How Does a Husband lead a home

Not all husbands know how to lead the home. Sean gives some great points on how husband can lead their families.

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[iJackson]

My woman has the type of soul that could save a nation … lord help me learn to bring every piece of greatness to the surface in myself so she can bring all her greatness to the surface 🙏🏼

[merryhall]

As a women that has supported my family and tried to add in many ways... its not good for Me to feel responsible for earning and doing thr major things for the family.

I didn't understand why I was so anxious, controlling, fearful... until re- remembering that I am meant to be a helper to my husband... we had it the other way round. I found it hard to relax and respect him when I felt so much weight of responsibility.

Now under his Authority and with him bearing the most responsibility I feel lighter and more loved, as now I can focus on the things that make our lives and home function better...there is more peace and even the children are showing more respect since they see Me following Daddy.

I still share some thoughts but am learning it's better for Me to slow down, so He has time to think His own thoughts and pray befor hearing mine.

God's design is beautiful and the fruit of it is the fruit of the Spirit.

[School-lslf]

I’m a young husband and now father and I’m having trouble with the entire concept. The entire aspect of a servant leader gets very oxymoronic in a sense. Like for me, I live my life to protect, secure, & ensure prosperity in my family. I make all of my decisions based off how it will affect my family. So that means, I sacrifice a lot things that I desire, to ensure my wife & baby are happy. This is the “serve” part of leadership. Any of my wife desires, I don’t say “no”, I say how can I make it happen. The conflict occurs when I try to exercise the “lead” aspect of servant leadership. Many decisions or actions I ask my wife to do and support, she takes it as an option, and most of the time does the latter. Which usually produces consequences that I have to resolve myself… it’s like the more I serve her, the less credibility I have in making decisions. It’s like a double edge sword and it’s driving me out my marriage. I feel that support should not just come from the husband which is the head of the home. The wife has to support his decisions too. She doesn’t have to agree but the husband should have final say so and she not punish him for it (rather it’s ignoring him, withholding sex, long winded debates, etc). From counselors to pastors with whom I spoke with, their rebuttal is always that I’m trying to “control” her and woman are going to always rebel. If that’s true, how can you lead when leading by example only makes you as the husband suffer more. (I not only sacrifice my wants, but I also have to resolve any consequences my wife causes, while doing everything yourself.) It’s like what’s the point of marriage if ima just make my wife happy and don’t get it in return. And any request i ask, it’s consider “controlling” .

[adventuresofitzel]

Loved this! I feel like many people don’t speak on the role that a husband is meant to reflect Jesus’ love for the church. I hear most people, if not all, tell women they need to be led but they don’t elaborate to men what it means to lead. Grateful for this video.

[richeneljeanpierre]

Being a LEADER sounds very beautiful path to go with. Love it.

[RealLifeAnimation]

I needed this. As a fiancé and a new father and also having a father that subscribes to old “Head of the household” rhetoric. I’m really learning as I go. This gives me more understanding of how to navigate a household. Thank you

[shereennoever]

Yes..this is a son of GOD..and I believe that GOD want HIS sons to be like that👏🏿👏🏿 blessings to you and your Wife and family

[lipephi]

This is the word I was looking for; It doesn't concern family leadership only, but leadership in any type of context. Many thanks and be blessed.

[kenyasmalls]

Amen!!! I just want to cry, I’ve been trying to explain this to my guy, and he really didn’t understand the meaning of leadership and being the head. Thank you so much.

[lookup]

Sir, we need your teachable, & book & workbook on this((keeping in mind that your wonderful energy is appealing to believers and actually quite palatable to non-believers as well)). And please also a version for high school and college student. Our country and culture has suffered due to needing these types of detailed structured and very clear lessons

[prisstine]

Thank you for this video ❤ My husband believes that his decision is the only decision and that how it should be. More of the dominant role, which he is also trying to spread that idea to my son. I feel that he would prefer the wife to be silenced and not once did I read that in the Bible of a husband leading his wife in that manner. I just have never been that way, which has caused problems in our marriage. I pray that it’s not too late for him to realize that one day

[ibiminaabiye]

I'm grateful for this very simple layout. I wish I had this to show my ex-husband years ago.

I became the therapist of my home until my tired got tired, because he was gaslighting and ghosting me, instead of confronting the problem.

[adebolaabayomi]

Great insight. Seeing your woman as your partner is the key. Working together, listening to her opinion and learning from each other. 👍💯

[bearzytankttv]

Amen this will be saved to my favorites there has been a lot put on me lately and I have too let go and let God guide me to be a better Father & Husband

[AspiringHomemake]

I love this video! It’s a hidden gem lol !
I’m enjoying the abundance of information women & men provide that help me please God as a wife and mother. But I just noticed how Most men are using their platform to speak directly to women/wives about how we need to walk with God but I don’t see much at all with men speaking to the husbands on how God wants men to lead the home and what that looks like on a daily basis.
Thank you and you wife for your ministry. May God continue to bless !!

[stephaniebrossard]

Omg thank you for breaking it down
I said “ my husband will lead “ and crickets that word lead, doesn’t sit well with society at all

[victorokafor]

This is one of the best videos of seen on this topic

Thank you so much
I also love the emphasis on men and women being equal and Men not being controllers❤

[adebolaabayomi]

Leadership is hard😀 Although the world system has really changed the meaning but leadership comes with great responsibility, being the first to take the right steps. I just trust in GOD for help to lead right.

[richeneljeanpierre]

I've been doing the most without even knowing it. It was naturally done.

[starttofinishmediaco.]

Love this positive masculinity content ❤❤❤❤❤❤ wish I could like this 100 times!