Are Chinese Women Heartless?

They certainly can seem that way according to western standards, but there's a reason for this and I'm going to explain it....

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[tracy]

I know a Chinese lady divorced her husband in China then married a Japanese man. That Japanese man worked couple jobs to support her dream to come to the US to study. After she came here, she started dating US citizens because she wanted to get green card. I feel so bad for her Japanese husband or any US citizen might marry her.

[VivekJainM]

You don't just marry the Girl, you marry the entire Family...

[kmcpickl]

That happened to my brother. He had to sponsor her daughter for college, not in the deal. She spent tons of time traveling back home to be with family. He married her to have someone to grow old with, but he died here in America alone. Then she came back to collect his inheritance. True story.

[HDPinkFloyd]

Exactly correct, My girlfriend from Tianjin left me because her mother did not want her dating a foreigner.
We remained friends in secret ever since.

[thesecheesespleasejesus]

When my brother left his Chinese girlfriend to return to UK, he overheard her complaining to a friend “now I have to find another one” like her hairdryer had broken.

[DanielFlood]

Takes notes, find a divorced Chinese woman with dead parents

[edde]

thats pretty common in asia. One of my fellows, who lives in Bangkok told me once: The only woman you want to date here, is an orphan. Otherwise you pay for the whole clan.. sad but true..

[scottcurtis]

In any relationship,
The one that cares the least has the power.

[alben]

Thank you. This video literally saved my life. Thank you! Temporary heartbreak. A lifetime saved.

[uwotm]

Asian parents don't want their children to leave, our parents can't wait.

[darrelnordyke]

I have been married to a Chinese lady. 14 months later, I have determine that her attitude is what is mine is mine, and what is yours is also hers.

[Restless_Vibes]

i dated a Nepali (Nepalese) woman and it ended in alot of pain for me, mainly because of her family not accepting me and she mentioned in the beggining wanting to marry me but just on paper so she could stay in the country since she was an international student but i still got emotionally attached anyway because she love bombed me alot and made me feel loved and cared about she started acting very cold and emotionless close to when she left me i cried deeply for months after she left me and the trauma still hasnt completely faded, felt like my whole soul was ripped from my body, i havnt been the same person since, i had to go to therapy

[JoshuaRAWRR]

I dated a chinese girl for about 4 months, she left me because I didn't have my own property yet, i was still 18. Literally made me think of the whole "YOU DOCTOR YET?" stereotype, except it was "YOU HAVE HOUSE YET?"

[felixz]

Being a German, I have a couple of years experience in East Asia myself and I can confirm this guy knows pretty well what he talks about...thumbs up

[AfroV]

I learn more unbiased stuff about Chinese culture from you in twenty minutes than I have in 15 years

[jeremyb]

Dated a Chinese-American for three years and can confirm. Parents pressuring her to get married = her pressuring me to get married. Wanted her fam to move in with us. I said hell nah, so she said we could go to her parents' house every evening for dinner. Eventually she broke up with me, as her parents ended up not liking me. She came over a few times after that and would turn off her phone so her parents wouldn't know (she used gps location sharing with them). It's quite pathetic.

[cptmalcolmreynolds]

I divorced a Chinese woman. She was EXACTLY how Winston described

[GlobeTrotterAlpha]

Very insightful video Winston. Telling it like it is without sugar coating stuff, good or bad. Thank you and congrats on nearly hitting 400K subs!

[jackjonmonaghan]

I'm a British young man and my ex was Chinese. I thought her family was quite modern and seemed quite happy with their daughter dating and potentially marrying me. However, they did always chat about my family business and money, and they did expect me to move to China (although my ex wanted to stay in the UK) for other private reasons. We eventually broke off largely due to COVID and long distance, but she was incredibly cold and ruthless in the breakup period. She broke my heart not once, but twice. I'm still recovering to this day almost 16 months later and now focusing on completing my PhD before dating again.

Be careful guys, because I have never met a woman as rationale and ruthless in my life. But I don't blame her and this video explained why. I hope she can be happy and have a comfortable life because I think not many average families can achieve this, but anyway, great video and God bless.

[AJ-lmzn]

Similar things happened in my life. I felt I was compelled to get married before 25/26 years old. My ex was heartless and I suffered throughout the years. My parents said:' You should take your .. home so that I can decide if ... is a good match for you.'

It was a complete waste of my life in all those many years. I began living by myself and so was away from the influence of my parents which gave me the space to figure out what exactly went wrong and why I felt compelled in all those years.

I will not seek marriage in China.