'My Wife Thinks I'm Cheating On Her When I'm Not' | Paul Friedman

You cannot control your wife's thinking. My Wife Thinks I'm Cheating On Her When I'm Not is probably way out of line but if she's going to think it all you can do is behave in a manner that suggests to her that it is impossible for you to cheat. Right now her fears are taking all of this false information from her subconscious mind and her memories, calculating that you're probably cheating and she's letting you know. Don't see it as an indictment. See it instead as this is what my wife is thinking. I love my wife so what can I do, this is really how you should be thinking. I love my wife so what can I do to reassure her to give her comfort, security in our relationship.

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[michellesantos]

Thank you for these words. I'm not married yet but my boyfriend of 5 years was acting suspicious. Five years together & I love him more than life itself. I heard him listening to your channel when he didn't think I'd hear him trying to get advice. Today he invited me out to dinner...just us. ❤

[DaveJohnson-hk]

The best advice ever! So clear yet thoughtful. Thank you thank you! I’m watching all videos now. So glad I found this

[justin]

The PROBLEM with this argument is that she HAS 24 hour access to my phone, knows all the logons to my social media and views every message i send. I always try reassuring her but nothing happens

[eotbdyw]

My wife and I are in a LDR and won’t see each other for months. Yesterday I made an online dating profile, wouldn’t have cheated, was just curious about people using it in my home town. Don’t know how I’m gonna get out of this one.