Unraveling Emotional Distortion: Trust Your Experience

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[Tinkins]

This is why I record almost every interaction. I have to keep track of reality.

[saracowherd]

All I can say, and not to brag, but after 14 years of dealing with this, I am, after years of work, SHINING ❤. And honestly. Literally. The journey started in my living room over 10 years ago listening to your voice while I was still in the prison of narcissistic abuse. I will never stop thanking you and praying for you and sending you so much gratitude and light.

[Tomara]

This is why you gotta be careful about who you invite to sleep next to you.

[Akkordeondirigent]

I've had a lot of abusive characters in my professional life and because of them had to give up after nearly thirty years. It always went like you described and caused serious damages to my health at that time. Nobody should underestimate how dangerous that can become!

[lazycatdayzever]

Yes. 10 years of this, he tried to erase reality. One year no contact, stronger than ever.

[MelissaSalinasTV]

Yikes! Sounds like sleeping with the enemy. These people are cold, cruel, manipulative, malicious, evil, sick and twisted. Stay as far away from them as possible.

[garrettellis]

I fought this crazymaking for so long that I ended up in psych wards. Turns out it wasn’t me 😬👏🏼 and now I’m unburdened. Life is better on the other side of the fire.

[gracelewis]

Now imagine this being done to you as a kid... in the context of a broader society that also gaslight you... it's no wonder how badly some of us struggled.

[reneehouser]

Absolutely! Aging parents who actually have a diagnosis and too much time on their hands can do a lot of damage? All the photographs in the world just piss them off, too! Thank God for technology- recording conversations, text messages and cameras everywhere help a lot!

[matthewcoolidge]

It gets harder and harder after a life time of bullying and manipulation. I just tell myself to rise above and ignore it, and remove myself from those situations.

[RebekahSonshine]

If this resonates, please, pray, plan and then, ‼️Run. It doesn’t get better. Only worse. Many nde’s in, fighting for my life.

[Emm]

I love this information, along with RG’s explanation and theory on why autoimmune conditions are so common post narc/psychopathic abuse, I came to the same conclusion not long ago before, as it it certainly a perfect metaphor for what a person is allowing mentally and emotionally, which affects the body, not to mention the ongoing stress state…life is so wonderful without these creatures in one’s life! 🙌

[lifeisbannanas]

That's what my narcissistic mother did to me. My dad still denied her abuse. This is why I'm at no contact

[taalib_]

Just started watching your videos. I lived with this type of person for 9 years as a wife. I actually started loosing my mind. Each time she speaks about a thing she gives a different version. She has the ability to influence people's view and win them to her self . Always acting as the victim. Never accepts faults. I finally did what I heard in one of your videos. [Do something they don't expect]. We are separated now for 8 months. I took custody of the 4 kids because I discovered she is selfish. All about herself. So she can't even raise my kids properly.

I am now trying to regain my balance, focus and moving ahead. I am giving myself a gap of say 2 years max without any relationship to recover fully and not hurt any one unknowingly because of my unhealed self.

I am happy.

Thanks for your videos. I can subscribe now

[Identifyplumbing]

I don’t have to imagine. 23 years . Divorced now

[Sherry-rqjx]

This is such a important aspect to touch on, this keeps you detached from your true self.unable to feel confident to make decisions that are best for your life.

[MickWebster]

They're so clever with their words

[thatsflippinawesome]

Literally one of the most triggering phrases for awhile. "You're the one" as in "well... You're the one that did X and caused me to do Y" so they never have to be accountable for anything because "YOU'RE the one" that caused this and "made them" react that way. Soo frustrating.

[pjmrees]

YES!! I lived with the ENEMY for 25 years!

[athena]

My past journal entries start with I'm so angry. Then describes current WTF moments. Reading these bubbles up the parade of emotions. One year NC. Bleeding money for lawyer. Surviving. Stay strong. If you don't have cameras, get one. Do not take your safety lightly. Others will, ignore them. Listen to your body. Be safe. Journal for your sanity.