Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up With You

Hi, I’m Brad Browning, Youtube’s #1 Breakup Geek. I’ve been on Youtube for years giving you the honest truth when it comes to getting your ex back and I’ve helped make love a reality for thousands of clients all over the world. So stick around and take notes if you want to hear advice that works in the real world.

Step #1: No Contact

When you go into No Contact, you’re effectively rewiring your ex’s brain. As time passes after a breakup, any anger and resentment your ex has towards you will fade. No matter how angry they were your ex will begin to think of you fondly. This process is called “Romanticizing” our past relationships. Simply by staying away, you’re improving your ex’s memories of you and letting them stew in their regret.

During this time, DO NOT check in with your ex or mention them to mutual friends. Act like you’re over them but have no hard feelings, even if it isn’t true.

Step #2: Show your ex a new side of you.

Whatever reason your ex gave you for ending things, the truth is that relationships often end because of boredom… your ex feels like they’ve experienced everything you have to offer them and that it’s just going to be more of the same as long as you two are still together.

What’s something about you that your ex couldn’t stand? Maybe you didn’t make an effort when it came to your appearance. Maybe you spend too much time on the couch rather than experiencing new things. Identify this shortcoming and take steps to correct it. And most importantly… do it in a way that your ex will notice. Whether this means getting a new haircut, going on a trip, or spending time with your friends and family.

Step #3: Re-attract

Once you’ve completed No Contact, now is the time to reach out and begin the real re-attraction process. If you’ve successfully completed No Contact then your ex’s negative feelings towards you will have faded and they’ll be thinking about what they lost by breaking up with you. By reaching out to them at this stage, you’re going to show them that all hope isn’t lost. It’s important to play it cool. If you’ve pulled off no contact successfully, you’re actually at an advantage over them so don’t lose it.

Now that you’re back in contact you still need to keep your distance. By keeping contact with your ex but still maintaining your boundaries, you remind them of what they’re missing: the intimacy, closeness and love they chose to give up by ending things with you.

Any sort of negativity, begging, or whining at this stage is a huge mistake. You need to show them that you don’t need them but that they still need you. This power imbalance is key to making them regret the breakup and get back with you.

Don’t be cold but don’t treat them the same way you did when you two were together. Treat them like an old friend rather than your partner. They’ll feel the change and want to bridge the gap between you two, without even knowing.

This is the simplest way to completely transform how your ex feels about you and make them chase you again, instead of the other way around. Regret is a powerful emotion and if you can use it correctly, you’ll be back together in no time.

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[KanchanmalaSengupta]

I don't want Him back. I just want he regrets his decision and feel the same pain I'm going through right now 💔

[eaStudioHD]

Improve your life people, and you'll notice after some time that you don't need someone who left you back.

[AyeItzEmily-uihj]

My boyfriend broke up with me bc he "wasn't ready for a relationship" but he's the one who rushed it all

[stretchwheel]

What I love about your videos is that your titles make it sound like the plan is to teach us how to get your ex back but what you really teach us is how to properly deal with a break up and leave us the choice is we want to or not once we're healed. Love the videos.

[darkwiserpt]

I don't agree with the 30 day thing... If you go no contact, STAY IN NO CONTACT, the dumper is the one who has to contact you, period

[DISCIPLE]

Brad do you know how many people u are truly blessing with your videos? You have a spiritual calling, the Lord is using you in mighty ways I truly believe

[yuidesu]

It's been 7 months since he broke up with me. the reason he gave was so lame it was like he was so desperate to break up with me that he made stupid excuses. I never cheated on him, I loved him so much, took care of him, was respectful him, treated him so well, I gave my all to him but in the end he gave me stupid reason and broke up with me since than I couldn't love anymore I'm so damn scared to fall in love again he was the only person I truly loved. I've decided to stay single and work on myself. still the scar and pain he gave me will be with me forever.

[sickboomerang]

Or realize it's truly over and move on 💯

[elle]

I refuse to waste my precious and limited time on conspiring to make someone regret losing me. My healing and moving on is not predicated upon their great. Empower yourself by not worrying about trivial things such as their regret. Live your life on your terms. 💪

[nuclear]

A relationship is like a brand new car, once it's in a wreck it's never the same. I don't want it back... Thanks for the vid. ✌️

[superflashshazam]

What if both the guy and the girl is watching this video and both are using the same method!?

[kjtol]

I've been doing no contact for over a month now, did new activites and posted on my Instagram but still he hasn't reached out. He liked a photo that I posted recently and still views my stories. But that's all. If anything, he's seeing someone new and I feel like he has no interest in me at all anymore... this feeling sucks.

[eumesma]

I know he will never forget me and he will forever regret hurting me.

[_xena_]

Getting over someone you love is so hard and I'm trying to have a good attitude about life but I miss him so much. Today was the first time I saw him after 2 months and I felt so nervous around him and now I wish we could get back together

[Minaoda.]

I broke up with my ex last week. He dumped me but we still care about each other and talk everyday. He told me that there's a chance of us getting back together even if it's 5 or 10 years later. So I'm going to stop talking to him for a while even if it's not easy...Thank you for your advice🥰

[trinityellis]

Why is this most realist thing I've ever heard in my life 👏🏽👏🏽

[andrewpolich]

OMG I CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH OMG IM GETTING HER BACK I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MAN YOU ARE A FUCKING LEGEND

[cindymae]

Why do I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away from me and avoiding how we should works things out when we go to college.(2 hours away for college)

[cruzlopez]

He's so calming I swear and makes me comfortable and makes me thinks positive. Thank you so much

[joepedroza]

My ex said she knew she made a mistake. Her words were to me that she made her bed now she had to lie in it. I told her that's like stepping on dog shit and not just rinsing your shoes off. Mistakes can still be fixed.