Damaged and Dangerous: Toxic Men and Narcissism!

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[ceemac]

Please please please dont marry a narsissistic man. Your home life will be miserable. You will hate going home. Its a jail sentence.

[cherrytracy]

And a narcissist never apologise 🤷🏾‍♀️

[LG-bxwl]

A huge sign of a narcissist is that smirk they give you when you’re upset, hurt and crying. They get off on your pain. And they use special events in your life (childbirth, your graduation, any type of special event for you) to turn the knife into your gut. They never change and they cannot love idc if you pray and fast nonstop for a year. They can’t and don’t change. They drain you dry until you’re totally zapped of all energy. Run, don’t walk. And then get some HARD standards and boundaries for yourself.

[LA-ghmi]

Lovebombing
Talking about his 'crazy ex'
Talking about his amazing life
Triangulation
Talking about Planning a future with you.

All talk no walk...run for the hills!

[lovinglatonya]

The only good thing about dealing with a narcissist is they can bring you to a awakening of greater self love ❤️ and self care. Go No Contact. They don’t deserve access to you, your possessions, money or body. Nothing 👈🏽

[softshock]

I married a narcissist. I’m now divorced. He kicked me out of our home after he began sleeping with one of my friends. He remarried before our divorce was finalized and cheats constantly. He gaslit me to the point I had to ask him what I was feeling and I’ve always been an independent person. I’ve been in therapy for almost two years. Everything she describes is correct. Please pay attention.

[sweetpeaj]

Very true. Never thought of how childlike their personalities are. Like a spoiled child, they want you to cater to them and act out when you don't. It's all about them.

[wisesavedone]

Narcissism is rampant in the black community.

[Pmatt]

My father, who was a pastor is also a narcissist. He hates his mother. Everyone is going to hell except for him. There is hell to pay except for him. He is always right and everyone else is wrong except for him. 🤷🏽‍♀️ sadly, I’ve attracted verbally abusive narcs just like him. I was* just like my mom. Docile, quiet and submissive.. She’s not like that anymore and neither am I.

[SaharaAP]

1.Self love
2.self care
3.get help on your childhood wounds
4.standing firm to your boundaries
5.learn to say no!
6.Emotional literacy is a must
7.Listen to your body if something feels off
8.Get emotionally healthy people in your life
9.get out and interact with other people
10. You are worth more hold your head up and stay feminine and strong!

[CT-yznx]

Easy way to detect someone with narcissistic traits is to 1. set a boundary with them or 2. Disagree with them and see how they react. Many people with narcissistic traits are HIGHLY sensitive to rejection real or perceived and they see your boundaries and disagreement as rejection. It could be about something small or unimportant and you could express the boundary or opinion in the kindest way possible. Doesn't matter. They will argue, get defensive, justify, explain, etc. Recovering codependent here. After marrying and later dating two narcs on both the 'grandiose' and 'covert' sides of the spectrum, I discovered my own codependency problems and got help.
Thanks for explaining this in such a clear and concise way, Chloe

[danicajvv]

Beware of anyone who is overly confident, smoothe, loud - it's not confidence, it's narcissistic arrogance. They are out to use you - they have no sense of empathy.

[TheOnlyJasmine]

Haven’t even watched this and already thumbs up. I dated a narcissist last year for about five months. The worst relationship ever but I’m so glad I went through it. It opened my eyes to hypergamy and leaving these dusties where they belong, behind me. I now listen to my intuition and pay heavy attention to red flags, vetting these men the best way I know how. Thanks in advance for this.

[DinaStrange]

4 years with one off and on. Almost drove me insane. They will manipulate you and make you think you are the crazy one while they lie and cheat behind your back. They will also insult you.

[Sheissodelicious]

I married a narcisisst. I regret it so much with my entire life. Dealing with this kind of person is too much

[jaygoldie]

Went on a few dates with a narcissistic guy. He was a charming accomplished dusty. Glad I quickly seen red flags. He was never flexible, didn’t take accountability, never was giving, felt entitled and frequently gaslighting. Being around him
was exhausting.Old me would have stayed but after leveling up by getting gems from Chloe_ and the hypergamy movement I realized my worth 💅🏾

[laurenestrada]

My child’s father is the epitome of a narc smh. I’m glad I broke away from him and his madness. Protect yourself ladies. Stop falling for potential and emotionally stunted men.

[MawiyahJ]

13.) They have often experienced physical, sexual, or mental abuse in their childhood (hence their stunted emotional growth)

[simplyhere]

Chloe a few years ago I told my Big Sister about the behavior of a dusty I had dated I didn’t know about him being a Narcissist but she knew. She hugged me and said “Baby you’ve met the devil 👿 time to purge before you begin to believe you are crazy!”
My big Sister saved me just like you are saving lives! Keep up the good work!👍🏾

[alisha]

This is one of the biggest social epidemics of our time. These people are evil. It’s like they want your soul.