How To Psychologically Attract Someone

Often when we have a crush, there’s a desire for them to feel the same way about you as you feel about them. You may think: How can I get them to notice me? How can I get them to view me romantically? Here are a few ways to psychologically attract someone.

Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Yussie Feng
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:
Cottrell, Catherine A., Neuberg, Steven L., & LI, Norman P..(2007). What Do People Desire in Others? A Sociofunctional Perspective on the Importance of Different Valued Characteristics. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 92(2), 208-231.

[ComicalRealm]

"Physical attraction is common. Mental connection is rare" - Johnny Bravo

[kenny-nkdb]

how to psychologically attract someone

1. reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23
2. ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:25
3. display confidence and show open body language 2:56
4. don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:47
5. choose a date location with dim lights 4:40
6. engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:51

[khalilahd.]

Psych2go has been trying to get us into a healthy relationship all month. The wing man I didn’t know I needed 😂💜

[dummyy]

I like how the original title was" do not release pending" 😭

[rickjones]

Tips:

1. Smile, laugh, get sleep so you're energized.

2. Show compassion, and a bit of an edge. Everyone likes a sweet and exciting person.

3. Be open. Express yourself, others will see that as a genuine trait.

Ta da. You're chances will go up.

[doodleedoo]

lmao I got a notification that said "DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM" so of course I clicked on it

[ThRaz]

Hmm, but how do you know your own level of attractiveness? I think our perception of ourselves is often skewed in either direction, either thinking we're uglier than we are or hotter than we are.
(I think I actually experience both extremes depending on the day which is damn confusing)

[LuxPlanes]

Adam did you allow this to be released yet?

Edit: okay it appears Adam is okay with it, all good 👍🏻

[PsychologyRefresh]

Great video, showing an open body language is one one the easiest and most effective way to attract someone. We can totally relate!

[peytonibarra]

I usually fall for girls with personalities I like. My first crush would be considered plain looking, but OMG did we have some amazing conversations. She also had a unique sense of humor, man, I miss her.

[heidiw]

For the pupil size theory, I wonder if the means people with brown eyes are generally considered more kind, since they look like they always have large pupils

[SerDerpish]

I’ve subconsciously done almost all of these (except for the mood lighting) with my crush, so I think things are going well on that front ☺️ Hopefully when I tell her how I feel it will be reciprocated 🤞🏽

[readyrex]

It seems that Adam can follow instructions. That or he can't and he needs a reminder.

[Cons_]

"Similarly attractive". This one doesn't really make much sense as physical attraction is in the eye of the beholder and dependant on individual preferences and "types". How do you measure and compare if someone is similary as attractive as you are? I understand the point around sharing similar features but not the statement around physical attraction.

[silk]

i accidentally found this in the dating playlist

[parulsrivastava]

How To Psychologically Attract Someone!!



1) Reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23
2) Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:24
3) Display confidence and show open body language 2:56
4) Don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:48
5) Choose a date location with dim lights 4:41
6) Engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:52

[advancetotabletop]

6. Paraphrasing is something you should do ALL the time, including business. Not only does it clarify issues which may not be visible, and the other person gets to talk more. :D

[Masked_One_]

But don’t forget there’s a very big difference between attraction and manipulation.

Edit: you made a mistake (your recent video) it States “DO NOT CLICK THIS” so I won’t, that’s why I’m commenting here. What does this say about me? Other than I’m a smart arse 😅😂

[eggree]

I didn’t realize that I usually reflective listen until you talked about it.

Now I understand why my friends say, “I like talking with you”. But usually they do most of the talking but I don’t mind listening. 😊

[Khadeeen]

Thanks for giving this video the green light Adam 👍🏻