Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Still Loves You And Wants You Back

Every time you hear from or interact with your ex girlfriend — even when she’s doing something that has nothing to do with you, like updating a Facebook status – she’s usually feeding you information you can use to gauge her feelings and emotions. You need to learn how to properly read & interpret these signals to ensure you avoid making mistakes and chasing her further away.

Before I go any further, allow me to give you a serious warning: if you misinterpret your ex girlfriend’s feelings and signals, you will likely do or say something that will actually harm your chances of getting back together with her.

OK, so with that warning out of the way, let’s move on to the finer details of interpreting your ex’s signs and signals… and I want to start by giving you some great news.

She still has strong feelings for you.

Yes, this is a bit of a bold proclamation, but I’m going to say it anyway: it’s extremely likely that your ex girlfriend still loves you, or at the very least still has those fundamental romantic feelings towards you.

Yes, that’s true even if you broke up months ago and your ex is dating someone new. She may have told you that she doesn’t have feelings for you anymore, but she’s almost certainly lying.

Remember: at some point, your ex girlfriend had strong romantic feelings for you — and those feelings took time to develop and mature. They’re not going away overnight, and she simply can’t erase all the happy and loving memories she has of the time you two spent together. That’s a huge advantage that can help you win her back, if you play your cards right.

So, that’s the good news. Now, let’s move on to another topic… interpreting your ex’s mixed messages.

What your ex girlfriend says and does in the weeks following your breakup will reveal several clues about her feelings and will dictate how you go about trying to win her back. Each of the following signals can be used to gauge your ex girlfriend’s feelings:

She Maintains Contact: If your ex girlfriend contacts you for any reason in the first few weeks after a breakup, it’s almost certainly because she misses you and wants to numb her heartbreak by reaching out to the man she still loves deep down. The more she contacts you — even if it’s about seemingly irrelevant things, like when she can come and pick up her clothes from your house — the more confident you can be that she’s struggling to deal with the breakup.

She Still Wants To Hook Up: If she still wants to get into your pants after you’ve broken up, that’s usually a good sign… depending on your situation, it may or may not be a good thing to agree to a “friends with benefits” arrangement with your ex, but it’s usually a positive indication that she isn’t over you.

She Tries To Be “Friends”: Similar to the point above, if your ex girlfriend says that she wants to be friends and actively tries to hang out with you as a “friend,” it’s a clear signal she’s still interested in being with you. DO NOT -- I repeat, DO NOT -- agree to be friends with your ex. I’ve got another video on this topic, and it’s covered extensively in my Ex Factor program, but you really don’t want to be friends with her, at least not if you’re interested in getting back together with her.

She Brings Up Memories & Seems Emotional: If your ex girlfriend seems nostalgic or brings up happy memories about your relationship together (or potentially even negative ones) it means that she’s still actively thinking about her time with you and isn’t ready to let go of those emotions.

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[chrish]

BRAD IS THE REAL DEAL GUYS, A TRUE FRIEND AND THERAPIST, GREAT ADVICE, HE GOT MY GIRL BACK, THANK YOU!!!

[jacobpohlabel]

I think it's hilarious when girls say that guys are hard to understand. We're really not.

[pjdavis]

no contact works I got my ex back thanks Brad 💯

[SabbathSOG]

She was all over me on Monday, again on Tuesday, happy hour on Wednesday, off Thursday. Dumped me on Friday.

[harknowhere]

My ex broke up with me 4 months ago but she watches my stories on Instagram even though she doesn't even follow me

[HassanKhadair]

Hey brad I have been binge watching your videos. Had I gotten to this channel a month ago during the first two weeks after my breakup I would have been in such a good shape. I basically did all of the things you have detailed not to do in your videos in the month since. The earlier weeks the attraction was undeniable and the communication was great most of the time then because of my mistakes like having the serious relationship conversations constantly she would go back and forth and recently it pushed her away to the point where she said we have to cut off all communication and she asked me to move on. That was on Monday then on Tuesday we were together with all of our friends and there were no words or even looks between us yesterday which was Thursday was similar she said hello but that was it. I also from her friend learned the real reason for our breakup it was cause I was too dramatic but I realized the last month had been really awful for her so I wrote her a note and apologized and left it on her car before I left the get together I had sent her a Snapchat to make sure she saw it since it was raining and dark and there was a chance she would drive without seeing it. She opened the Snapchat and didn't respond. We won't see each other at this point till July 9 but then we will be at camp together for the next 6 days. I think I might be out of the game on this one since the communication is out of my control and I am unable to employ the 30 day method. Are there any solutions or is this just completely over?

[craycrazyj]

how to get your ex back when u didn't end the relationship to well and she moved to fast with another guy and she blocked u from every social media apps

[haziyunusalqudri]

Hey Brad thnx for your advice.she backs again in my life....

[MrWaseem]

I have followed the "no contact rule", now she is with another guy, happier than ever 😢

[arnauddutoit]

What if she says she wants to chat again but not yet

[robertgoodheart]

I am a Big fan Brad,
You have helped me a ton.I am still in the process of re-attraction so wish me luck.Thanks for doing what you do!!
I hope you are well Bro....

[prosperitytorrecampo.]

my ex is getting nostalgic what should i do

[danieljones]

"If she wants to get into your pants it Might be a good sign."
I take that as a great sign XD

[NewAppleiPad]

What if she invites me to hangout and go out and she hugs me or grab my arm? She replies fast, she ask for my opinion and brings old memories. She changes moods very fast.

[jftnd]

Thanks for this, i think she is done this time, i broke up with her cause of some harsh things she called me and said about me and its been 5 months and she hasn't shown any of these signs besides ignoring me and staring at me with a weird look when she sees me in person, I'm just tired of mind games.

[dedsec_ken]

Well i know she still loves me, when it was my bday, she texted: I LOVE

[ikoriizz]

I will buy it tomorrow, I already knew before he said that he was a psychio expert that he knows how to talk and what to say. I believe in you because not of your words but because of your action.

[shawnsager]

My ex still contacts me a few times a week and wants to go for lunch/meet up to exchange something. Seems as if she's not over me, but I'm not entirely sure how to reel it in...

[vojtechturecek]

Hey man, i’ve never heard about you but my gf broke up w me month ago. I’m lost and honestly yt was my last chance to find help with this...Anyway your frist words just saved human life

[OllyAnsell]

I'm 16, dating this girl for 2 and a half months. I lost her trust by taking advantage of her when we was drunk. She said I can't be with you if I can't trust you. She broke up with me after the incident. I went a week without contacting her but then I sent her a message and we started talking and said that she just wants to stay friends. When our group of friends all met up one day she totally avoided me. She hasn't showed no signs of wanting to get back together so I don't know if she's hiding them? I still want to get back together but she said that the chances of getting back together is low. It's been 32 days now and I just found your channel and I don't know what to do. She's on holiday until the end of the month and I know that two other boys are chatting to her. This other girl wants to go out with me but I'm really only interested in my ex girlfriend. Can you please help I don't know what to say/do at the moment to win her back. Your channel benefited me quite a lot thanks.