Coming out as trans to him…

[ElFroggo]

That should be the absolute first thing you tell him 💀

[redrosies__]

she never said its not the first things she tells people she said they get angry when she tells them

[haleyjenkins]

Lets clear some things up.
1. "That should be the first thing you tell him." Stop this comment. Sometimes its best not to just throw it at them first hand because there are dangerous people out there that take their hate out on Trans people (getting beaten, harrassed, even the risk of being killed) and needs to be a conversation between the two (or more if you're polly) of you in the 'getting to know each other stage'. A friend of mine shared that they stay away from going to bed with the person they're seeing until that person knows and that conversation has happened and constent, etc. Has been established.

( Just a side note.
It's OK not wanting to date someone that is trans, but it is not okay to hate and harrass/assault an put a valuable life (no matter the gender) in danger. And for those transitioning, or for those who know someone closer than transitioning, always make sure that uf they are meeting someone or going on dates, too not let things escalate into the bedroom so quickly until that person is aware of the transition/transitioning. Because you never know if someone is going to be comfortable or not with it Until you have that conversation..it's very important. Not only is it a respect thing, but if that person does not know that the person that they did to do with is they can go at you for SA.)

2. I believe she's indicating that it's all over her social media that she's trans, so the fact that she still has to tell the guy and he still had that kind of reaction when it's all over her socials..its kinda like ironic i guess? Lol. I'm sure no ones a stranger to a dating profile or two. You can add your social media all kinds of stuff. And she kind of wears her flag proudly..So it's pretty hard to miss that she's trans, you know?

I hope my comment doesn't come off as offensive and any.Way I was hoping just to be a bit informative especially with things things that are happening regarding to the l g b t q community. I love her.I love her content.She always puts a smile on my face.But I feel like there's a lot of people who attacked her for some of the stuff that she puts out there.And it's like for what you know

[Defs_not_ellexx]

STOP UR HAIR SO FUCKING AMAZING STOP ITS SO PRETTY ❤

[-Cici-]

Like we love you and people that don’t, shouldn’t even say anything if they don’t care- <3. EDITED: Bro what’s with most of y’all fighting once one problem is solved and agreed on here comes another one and the people saying “ idc that is a man” stfu y’all are attention seekers and why are some of y’all arguing about her sexuality I’m confused but Ty for 5k likes

[sazonada]

Let's be clear - She's not saying she waits to tell a guy she's trans. Most trans people tell it right away. She's just showing the difference in a video.

She's also not saying it's wrong to not want to date a trans woman. She's demonstrating how men can (and do) get violent, often because they are attracted to the trans person.

[Sunandmoongacha]

Nah I’d be like “cool anyways back to what we were talking about”

[jacobyvega]

People are always just like “EW! This person is part of the LGBTQ+ group” and I am just so happy when I find a Trans person on YouTube or TikTok because I am also Trans😊

[TheyFwM]

girlie tbh you are the prettiest person ive ever seen <3

[audrey]

i really don’t get trans women who get pressed when men don’t want to date them, they aren’t being transphobic. it’s simply men wanting to date biological women with biological female anatomy

edit: this comment has absolutely nothing to do w the video lmao i was just making a statement

[Schleichcrazy]

As a bi girl I was super scared to come out to anyone but seeing your confidence and how much support u get I decided to do it ❤❤❤
Thank you so much girl u have no idea what just posting has done to my life ❤❤❤❤❤

[psychedelicspider]

As a cis gay guy that really doesn't have a say in this matter, I can say:

To trans people, stay safe out there, and please come out when you feel comfortable, but let's be real, eventually you'll have to face reality. Also, we need 2nd amendment rights as LGBT people, just puttin' that out there okay.

To straights, you can have your principles and that's cool, there are some genders I wouldn't date either 😂😂😂 just don't murder LGBT people.

[notagaiaedits]

Not this youtube comment section tho.. 😭😭✋

[that_one_Winter_girl]

I don’t get why some ppl see it as a bad thing. Women are women. Men are men. That’s it.

[Illusions]

if you never said anything, i would NEVER be able to tell, You go girl!!!

[stephaniepapaleo]

It’s illegal to be that gorgeous, btw

[DaintyBouquet]

As a trans person, you should tell someone that you’re trans first before messing around and/or dating someone. Otherwise, you’re wasting someone’s time if they want to date a cis person so they could have biological children. Or it could put your life in danger if they ever find out after all that time and trust.

Edit: Ya’ll, wtf. It’s okay if wanting biological kids is a deal breaker. If someone breaks up with you because they want biological kids, that’s absolutely fine. That’s just preference. That doesn’t mean they were gonna treat you like a dog or an incubator, they just want kids that have their blood, and that’s fine. Why is that such an issue for ya’ll.

[weevil]

Trans people shouldn't have to tell everyone they meet they're trans, that's only relevant if that person is someone they're doing intimate things with. I don't meet people with 'Hello, I'm cisgender'. Even so, getting angry over something as simple as being transgender is incredibly childish.

[SpeccPlays]

that was me when some little brat told my teacher that im trans

[MarimbaBurd]

“I’m not gay but you looking fine”

Have you ever heard that before?😭 it seems like that would happen😂