I toiled hard in US to support my narcissistic lover who then dumped me| Tuko TV

Lily met and fell in love with a Kenyan man in the US. What she didn't know was this was the beginning of her seven years of harrowing relationship that left her scarred emotionally and physically. Tune in to hear her story...

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[LynnRegina-utgr]

We can never control how people treat us but we can decide for how long we will allow them to treat us😢😢😢

[ruthnjoki]

Please love yourself before you get into a relationship. That way, nobody will ever step on your toes

[lucymaina]

This is why you need to know who you are and your boundaries early in life.The initial red flags were enough to not start the relationships.

[joskyshams]

They're not even red flags but red sheets, red blankets

[judykamau]

America can be lonely but self love is a priority ❤️

[judymburu]

In my 26 years in a narcissistic relationship, my brother in law always said that i seemed to enjoy pain. That comment used to hurt so bad...i left 3 years ago and i often wonder what that sham of a marriage really was. I remember listening to Benjamin Zulu who advises that it is always best for victims to move very far away from these perpetrators. God made a way for me to move to Europe and i can finally exhale. My adult children are still in 254 but dad has discarded them and wants nothing to do with them. This is their nature and they never see their wrong. If you are in a toxic relationship, please study these personalities and dont expect them to ever change. They leave a trail of destruction and trauma to their families

[nezanathruboneka]

I went through this too three times in relationships since 2003! I thank God for my life today! My Children My Life. Don't ever wanna have anything to do with men. Not that i am gay or anything! But just embraced Self-love 🥰

[libbylee]

Renting an apartment for a man, buying his groceries, paying for his friends enjoyment is madness. What did he do to her? I really enjoyed the interview. She was better off never reconnecting with him but she’s accomplished a lot in spite of everything.

[joskyshams]

When you're obsessed with love, you can do anything.

[lhnndgj]

Staying with a narcissistic person can b traumatic, but the way u stayed thru out this bad experience 😢

[mercyk]

Unfortunately this is very common.
I've seen this happen, even in my own family. My sister was the soul provider for the 1st 23 years of marriage, her husband was healthy and had credentials but refused to work. He also used to abuse her and cheat on her.
When they moved to America, he got a job but only pays a fraction of the bills. This happens to very intelligent women, women who are beautiful and perfectly capable of getting into another relationship, but they get stuck with narcissists.

[mercyk]

She seems like a great person, so beautiful and humble. Things will get better eventually

[salamawanjiru]

Detaching from a narcissist can be very difficult. Sometimes you may even require a professional counsellor to walk away from him.

[jaquellyneazangu]

I don't know if am the only one who got pissed off listening to this😮 coz i thought as the red flags continue nitaskia kitu ingine😮 wueeeeh hii ni witchcraft

[purityfrancis]

Those speculating, its not Nonini. Nonini lost his dad kitambo sana. If you read the article by Mwakilishi 2020 about Nyashinski, you will connect the dots.

[Chiwoful]

Hawa narcs are just the worst... Sasa huyu mrembo, amesoma, is organised then one person derailed human akuje akuhangaishe... 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Full custody rights given

[nomanbond]

It's unfortunate what happened to this lovely lady. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. It's better to live safe than sorry.

[joymartin]

I wish all young girls, women dating could listen to this kind of stories and be able to see the red flags before getting into this kind relationships

[DancanMuriuki-lf]

Oh GOD the story is very similar to mine. Im six months pregnant, he has blocked me everywhere plus his family has blocked me too. After mothering the man and taking care of him for four years, now he claims the child is not his. Been financially exploited and used all my cash and even went ahead and blackmailed me into getting a loan which he spent on himself. Now was physically abused thouroughly beaten at 5 months and told that he'll kill me and go to jail, thats when i decided to leave everything behind with my pregnancy. This is a man ive trusted with my life and supported for the four years. My life is dark and dont even know how ill manage to put everything in place before baby comes. I need prayers and alot of phsychological help right now. Sorry to use a man's email to text this, its my proxy. Guys i need prayers. Toxic narcists exists. I felt like lily is sharing my story