Do NOT date a financially strapped man.

[slavicaslavo]

I found this out the hard way.. I earn the lower 6figures.. Tried to date a broke one.. All he did was take his misery out on me.. A man doesn't need to be rich.. But he does need to be financially stable in order to be mentally and emotionally stable enough to be in a relationship and be a positive and healthy presence for a woman. Ladies....she's right I promise you 😭😭 💯🗣️🗣️

[JF]

She spittin facts. As a man, if you don't have your money in order you shouldn't be seeking a relationship. 💯

[meryemchourti]

I stood by my man who had nothing when we met. Even though he had nothing he kept me safe and was there for me. I stood by him because i knew his heart was in the right place and i thank god i did. He's stable now has an amazing job bought us a house and appreciates everything i do for him. He does everything for me.

So thats not a 100%

[thenomadpath]

I was raised to believe that no adults should be focused on dating if they don't have their finances under control.

[TRAVELBYKEEINC]

This is 💯% true. Helped build up My ex from nothing. And as soon as he got on his feet. He dropped me! Ladies please listen to what she's saying!!

[CAROLYN--]

PROTECT & GUARD YOUR M.E.A.T
MONEY, ENERGY, ATTENTION AND TIME

[justred]

She ain’t lying! Men can be extremely sensitive and insecure, especially if they’re broke! And they get mean and aggressive! Even blame you for it.

[ZaniahSlayed]

I never knew finances were so important until I found myself being the man in my long-term relationship broke men are no fun and it’s no way to start a family ❤

[dpink]

I dated a man who was financially strapped. He resented me because I make 6 figures. The relationship was mentally and emotionally abusive. He didn't want my help but he would ask for it and take it. I finally figured out what it was and walked away. Among other things, he was a man-child

[briia]

Sis got these men in these comments strapped tight as hell 😂😂

[sanelisiwedlamini]

Some are financially stable but still emotionally unstable so it doesn't always balance all the time 🥺

[djdean]

You right, nothing makes a mans life harder than a set of empty pockets and empty promises for a women or relationship he cannot financially and emotionally afford

[vendee]

One of the major problems today is that almost every body is chasing the bag and a bed that’s already made. How about both ppl put in the work to make the bed… it’s a pandemic at this point. Chasing one bag after the next is creating broken homes 😩😩Do something different to get a different result.

[bproducer]

If those 3 things aren’t in check, it’s not the man but the woman that will be unhappy with him 💯

[kryskrys]

True cause one just cut me off because I refused to loan him a large amount of money for his business. Y’all watch out for these fraudies out here. I can’t make this up 🤷‍♀️🤣

[diasporaexpress]

I dont know what this woman ever said before or will say later but this is absolutely ACCURATE. Little girls, pls listen to this Aunty and “independent” women, stop making a man a project and start choosing accomplishments over potential!

[Lesah_]

Mommy there's a lot of us out here who did not have mothers thank you.😭😭😭😭😭😭

[lutherherrodjr]

And men make sure when you are dealing with a woman that she’s submissive, respectful, feminine, soft, agreeable, and inspirational

[cosmicbrownie]

Solid advice. After my parents divorced (he was the only man she was with for more than half of her life at the point) I had to watch my Mom at 40 learn how to date & live through horrible relationships with men due to “trying to give a brotha a chance”. Decided that would NEVER be me (and it hasn’t). Recently started seeing a new guy after a long term relationship ended and after the first date he texted me to ask what I was doing (I told him) and he immediately went into how unstable, broke, and unhappy he is with his life but would love to see me again. I told him “things will get better” and “since you’re trying to get your basics in order I’ll wish you the best because dating isn’t practical”. Yawl this 30 year old man gonna say “Men date unstable women all the time”. I immediately blocked him!

After ONE DATE he decided I was the one to trauma dump on due to having my life together. I’m not rich, but I’m able to take care of myself without begging anyone for anything with some left over for savings. Audacity at an all time high ladies. Many of these men under 35 have no guidance or ambition. Don’t be desperate/thirsty for these men. Keeps things simple. Trust God’s timing. There’s someone for everyone but when a man can’t take care of his own when he meets you there’s a good chance he’ll end up resenting you while taking your help. Don’t do it! Never date anyone with less than you.

[msakeeba]

SHES TELLING THE TRUTH. I went through it with a broke man. Supporting him through school and taking the brunt of his frustrations. It was hell, don’t recommend. Not worth it.