How to Tell if She Only Likes You as a Friend

We say most romantic relationships start off with friendship. But there are times that it’s better to keep the friendship as it is than to ruin it by bringing it to the next level.

Some guys have girl best friends from their childhood. You’re too close to each other that everyone asks if you two are dating. Or people around you encourage you to date. You’re secretly in love with your friend but you’re not sure if she feels the same way.

Although you find her compatible for you, you're not sure if she's also willing to take your friendship to the next level. So, here’s a list of signs to take note if you're in the friend zone.

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Editor: Paul Mendez
Voice Over: Teagan Mckenzie
Script Writer: Eka Watson
#relationship#dating#psychology

[holycamole]

Men, stop giving girls who friend zone you attention, move on ; find another girl or just focus on improving yourself. Chasing after a girl who friend zones you is childish... Unless you actually want her only as a friend also.. Do not wsste your time chasing..

[kylekenan]

1. You invite her and she tags along her whole crew.
2. She doesn't wear makeup around you.
3. She chats with you on a regular basis.
4. She talks more about her crush.
5. She sees you as a brother.
6. She's comfortable snuggling with you.
7. She changes clothes in front of you.
8. You console her after a bad day.
9. You get drunk together and nothing happens.
10. She pairs you up with someone else.

[renvidon]

Just got friend zoned earlier this morning. Lol

[disco.jellyfish]

How to avoid being friend zoned/how to exit the friend zone (exiting becomes more and more difficult the deeper you are stuck in it):

1. You invite her and she tags along her whole crew.
If she suggests to bring some of her friends to your date, do NOT agree. The her that if she wants to meet with her friends you 2 can meet up another time. She will either agree to the not bring her friends or just hang out with your friends. You (most of the time) never want to hang out with her friends before having hung out with her exclusively. Sure if you happen to be on lets say the same birthday party you both were invited to somehow - thats something different. However you then definitely dont want to pay too much attention to her and more to her friends. Flirt with them - chances are it will drive her crazy, because before she thought you had feelings for her but now you are flirting with these other girls, which makes her wonder about your feelings. When she wonders about you, she is literally thinking about you.

2. She doesn't wear makeup around you.
If she doesnt wear makeup around you - you should not care. This should make her less visually attractive in your eyes - do not tell her directly, but definitely dont give her compliments. Believe me, she cares wether you like her appearence or not; even if she only views you as a friend. Girls always care.

3. She chats with you on a regular basis.
The phone is for setting dates - not chatting. Do not chat with her on a regular basis. Chatting always takes at least 2 people. So if you dont chat back, chatting with you will be pretty much pointless for her. I dont suggest that you should ghost her completely - but only go back and forth for a couple messages and smoothly exit the conversation or ask for a date - depending on why she reached out to you. Oh yeah - do not reach out to her. Girls should do at least 70% of the pursuing. Really the only time you should reach out to her is for setting dates - but its better if she was the one to have reached out initially. Much easier.
Also - less contact is always better. Even if she ghosts you for a week, a month or even longer - you do not care. You will not double text either.

4. She talks more about her crush.
You do not care about her crush. Just dont be upset whenever she mentions him. Just do not show any interest in what she just said, when its about her crush. Especially if its over text. As I said in Tip 3. You dont do texting. You only do the dating.
It could also be her testing you - she wants to find out how you react. Or she maybe wants to make you jealous.

5. She sees you as a brother.
Lead the conversation elsewhere and also stop behaving as if you were her brother. You could try making some step brother joke or so.

6. She's comfortable snuggling with you.
The video is wrong right here. Touchiness is always a good thing. If she is comfortable touching and being touched by you, you are much closer to kissing or getting inside of her than if she wasnt. Definitely dont stop touching her. If you want to kiss and penetrate her later on you gotta touch her anyway. Having touched before already makes this much less awkward and much more likely to happen in the first place.

7. She changes clothes in front of you.
Weird point in the video. This honestly is barely an indicator for either "friend-zone" or "boyfriend-zone". Just forget this part of the video.

8. You console her after a bad day.
Arrange a date in this situation right here. The phone is for setting dates - remember?

9. You get drunk together and nothing happens.
Your fault: Its actually quite simple. Girls dont want to recieve the slut label. So whenever sex is happening its gotta be the mans fault so she can tell her other girlfriends after having sex on the first date: "Yeah I really tried not to but he did everything right and it just kinda happened with the flow." - You definitely need to touch more btw. Since you are drunk you guys might find yourselves kinda wasted on the couch cuddling anyway. A good place to do some touching and try some kissing if the signs are right (you will know the signs once they occur).

10. She pairs you up with someone else.
Okay this is very weird - also this is probably REALLY rare. But you could try out flirting with said girl and make the one you are actually interested in jealous (Yup - they try to pair you up, but get jealous nonetheless when they are successful). Or you kindly deny the offer and move on. You probably want to avoid that situation altogether by not hanging out with her friends in the first place.


Bonus tips:

-Girls know how you feel. Girls are all about feelings so they are also very good at detecting them.
-Date other girls. Have options.
-Get off the phone. Get a job or so. You are busy - you cant text girls all day.
-Dont be her fucking simp. Siping always leads to rejection.
-Dont be submissive. She is the one who has to be submissive.

And the most important tip of them all:
*DO NOT* get dating advice from girls. If there is anyone who has no idea what girls actually want - its girls. Never ask girls about girls. They simply dont know.

[ravin.hiremath]

This exact thing happened to me in my life, we are too close but just friends, I'm a best friend to her, after watching this video I clearly understood to put a borderline between friendship and romantic relationship. From now onwards I'll create a dedicated friendzone in my mind.

[royboy]

You forgot the last step to this. Ending the friendship. Only way to get out of the friend zone.

[johnrainsman]

Likes me or like-likes me....that is the question. She used to work at the bakery I go to a lot, and we chatted and connected so many times. Heck, about a year ago, while I was working on my laptop, I saw her lift her head up in thought, before turning to me and saying, "How was your summer?" It was kind of random, but I appreciated her interest. On her last day (Jan 2023), she said my coffee was on her. One day, I ran into her at the bar. We chatted, and I said something about her bravely coming out of her shell better than me because of her singing karaoke during her first time here. Not long after, when she and her friends were singing again, she gestured me toward them and pointed to the lyrics on the screen. What's funny is I had told her I didn't like being in the spotlight during the said "out of shell" conversation. Not to criticize her encouragement. Just saying it's interesting and I'm wondering about her motive, perspective, and if it could've meant something.

But perhaps not. I'm starting to wonder if she has a boyfriend. I saw her a few nights ago at a different bar. I pretended I didn't see her in the dancing crowd, she noticed me (I think after I accidentally bumped into her), put her hand on my arm to get my attention, and said hi. It was a very brief talk, given the dancing and loudness. So of course, I did not ask for her number or to be my date at the swing dance next month. But it's not just that. She was with a group of friends, and one of them was a guy she talked with. He _could_ have been her boyfriend. What would be the signs (aside from kissing, obviously). I'm curious about the connection (or contradiction) between the potential "she-likes-me" signs and the idea of her having a boyfriend. He's the main reason I didn't ask her anything. Should I, whether it be phone number or swing dance invite?

[charlesbakes]

All of the Signs.
You Nailed It...👍👍👍

[Elonmuskateer]

Tried to pair me up with her friend, but calls me her hot neighbour and is always complimenting me :-/

[jefe]

Her grandkids love me does that mean anything

[johnjilly]

So nothing like this is happening. So i still have a chance lol

[guythreekeekae]

🤣 🤣 🤣 Atleast none of this is happening to me 😂😇maybe i deserve a chance

[alextanguay]

Imagine being hella attracted to a girl and she did all that 😂 sounds like hell if you would be attracted

[techgameinggeeks]

The first one to comment I may Tell you may your wish come true ;)

[TheMindIlluminated]

Some of these make no sense. I have never once had a female friend, no matter how close, that would change or share a bed with me that didn’t at least want to have sex. Talking constantly? Come on. If she has other guy friends she has known a decade longer than you, abd she starts forgoing them for you, she’s into you in some way.

[daveruth]

If a woman talks to me about how she likes a guy or how she wants to f a guy or she asks me how to make him like her i tell her " im not gay" i get up and tell her ill get another chick that night and gets another chick and cut tye pther female off. Then will text me why i dont talk to her and i see becuase i got other chicks to be with i dont have to be around you youre not that intresting anyways. Then she upset.