Why Young Men & Women Are Struggling to Couple - Scott Galloway

Scott Galloway (born November 3, 1964) is an American public speaker, author, podcast host, and entrepreneur. He is a clinical professor of marketing at the New York University Stern School of Business.

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[dehenry]

Galloway is reeteed he sees the problems but his answers are the institutions that brought us here

[personaignota]

I'm fully convinced that dating apps make it deliberately more difficult for men to get a date by hiding the people they would actually match with to push them into spending more and more money on the app. They do that by having you insert the things that interest you, and then hiding all the women that would comply with those characteristics more directly deliberately. I will die on this hill.

[vagabondcaleb]

The solution is to support the military industrial complex?? You REALLY lost me at the end..

[SpentAmbitionDrain]

Fixing the loneliness problem with conscription? What an absolutely laughable idea, for a number of reasons.

[laraparks]

Wow, National service and Israel 😮 is the answer 😮 I didn't see that coming 😮

[JoannaMoodstep]

The example of the IDF and young people bounding and cleaning their guns is quite sickening. Can't you find other positive stories of people finding alternative ways to meet.
It's funny because you talk about how women have now diverging political views from men and this is exactly that. I can't hear what he is saying because his political views transpire through his discourse.

[umutko]

Have a healthy lifestyle + be literate + a strong sense of purpose being on your own path. If you don't have it, built it up and be patient (even if it takes couple of years). Once accomplished that, use cannabis (definitely not alcohol!) as a boundry desolving tool. Make some good vibes at a vanue of your liking and girls will start chasing you.

[luisvictorf]

I didn't like the Israeli military pitch at the end AT ALL

[HonkHonkler]

National service? He's not even hiding: "Just make them cannon fodder" lol.

[diamondgirll]

The younger generation s faces are in their phones. Their social maturity is stunting them.

[cokitovibes]

This is like eating a delicious meal that somehow got some pieces of sand in it. And in the middle of you savoring it he throws in that people consuming less alcohol is a bad thing and you are like “oh! WTF is that sandy thing on my tooth” and then you kinda get back in the grove and all of a sudden “I like the Israeli military, it’s a bunch of young fit people there” 😖 you spit the food out finally…

[zabumbaman]

Dating in military service XD

Geez, old gezer is delulul xD

[skynet]

The issue is that before we had customary societies and now it's more independent. Despite the independence of men and women, they still haven't learned how to be open to new perspectives. Since covid, we have learned that the people we naturally trusted were liars and bad for us. I think that's why it's inconsistent at best with dating. I found a great woman but only after many tries.
Perhaps in the future it will be less problematic as we recalibrate our judgement systems without the belief in religion or pseudoscience (big pharma covid mess).

[sarahprosecco]

Ok so firstly - bring back the slow dance!!! 😂

**Obviously just my opinion based on my experiences, observations & feedback across all spectrums genX - genZ; single, married, divorced**

Dating apps are exhausting for all parties! Men seem to swipe everyone even if they're not really interested JUST to get a match. Women get more matches, true but most matches don't even ask you on a date and when they do, most try to just get a ONS and/or ghost you (bc they have more options as was said in clip).

One positive change I have noticed recently is that the men genuinely looking for a partner are posting in their bio 'No ONS/NSA'. Both parties can also get rid of loads of time wasters when you say 'want kids/don't want kids' etc. and other clues as to their values and political leanings. Women are made to feel an existential dread from mid 20's let alone early 30's about kids but there's a stigma where they think they'll scare men off if they are forthright about wanting them.
Perhaps it's accurate in countries like the US, Canada or in major/capital cities that men are heading towards being more conservative and women further to the left but taking dating apps & social interactions as examples, that is not what I'm noticing at all. The left leaning men are waaay more radical & aggressively so, the centrists are shifting slightly right but I think the women who are more left leaning, do so publicly but in reality way more women who're looking for partners are centrist or C-R or C-L both politically and socially.

The men however, the one's supposedly looking for 'traditional wives' are honestly, insufferable - their mentality is extremely resentful 'all women are xyz', 'women are THE problem', even when they're talking to women who are C/C-R 😅 They have zero female friends & no idea how to communicate with the opposite sex - they turn into obnoxious wannabe macho men 😂but they're a small but vocal group, just like the radical left females (who don't seem to want traditional relationships anyway) but both of those groups are turning everyone else off even bothering anymore.
If we could just find a way to turn down their volume to at least the same level🎚️ as all other groups across the social & political spectrum, I think we'd all have much more enjoyable and romantic relationships 😅😂

Well done if you read all that... You deserve a bun 🧁

[johngrywalski]

Dude you tell people to just get a practical high paying job and don’t follow your dream. Talk about UNROMANTIC

[MinamuTV]

While women are choosy, it’s not that they’re just choosing the _richest_ men. There is a left-wing writer named Franklin Veaux who has had much success with women despite making about as much as a fast food worker makes. Even some women who accused him of abusive behavior in a website about him have noted that many of the women he sees today still love him. Veaux himself theorized that the accusations were an ex-girlfriend’s way of trying to get back together with him.

Veaux’s not the only example. Women not infrequently date men with mental illnesses, considering the highs of such a relationship (emotional depth) to be higher than the lows are low. Such couples sometimes have children, and though there may arise issues that cause them to lose their love for each other (e.g. the mother having to juggle work and childcare when the father does less for the child than expected), they tend to remain friends.

The U.S. needs family-friendly labor policies.

[no]

Strong points and very well explained. I suppose people in the comments will, as per usual, focus selectively at what they need to spew hate, the answer to that is in another recent video, they might watch... but will they listen? history says not.

[carmeld]

How can a man be your security and your oppressors/predators at the same time? Males are not your security, as having a male in the home increases your risk of being abused. So, how is that protection? Women are happily single, childless, and without catering to egotistical males. Ladies, caring for yourself and your happiness is your priority, that is the most selfless thing you can do.

[marksandor]

If I was 20 now, I’d move to South America or Southeast Asia.

[MkkRaven]

Can't wait for ai girlfriends to get good. <3