I Tricked My Wife into thinking I was Cheating… Here’s Why

0:00 I Tricked My Wife into thinking I was Cheating… Here’s Why (u/Kermit_Defrogg)

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[That_Random_British_Dude]

I've never understood cheaters. When they cheat, it's fine, it's like a little adventure, but when their partner potentially cheats, it's a betrayal, worse thing ever as if they hadn't been cheating in the first place. Stuff like this makes me question if people have any self awareness to begin with

[Demise]

From loving husband to cold-hearted detective. This guy must have been really determined to ruin her after what she did to him. Props to him.

[xXRedNinjaXx]

If you ever have a moment where your blocked by a person you never met before and they’re friends with your partner and raised a red flag, just make another account to check on who they are and see if there were any other pictures of them together acting too friendly

[zacenal]

i would have said to the wife after she asked him if he was cheating "babe, why would i cheat on you? I love you so much, and we loved and knew each other for over 23 years, i know neither of us would cheat, am i right?" it would be so funny, to guilt trip and take revenge on her like that! She would feel guilty, break up with p.o.s and i would break up with her, she would stay alone forever, with a mental breakdown

[kat]

The cheating wife messaging her affair partner whining that she thinks her husband is cheating. Serious disconnect there, if I was OP I wouldn't feel bad about the spy app at all. He gets to see her getting a taste of her own medicine and yet she still doesn't have the insight to break things off with that simp.

[LixoBostaGaymes]

This woman be like: "i think my husband is cheating on me, i need consolation from my boyfriend"

[TheDarkLink]

The spy app isn't going to far. Dude basically went dollar store Batman to get the info he needs/needed to get.

[rita]

I couldn't even IMAGINE doing what this "wife" did to her husband. My husband is employed but has no hours because his company is having issues (startup in health industry). It has never occurred to me to hold anything over his head, think less of him or look for someone else. We will get through this together. Marriage means supporting each other through everything or at the least, leaving if you can no longer be trusted to stay honest and faithful to the boundaries of your relationship.

[Utg_gamer_henry]

I love how he just started laughing in the middle of explaining

[evavocative]

We need to hear part 2 IMMEDIATELY!

If your partner is cheating and you're using it to collect evidence, honestly I think a spy app is justified. OP already knew wife was cheating at that point, just wants enough proof for court. I don't blame him.

[bendytheinkdemon]

i love these long revenge stories. there master pieces.

[bluetikc]

If his wife wasn’t pleased with helping her injured man that should’ve been the marriage right there, she was never the one.

[A.Peacock]

Damn. A way to destroy someone is to make them think you love them then ghost them. Do that over and over and ruin them mentally.

[junglejim]

When married, there cannot be any assumption of "privacy". You two are now 'one' and you owe each other full transparency. There is no justification for hiding things from your partner. Your partner deserves to know, in so many ways. If you do hide things from your partner, it will eventually come to light, trust will be gone (you will reap what you sow) and your relationship will be over. Period. Trust is the one absolutely essential ingredient to a happy, successful relationship. If you can't live with this concept, then don't get into a committed relationship such as marriage. It will not go well if you hide things from your partner.

[HOVREDDY]

This literally happened to me. I was with a girl whom I truly cared about for 6 years. We were college sweethearts. She went out one night with Co-Workers after months of being distant. and I noticed her talking to me about this dude at work. She then didn't talk to me for three days. I broke it off with her without asking questions. I already knew. Years later after the breakup and being single all that time, she told me she did cheat on me with her co worker. Turns out, the guy gave her a permanent STD, even I was her first and made it clear that I wanted to settle down. Karma is a bitch. Since then, she is still in the same small town, single, her father loves me, and all the meanwhile. I did a 180 degree turn, lost 50 lbs, became very successful, and never will look back.

[M_ht.]

I don't know why but I feel this guy is a really genius story maker and teller.

[Warriormon]

Spy app justified. Husband and Wife shouldn't have any secrets from. Each other except for surprises like presents for each other.
He is not the jerk. Throughout all of this he never cheated.

[wcemichael]

I wish I could get this kind of revenge on my ex. She's even brainwashed our daughter not to care about me

[simpletitleholder]

This entire saga was amazing I’ll be surprised if anyone hasn’t heard about this story

[LinuxJedi]

damn this was so sad what a heartbreaking story i can’t imagine the grief and pain of this man after 23 years of marriage after he gave her everything she could ever possibly want and it wasn’t enough then she had the audacity to say that she can’t imagine her life without him knowing that she never should’ve cheated in the first place