Discard A Narcissist FIRST And THIS Will Happen 👀

Ready to take control of your life and discard a narcissist first? In this empowering video, 'Discard a Narcissist First and This Will Happen,' we explore what happens when you discard the narcissist first, from the end of the devaluation phase to reclaiming your power post-love bombing. Discover the keys to ending the cycle of narcissistic abuse and taking back control of your life.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[brotherscoobs]

Narc-"you'll never find anyone like me"
Me- "i certainly hope not"

[shaftwood]

My experience is a narcissist isn't going to actually dissolve a relationship. They'll just keep using and abusing for as long as they possibly can. They get whatever they can out of someone else, and when the other person finally walks away, the narcissist has proof they're not the bad guy.

[berean]

If you find out your narc cheated on you, they will never trust you again

[bradmcewen]

When a highly tolerant person decides they are done. They are done. No more indecision. No more cognitive dissonance. Done. It will be the most lengthy narcissistic encounter you will ever have. Tolerance goes to a very small limit. It must be. They tried to kill you and if they do by proxy of disease or a distracted accident will then show up at the funeral home commenting they knew this was going to happen. If your narc was a realtor, they will then contact your next of kin offering their services....

[garycordle]

This is so spot on Christina, once your give a dam is busted, you decide to pick your life and sanity over the narcissist and just walk away and go no contact, they go and play the victim act, and they act like you're the bad guy and play the victim card to their next victim, I had it happen to me, and been no contact for a few years now, and I still get hoovered, but just on my phone thank God I moved far away and I just don't answer her text at all 👍 thanks for the video 🦋🙏

[oops]

After 8 years with my ex, I was on medication for ADHD and anxiety and had a moment where I finally told her I was done and needed space (we had never spent a day apart in those years, not for lack of trying on my end). She melted down, packed her things, blamed it all on my medication, took our car and said she might not be alive in the morning. After 2 weeks with her friends she came back saying she was more understanding and wanted to try again, so I tried. 2 years after, she wanted to move to a new city with me and start college (something she didn’t let me do because of fear of me “finding someone better”), but I was happy for her, so we did. A year and a half later she met a guy online and left me for him in an instant and moved away. Narcs can discard so easily, but cannot handle being on the receiving end whatsoever. So now I’m stuck in a town I didn’t ask to be in, scared to make friends, and drank myself stupid for the last year and a half.
Moral of the story is:
Narcissists will ruin your life if you let them in. So please stay aware and stay away.

[ShadowKing]

I discarded the narcissist first. She literally become the Wicked Witch with her army of flying monkeys. I don’t even respond to their childish behavior now. Keep in mind these people are in their 30s 😂

[Juan-dbjz]

I realized after 20 years I was married to a narcissist. I broke-down badly for a week or so and slowly got the courage to leave.
God give me strength!!

[annettecoombs]

I left the narcissist... he cried because he couldn't lose me. I was done after 34 years of marriage. He tried to discredit me. I started to date someone 14 months after I left. He tried to make me sound like I was a sl__t. Luckily, it did not work. I really don't care what anyone thinks of me. Anyone who knows me, and believes my ex is not anyone that l want in my life anymore.

[debbiegalica]

I dumped him and I'm done. The Super Empath wins lol.. 3 months no contact. Goodbye covert narcissist. I don't need closure. I got mine on my own. I don't want to hear I'm sorry.. because I know it's not true.

[andrewschoenfeldt]

I hate to see my wife as a narcissist. But your videos are like a checklist. I always took that i was the problem and continuously trying to upgrade my behaviors.

[kittycuddler]

Fauxpology. I'll remember that word! Thanks for your guidance.

[gordt]

I had an interesting discard. I was told multiple times over 4 months that she was going to leave me, “not now, I’m just letting you know, so when it happens it’s not a surprise” this out of the blue after 30 years of marriage. Trying to find out what was going on, I was told that I did “nothing” to help around the house. When I pointed out the tasks I did every day, more than 50%, she acknowledged that yes I did those, then went right back to looking me in the eye and saying that I did “nothing” to help around the house. It was one of the many stories she’d chosen for her narrative, and yes, I think she believed it, and the more she told it to herself, the more it was real to her. When I couldn’t cope anymore and ended our relationship, I became the one who had left her!
Your videos are a wonderful resource to help people escape and recover. Thank you.

[moonbaby]

Thankfully my narcissist wife has married someone else. All I have to do now is get the financial clean break done and try to rebuild my relationship with my daughter. Roll on November.

[HelpfulHerbs]

After seeing my narc sadist mother put me in a room with others and bring up something that had happened when I was 7hr old to humiliate me...I knew when I walked away there was no going back. She had held that grudge (which was actually anger she had toward my dad) for over 50yrs. No going back. Had to agree to be the 'bad' or 'crazy' person to family and others around her, but Im 1 1/2yrs into my escape-goat decision and I have times that I flip back and forth as to my decision. I started writing everything down so I would have visual reminder that if I ever went back I would pay. Thank you for your videos to help remind me I did the right thing for ME.

[NKev-fx]

I think I'm lucky because i didn't know any of his friends or family. That psycho was so private. Thank god it didn't last for a year. Thank God for all the videos I've been watching. I never find myself with anyone weird like him, that's why I go and search to see what was happening with his reactions 😢. I blocked him everywhere and yesterday i received a text from a random # i knew it was him i immediately blocked it after 1 hour.

[TheMAEdsell]

I discarded him first and his reaction was Ok take care!! I’ve been NC 20 days now. I’ve called him out before and he knows I know what he is. I haven’t heard a peep from him! Hope it stays that way!

[lankankeys]

I had a woman say this to me, "No woman will ever love you like I do." This, after barely 3 months of dating let alone a live-in or an actual comitted relationship. It makes me wonder if these people are eve self-aware of the stuff that comes out of their mouth.

[safourasalami]

Yes .. I discarded first .. After her rages she tried to begin amor with my own brother !!!! Who can believe!!😮

[raginaldmars]

… as a German Biologist –
With intense Endurance and Inner Strength Training
I repel the Predators with my Firewall and No trespassing
Weakness attracts all sorts of Predators and Cannibals