Cheating Fiancée Tried Telling Me That Her Affair Was Just a Test, So I Said Goodbye & Walked Out.

Cheating Fiancée Tried Telling Me That Her Affair Was Just a Test, So I Said Goodbye & Walked Out.

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[jjnix]

She's mad about him telling everyone because now she cant deflect the blame.

[Better_Call_Bulba-Saur]

He's a bad communicator? He's got a new girlfriend immediately after being cheated on, he handles customer support, he's even made a post that's refreshingly honest with how he sees the cheater and a level of understanding to accept it's just a learning experience now. Based on that, I'm pretty sure he's not a bad communicator, she's just evil.

[Sivrn-Val]

The fact that she apparently knew the other guy for only 1.5 months before immediately thinking 'Yeah i love this guy more than my fiance' shows what kind of a narcissist she is.

[Tikiri]

She calls him a bad communicator, but didn't bother to communicate any of the problems she had with him herself??

[sanddagger]

"I thought you'd be upset if I told you to stop working so much"
"I didn't think you'd be upset if i just cheated instead."

[shanielson]

Dude dodged a massive bullet. Straight up .50 cal narcissist.

[samuelmcloving]

Maybe he had flaws (probably not) but at least he was faithful and did not betray her.

[reecewearing]

There’s a positive direct correlation between Reddit users being cheated on and gym membership sales

[caspermoon]

It hurts to know OP felt bad for lack of communication but at the same time was working extra just to make sure everyone was straight.

If she wanted a part-time job she shouldve got one and instead talked with you about reducing your hours and spending more time with her / at home.

Hope OP heals and knows he shouldn't feel too bad.

[tek]

She really tried to gaslight him into thinking he was neglecting her. The problem was her and *only* her.

[arcadius]

*NOTHING* justifies cheating.

She can come up with all the reasons/excuses in the world for why he's allegedly a horrible boyfriend but at the end of the day she still cheated instead of just ending the relationship like she should have if she was soooo bothered.

[ProtonFilms_Mark]

The "it's hard to live for yourself" part is true. When my wife became pregnant she began torquing down the nuts and bolts on our relationship, to which I finally snapped one day and now we both have *me* days, with the kid staying behind with the other parent. Cause codependency is the last thing I need in my life.

[Thaddius]

its funny when communication is the reasoning while simultaneously someone cheats without ever bringing communication up beforehand

[Tlsna]

Man handled it a lot better than most people would

[kwith]

Being aware of your flaws is one thing, but some of this feels like OP is parroting some of the stuff his fiancé was spewing. Just remember, communication is a 2-way street. She could have just as easily come to him with the issues and they could have discussed it. I'm seeing a lot of deflection and projecting on her part basically trying to gaslight him into thinking it was all of his fault. Sorry, no. SHE chose to cheat, SHE made the decision.

[RavenScherazade]

When your soon-to-be ex-partner starts blaming you for THEIR cheating, just fucking leave. Lol Gods...

[gigabyteguru]

She knew the other guy for about 45 days before deciding to do all this. Wow.

[kossettereaditte]

Why do people have so much hatred for stable, routine and regular lives. I love it.

[Craig_Murray]

The cheater telling her partner what he "did wrong in the relationship"...

[arthurhex]

there is no excuse for cheating, if you cheat you're a waste of oxygen.