What Happens If I Never Get Married? | Omar Suleiman

Two people can seem like the perfect fit, sharing passions and dreams, but sometimes Allah's plan unfolds differently. Love in this dunya isn’t guaranteed for everyone, and being attached to someone—or the idea of them—can be intoxicating or even debilitating. What does it mean when things don't go as planned? How do we reconcile our desires with Allah’s decree?

In this video, we reflect on the divine nature of love and destiny. Drawing from the wisdom of the Prophet ﷺ, Islamic scholars, and historical figures, we explore the concept of love for the sake of Allah, the importance of character and faith in relationships, and the lessons from those who found fulfillment beyond marriage.

Whether you're waiting for your soulmate, focusing on other pursuits, or finding peace in Allah's plan, remember that your worth is not diminished. Allah’s decree is perfect, and the best is always yet to come—whether in this life or in Jannah.

Key Topics Covered:
- The role of divine decree in relationships
- Lessons from Islamic history about love and marriage
- Finding purpose and fulfillment beyond marriage
- Trusting Allah's timing and plan for your life

"Whoever supposes that His loving-kindness is separate from His ordaining decree does so out of his own shortsightedness." #islamicmotivation #islamicvideos #islamiclectures

Noble Lessons

[eccenterikahunter]

if i dont get married in this lifetime, i believe that i am meant to spend my life with my mother and taking care of her

[inaamina]

Im a 48 year old revert ( i took the shahada in January 2024 )
Im truly believe that love is not for me .
I got married two a guy that i though was a nice respectful religious man . But he became very abusive after the nikah.

Im disabled and i have a disabled daughter . The little energy and strength that i have i use to do household chores and helping my daughter.
Not entertaining abusive bad people.

[d.k.hapsari]

Thank you for this lesson. I am still single in my 35 yo and as a woman i feel insecure. People said that women are different than men. They have "expired date", term that really is rude toward all women. I believe that Allah SWT has another plan for me. That this is not my time yet and Allah SWT gives me a time to develop and grow, become the better me. Yet, that term (and any sinister people said toward single women) are really hard to hear. Thank you for remind me, that we should not give up hope about our future. If married is not for us in this life, than its for us in Jannah. InshaaAllah. Aameen.

[_HaSSaaN_]

The fact that no one will be single in the Jannah is just something else ❤

[sweetynt]

I was married but now am a single mother. I am not in a rush to marry again. I am waiting for allahs sign. My childeren are happy I am. And also I get to spend life with my old aged parents who are so vulnerable. I say allhumdulilallah im put in this position maybe allah put me in this position for that reason. Inshallah I get remarried because I loved being married but if it happens it happens if it dosent then maybe it wasent written for me to happen once again. What ever but I'm thankfull for the lessons and the knowledge

[Taqwa]

My eyes are dry... No more pain... May Allah grant us sabrun jameel

[esin]

It’s all about rida (contentment) and qana'ah (satisfaction) with what Allah (SWT) has chosen for us. Both marriage and singlehood are tests in their own ways. Marriage doesn’t guarantee Jannah, and being single doesn’t make you immoral, unworthy, or incomplete. In fact, being single can give you the time and space to better understand yourself and deepen your connection with Allah (SWT). As a single Muslim woman, I wholeheartedly embrace what Allah (SWT) has destined for me. I don’t see marriage as the ultimate purpose of my life. My priority is to love Allah (SWT) above all else, keep Him at the center of every decision I make, and strive to please Him with the circumstances, resources, and abilities He has granted me. And honestly, this brings me so much peace, alhamdulillah 😌

[rubaniayumkhaibam]

Fill your day with ibadat. Don’t get depressed thinking that you have been left out.

[raisa_cherry]

I am happy with any decision Allah makes for my future life, single at 35 😊

[blackbeautifulandsmart]

I really need to hear this Jazak Allahu Khayran for sharing.

[Azhera-]

It is Better to be Alone then in a Abusive or Unhappy Marriage.

[Xyabwho]

❤Jazak Allah khair, brother, YOU have no idea how many women NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. We have Naik going on and on about unmarried women are Market Properties

[turbotabbyaa]

Im not married 😊 but I'm working on myself i only want to please Allah SWT people gossip regardless if your married or not i don't live for toxic people's words do what is right for you if you want marriage first become what your looking for if you want to work on your faith then strengthen that bond. No one has the answers for anyone else's story accept Allah SWT keep the yaqeen certainty or strong belief in the All knowing.

[Shinobu.]

If it didn’t happen here, I want my comfort character in Jannah
No one else❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥💍💍

[READ-xc]

Alhamduli'ALLAH, now i can help myself to wait for anything, Insha'ALLAH !!!

[TKT]

I honestly think the people who unfortunately struggle to find a life partner might still b okay n at peace with what’s written in their fate but our own Muslim society who we have to be a part of we cannot isolate from them . They make it the worst for u . They themselves know we can’t change what Allah has written for us . U cannot go to war with him u cannot go in battle with him but they keep poking you . DONT MAKE A VIDEO on giving hope to those who are meant to be alone but make a video for THE UMMAH our bad brothers and sisters who need to learn to also accept and behave and not hurt people for it . Shameless community

[rukhsar]

Alhamdulillah! may ALLAH make it easy for all of us in this dunya and aakhirah.

[unariver]

Alhamdulillah, I am at peace now...
Thank you for the video...

[Enceladus]

I needed this man phew feels so relieved, sometimes you feel doing wrong by not getting married, but this gives hope if not here perhaps in next life 👍

[AyishaLynn]

For all of you guys older than 25, my Muslim momma (she guided me into Islam, and us not my blood mother) she just got married at 45, Alhamdullilah. There is still a chance for us more mature, wiser women. Subhanallah 🩷