When to STOP Pursuing Her

[brandomiranda]

If someone cancels plans THEY need to reschedule. Good rule of thumb.

[tacticaltruthteller]

Reserve your attention for someone who reciprocates.

No reciprocation. No attention.

[kennyslg]

Every bit of this is 100% true. Remember two things.

"No time" is a complete myth. The busiest people in the world have time for people they value.

If her actions and words ever start to mismatch, immediately stop talking to her forever.

[JoshPeterson]

Truths. The amount of heartbreak I would have been saved if I had been given this advice when I was younger would be monumental.

[maniacmatt]

If she wanted to see you, she would see you.

[ct]

Frankly, playing hard to get means she doesn't give a f. and neither should you. Most women are so conceited they don't have a clue about reciprocity and that means she'll never bring anything to the table.

[Chripiter]

Good advice, simple and to the point.
A girl who is into you, will make it very clear and you will NOT feel confused or be wondering.

[ModernDatingMastery]

*If she’s consistently distant, unresponsive, or gives mixed signals, that’s your cue to stop pursuing. No matter how great the connection might seem in your mind, it’s crucial to respect her boundaries and realize that true attraction is always a two-way street.*

[harthart]

Regardless of how you classify your relationship with a woman if she isn’t keeping up her end, walk away. All relationships are supposed to be mutually beneficial. The quicker we all do this the quicker they will realize that behavior is unacceptable.

[LEMON-fcdn]

Situationship.😂 Great word. I also like to use the term “Surrogate Boyfriend”. Experience all the pain but none of the pleasure, Surrogate Boyfriend or Situationship.😂

[DubMikeGaming]

bro I feel like she just described my situation to the dot. thank you imma move on

[omarlopez-ortega]

Been there, done that. Lesson learned. Cheers.

[aryotaheri]

Just came out of a situation which sounded very similar to this. The tricky thing though was that it was a shift. Originally she was pursuing, engaging in conversation, and even inviting me to events as a date, but somewhere along the way she gradually stopped. What made it more confusing though was that once or twice I'd let the conversation die down because I'd think that she must not want to talk, but she would re-initiate, just to start taking a long time to reply again. So I got fed up and confronted her and we ended it =) WE STAY WINNING KINGS, move on to the next one. No time for people that don't respect you or your time

[eiannmascoll]

Girls have brains and they are human beings. Just be direct and honest. If she's not sure, remember focus on being just friends.

[dominicancheif]

The answer to your first question was YES lol. Thanks I really needed this

[tryingtolearn]

A girl interested in a man, she will let you know. Even the shy quiet ones will send you signals that are obvious, but just because she sends them type of signals doesn't mean she still doesn't want "chased", or as she said "won over". She still wants to be the one who dictates in the beginning when it's really going to start, the seriousness of it

[Elfking]

True, she would rather hide from me than unfriend me, she's in her own head

[remlapgarage]

I'm glad I've dropped the girl that has been all of the above... straight off the bat, focussed on pursuing other women, met one amazing one, and had an amazing time with her on night 1

[dooolaay]

This is all accurate. Going through this right now with a woman. I just stopped texting her back. I’m done. She texts again, I’ll leave her on read.

[adid.]

Very good advice. On the “waiting for a reply to a text” part, I would suggest both sides to take a chill pill and stop constantly checking their phones. We are all busy people and reply when we find the time. HOWEVER… if she is purposefully ignoring you OR she is late to reply but constantly nags you for replying late, THEN it’s time to move on. I fell like we don’t treat these relationships naturally enough and we act like on a screenplay or something.