5 Typical INFJ MALE PROBLEMS! (and Possible SOLUTIONS)

As INFJ males are one of the rarest phenomena out there, being one most definitely comes with it’s typical set of problems. What are some of the typical problems INFJ males struggle with? What are some possible solutions? Let’s find out! (Narrated by an INFJ male!)

Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:15 Reason 1
03:08 Reason 1.1
05:30 Solution 1
06:48 Reason 2
10:59 Solution 2
12:59 Reason 3
15:26 Solution 3
17:27 Reason 4
19:39 Solution 4
21:55 Reason 5
23:33 Solution 5

Music (in order):
Jesse Gallagher - The Golden present

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[flyaway]

I was able to unlock my masculinity because I got bullied too much, it felt like nobody liked me despite my good qualities so I absorbed all the negativity and exploded.
My personality went a 180 during my teen years but then after school the overt bullying was out of my life and I found myself slipping back into being soft again.
After a big falling out with my family over them taking advantage of me, it has become more permanent now. I won't let anyone take advantage of me again, I don't feel like I need to be friends with everyone or take care of people when they are down when they are just strangers.
I think somewhere in my psychology I know that even my family do not appreciate me putting the effort in, so there's no point being nice any more.

Women love a man in touch with their feminine side though, of course not 100% feminine but a good 50/50. Being romantic for example is a feminine trait. I feel as though many women don't know what they are missing with a very masculine guy. Or sometimes you hear them complain but they just live with it.
I really think that it's the difference between being just another guy (guys are all the same) and being someone special that she will remember forever.

[Leo-hvmm]

Not what I (maybe) needed or wanted to hear!! For better or for worse, I identified with your interpretation. All the women I've sexually connected with have been narcissistic and/or bullies. My father was psychopathic and hated me until his death. Even his brothers and my Grandfathers didn't like or approve of me. Now I have an understanding of why. Dad and all the male relatives were hyper masculine and not the example of masculinity I ever wanted to be like. As you've mentioned about finding another or more appropriate definition of my masculine self, that's exactly what I have done. I certainly have become my own man - a man that I accept and like .. I love myself, but that took a decade or two to happen. It was quite the moment when I came to that understanding of acceptance and love for my masculine self. I'm an introvert and love solitude/my own company. Women continuously chase me, but I have no interest in being in any relationships especially with women after two marriages (3 kids). I also have other males seeking my friendship, but their motives can be similar to that of women, in that they can intrude into my life in ways I'm not interested. I've found that the only "relationships" I like, cope with and seek, are with people (male and female) in work situations or comrades like I've had in the Army. Interestingly, your take on infj was totally different to any other I've encountered. I need to re-view your video and contemplate your overall views. I must admit, this has jolted me.

[Taurusboy]

Amazing as always. This is so informative to know more about the true depth of who I am and who we are as INFJ men.

[Kijiji-nyqh]

The concept of masculinity is deeply rooted in individual cultural values. This video only addresses a regional concept of masculinity.
I am a 49 year old INFJ male and I do not posses feminine physical characteristics. So, being an INFJ male and a "traditional" notion of masculinity are not mutually exclusive.
Most of the challenges INFJ guys experience according to this video could be overcome with an understanding an acceptance of one's own identity. Maturity allows you to be yourself and be assertive enough to not give a crap about society's prescriptive impositions.

[snobbishruk]

Two minutes in and you contradicted yourself in this video.