatoon]

its Soo important as the Ustdz Hafidhullah, says, its very important to see, the spouse you looking for to be the one who has respect for the religion and fulfills his obligations to Allah, coz the One who is sincere to fulfilling his duty to Allah, hopefully would also be faithful with ihsan to his spouse and respect their relationship .

Barak Allah feek, Sheikh Hafidhullah.

[fatyghassem]

The mistake I made was to marry without being engaged as he wanted to rush things for Allah to give his baraka right away. He puts all his deen in the front line and I felt so safe. He prays in time, go to mosque every Friday, does omra every year, talk about deen all the time. Good character at least at the beginning, respectful at the beginning, good to his parents. He’s 15 years older than me, working in music industry and is sport agent (MMA, boxe) I always lived in Algeria and he’s Algerian born and raised in France. Both Sunni. I listened to all the advices to look for deen and manners first from sheikh like you. He was married twice second mariage with 2 young girls. His true colors was revealed after 6 months. I found out his ex wife divorced him because he cheated on her. He told me sheytan puts waswas in her mind. He is a cover narcissist. He went 3 times to jail but no one not even my family’s friend we asked him about told us that. Now I’m pregnant and I’m so sad.

[bilkisubmusa]

Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu Sheik. Masha Allahu Barakallah. Everything you said were all true. This is Sadakatul Jariya and may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala bless you. Jazzakumullah khair wa Bjannatul Firdaus ya Sheik.

[rukkysadiq]

May Allah preserve you and bless us with spouses the coolness of our eyes..Aameen

[rockoelfenomeno]

Do a push-up every time he says you know 😂. Love this sheikh, good advice he is giving. Allahuma barik.

[majulajawara]

❤😂🎉😢😮ur lecture just shows me d reality of what’s been happening in my life lately…. Ya Shiekh., thanks ever so much. Jazahou Allah khayran

[aminah]

Yes not praying is def a red Flag . I could never marry such a Man

[BQ]

Problems are women hitting on my husband in front of me and behind me. Women telling me not to obey my husband! The host is so right! My Dad said never go in their car or be alone with men except father or husband. Good advice video! ❤

[brurberhanu]

Selamwalykum. Very important topic Jezak Allau khair

[SandraStachowiczLtd]

Couples who live together before marriage are more likely to divorce living together prior to marriage is one predictor of the likelihood of divorce. A total of 57% of couples who did not cohabitate prior to marriage had a union that lasted 20 or more years, compared with just 46% who did live together before tying the knot. Gaming Managers have the highest divorce rates at #1 (surprise, surprise! 😂) Gaming service workers top the list too at #4. Do NOT marry a gamer. I repeat, do NOT marry a gamer 😂

[sumiyatariq]

Can u post the ten questions sheet on web or here so other can benefit too

[latinalife]

Narcissist my brother ….
I marry one, 18 years of moral abuse I suffer because of my kids now they said you bad mother because you got a job.
Always humiliate me, telling me you just work for me, make fun of me etc.
One of them became abusive like him .
Silent treatment
Stone walling
They deprive you even from your own self .
You ugly, you bad etc.
Pain with him and now pain for divorce. He was talking to a young woman and forcing me to move to his country to bring her, and denies it to death so my kids hate me because he says to them is a lie it’s not true .
99% is the man that lies about the divorce !