Fear of Confrontation | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

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[phindilemathebula]

I love this channel 💖
I'm learning a lot ❣️

[davidx]

Its hard to set boundaries particularly having no back up from emotionally immature parents since childhood. I didn't think I had any rights to express my opinion.

[phyllislucero]

If i talked back or tried to stick up for myself, i would get screamed at, threatened, or hit or beaten. I am afraid of authority and confrontation and it has crippled me and stunted my development and life.

[nicholesap]

Narcissists and toxic people hate any feedback they perceive as negative, even when putting it in "I" statements. Anything that isn't about them sets them off.

[nobibabe]

you know what's sickening when you tell people what bothered you, and you Tell them what you wish they would do, and they do exactly what you ask them not to...
Toxic people live for that, stepping over your Healthy Boundaries
I've learned to remove myself gracefully and humbly....

[thefalsecritic]

As a man, I refrain from standing up to myself because it would be an acknowledgment of the hurtful action. If I remain quiet, it gives me a sense of security in the sense that it did not affect me. However, I've learned that this is cowardly and there's nothing more empowering than recognizing when something in fact has hurt you and standing up for yourself.

[yehuditbruck]

Communication between people, is the most important skill.

[tdstar]

Yess to all of this!! I can’t believe at the age of 45, I am just now developing self worth/confidence. I was always fearful of confrontation or rocking the boat out of FEAR... fear the person would not agree, leave or the relationship would end; platonic and romantic. Confrontation is an unavoidable part of life... I feel so free ending co-dependent, people pleasing and fearful behaviors... Avoiding the possibility of the relationship/friendship ending and keeping them together at ALL costs IS NOT WORTH IT!!!

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[alysiahite]

I am 58 years old and have finally figured out how to handle confrontation in a positive gentle way to show how I feel without hurting the other person and still getting across what I need and want. Being kind and gentle but firm. I love myself 😍

[RPJacob]

When you set boundaries but do not force consequences when they are crossed you are a perfect target for narcissistics. Never forget about that.

[MS-nski]

Don’t be afraid to offend jealous women that are mad at you bc they are jealous ❤

[beeznest]

I work with someone who targets me because I have a low sense of self and she picks up on that energy. She bats me around like a ball of yarn and she's a big fat cat. I'm getting tired of her manipulative, narcissistic treatment. Thank you for this..it came at the right time

[JLBriaa]

GOD JUST DELIVERED ME THROUGH THIS VIDEO !!!!

Now it all makes sense ♥️

[tiffaniL]

This video made me burst into tears. It completely stripped me to the core, and now I have a huge understanding. You probably changed my life. I was diagnosed with PTSD and my anxiety is in overdrive.

[sanctusignis]

More like fear of not being liked. Once you overcome that, life becomes easier.

I'm glad my narc ex was a tool the universe gave me to teach me to heal my childhood wounds and become who I was meant to be.

[faitheseabasi]

I have always been afraid of confrontation cos of my approval addiction. I feared disapproval and conflict. I just wanted to be loved and accepted. So I tried to please everybody and I stayed away from confronting issues. Fear of rejection and abandonment... This video meant alot to me. I plan to start practicing confronting issues and verbally communicate my feelings with love and self acceptance

[wendellignatin]

my dad is passive-aggressive.He fears confrontation.I think he put it into me.I have codependent tendencies.I'm working on it.

[peymang]

Great video. I am a 6 foot, 230lb man who is absolutely terrified of confrontation and people with strong personalities . To make it more funny, I am a licensed therapist. Imagine being able to help others through this process but not yourself. It has caused me depression and anxiety. My wife has lost her emotional attraction to me. I'm trying very hard to break through this issue which has really held me back in life. I know it comes from our childhood. It's difficult!!

[divinadivina]

2 or 3 fears together: (1) if I stand up for myself people will think I childhish, selfish, better than others, superior to others, (2) people wont listen, (3) no matter what I say, it wont happen, I wont get that, it'll always no. This morning I had a full blow just because of a simple thing. My inner child is ao afraid that they'll tell her no. (They never give me what I want, peope dont care about me. I'm always criticised). If I'd see a child saying that I'd for sure hold her. My inner child was an angel, my mother used to say that

[claudiopreite]

Probably the hardest, scariest and truest lesson/advice I ever heard before.