5 ways to PREVENT DATING BURNOUT | 5 DATING MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE| Try this before you quit dating

5 ways to PREVENT DATING BURNOUT | 5 ways to DATE SMARTER | Try this before you quit dating
Top 5 dating mistakes women make that lead to burnout.

Some women get burned out with dating. They are tired of the games, and the disappointment. Date after date, partner after partner. Women are tired of making love but never being loved. They are tired of getting their hopes up every time they meet a new guy for nothing to come of it. Trying to find a relationship, is hard enough without making these 5 dating mistakes. Don’t make these top 5 dating mistakes.

Dating mistakes women make
5 ways to avoid dating burnout

[nargess]

DON'Ts:
1. Over compensating: Attracts lazy lovers
trying to maximum your effort to ignore your disappoint.
2. Taking the result personally
3. Letting your imagination taking control over your logic:
Daydreaming about people you don't even know/ meditating about them/ if you have to imagine, you don't even know him. Instead Deal with reality!!
4. Prepayment sexually, hoping you'll get love. Don't give too much too soon!
DO:
5. Cut unfit men off quicker.
Date intentionally, don't waste time with a lazy guy. Date with strategy.

[heidifisher]

Many people break their own hearts by loving a fantasy not the person that stands before them. Thank you for this.x

[morenabonita]

Regarding#5. I met a man. He invited me somewhere(public place), and offered to take me. I thanked him for the offer, told him I have my own car, and that I do not get in cars with strangers. Buddy was offended. Years ago I would have missed that and kept engaging. NOW…I couldn’t cut him off fast enough. When a man has a problem with your boundaries …run

[aamia]

He’s telling the truth. I’m in a situation with a guy who I am not interested in for many reasons. He came on too hard too fast. I tried to look past his desperation but I couldn’t. But he has very strong feelings for me and I asked him why. He couldn’t really answer because I have not earned that spot in his heart. Even though I’ve been genuine and honest about my feelings he is still trying to change my mind. I told him I was emotionally unavailable and too selfish to be in a relationship, and he said he didn’t care and he still wanted to be with me. Please people never be this desperate. Move on there are better people out there for you.

[pfair]

It went both ways with me. I've had sex too soon (not to just please them but to treat myself too) and still got disappeared on. And there's been times I withhold sex and they still lose interest and disappear.

Idk I can accept rejection but guys tend to play games and act like want me just to use me or play games.

I had dating burnout after using dating apps. Most of the men on there are never serious and just put on an act when they really just wanna play games or just hookup. I deleted all my dating apps and I've been doing better. In person guys tend to show interest (say hi, stare, or smile and keep going) sometimes but never approach me.

But now idc how long it's been since I've had sex, I'm not giving it up anymore for a guy to just play me afterwards. A moment of pleasure isn't worth the trauma that comes after. Idc if I never have sex again for the rest of my life, it is what it is.

Edit: I just came across your video you did a year ago about abstinence before commitment. You're right, u may come across f boys who still leave after withholding sex, but it's more disappointing and less traumatic. 👍🏾. I can see that.
I do think there is some men who will still look forward to getting to know u even if u have sex too soon, I've just never ran across those. And out of my 30 years I can only think of 3-4 male friends I had who were actually interested in me who didn't try to have sex with me or pressure me about it, so that was always a rare thing to find.

[nappyfries]

That’s exactly how I feel except I’m not even dating! I can’t even find anyone I like enough to date. Most men that are interested in me I’m not interested & the ones I’m interested in don’t seem to be interested or they just want sex. That’s exhausting enough w/o actually even dating.

[bhavanidymonde]

We are no longer looking at potential. It’s either you’re ready or not.

[grey_wolf_tg]

So pretty much don't give until they show something.

[kimfrederick]

Everyone should be dating with intention, but unfortunately that's not the case. That's how 💔 happen. I've had a lot of broken hearts myself, but I took time to work on myself and no more broken hearts here. This video is straight up good information and facts

[vikki]

Thank you for this video. This just confirmed everything I am doing is right. I do cut low effort men off very quickly. I feel something is up, I question it up front and if I get a roundabout answer or not a straight forward answer, I am gone. Can't be doing with time wasters. I have family members constantly telling me that I ditch people far too quickly and that my dating strategy (the one you've just described, dating with a purpose) is wrong. Thank you for confirming that my dating with a purpose is correct and I am on the right track. Not felt the dating fatigue yet and I not going to. I know God has a husband in mind of me and he will send him to me. Thank you Kev! You're a star!

[noirefit]

I had to learn these the hard ways and am at the burn out stage. Luckily I’m young (26) so I’m gonna take some time off, focus on myself, learn the game and jump back in when I’ve caught my wind lol. Thanks Kev. You’re the big brother I never knew I needed

[jayc]

EXACTLY!!! Stop Pre-paying men for Relationships. Please Stop This Ladies. IJS

[nalanimcneil]

This has to be one of the best pieces of content from you!! Makes so much sense.

[dionnedavis]

Ladies we need to rewind and listen to this 3 times. Thanks for bringing this to our awareness Kevin.

[thirteen]

Your words cut deeper than a knife. I've been protecting myself for a long time and dating no one, but recently I have been trying to search for love and get some dates with a guy. But I am not sure he is the right person for me, and I must admit that I feel like I've done a big MISTAKE choosing him. I was too desperate to be loved and to love. I am already tired of trying. I am an emotional wreck. You are right. That's why it's hurting me so much 😭😭😭

[akilahs]

Needed this. His excuse "I'm busy". People make time for what they want. Ain't nobody that busy. I'll be busy with the next.

[jayc]

I hear ya. I totally agree. But #3, a lot of us do...to a certain extent. Maybe not that deeply like saying I'm in love or whatever...but I've definitely asked the right questions...or so I thought...and she seem like she got Exactly what I'm looking for...for a nice good solid relationship....so yes, I did that before...seeing that possible future with them early on...instead of relaxing and staying in the moment...since its very early. My actions is...but my mind sometimes can't help but visualize and look to the future. Thats just how I am. But yes, I will work on not doing that with a potential mate. I realized that before. But I will do better next time...instead of just trying to do that. Thanks bro

[moniquelauzon]

Holy dude! You cleared up a ton of confusion I’ve been experiencing lately! Thank you for your wise words and taking the time to share them. Profound ! This chat was exactly what I needed. I shared this with 5 of my gf’s !
You truly are a rare man kev.
Nothing but appreciation and love for you. Monique

[tesha]

I say this everytime but you really are like the big bro I never had❤️

[cheryljones]

Wow, I REALLY needed to hear this... I have been feeling this way over the past few months- "burned out" & emotionally exhausted from what Kev just described- being SO disappointed from the results I've been getting in dating....
Yes, I am seeking an actual "relationship", but things are NOT working out, over & over again... A guy seems to be interested, but then ends up just dropping off & disappearing, feeling "rejected", feeling like I put forward MORE effort, etc, etc.... 😥 😞