Why men aren’t approaching you | How to attract guys body language

Whats good youtube. This video is about why guys may not be approaching you.

So a lot of girls write me about men not approaching them. Most of the time they believe they are attractive. They also usually run down a long list of why they believe they should be getting hollered at. You know Successful careers, good hearts, much to offer a man, etc. Everything checks out until you ask them how they interact with men. A question many find hard to answer. What usually remains clear is that they just have no idea how to act around men. Or they have made some very effective decisions on how to present themselves. Just not effective in they way they may hope. Essentially turning men away. For some of the women interested in being approached more often here are some things to consider.

Women you You shouldn’t be forced to acknowledge men or smile. Suggesting as much could be seen as sexist. What I suggest is that you voluntarily take action in order to attract more men and change your results if that’s what you hope for. But just as you aren’t obligated to be nice ladies neither should men be to break through your un-inviting outer shell. The argument that a real man will approach you despite negative body language is flawed. Real men are gentlemen. As a real man I can tell you that if it looks like a lady doesn’t want to be bothered, I’m not going to bother her. This is bigger than resting bit face.

How a woman interacts with men is usually a signal to men of their interest and availability. It’s usually assumed that women who aren’t warm or inviting aren’t interested in making an impression because they have a man. Why else would She be completely ignoring guys around her? People, men especially defer to their logic. It’s human nature. Many men need a logical shot at success to approach a woman. Things that give that are a woman who acknowledges them with a pleasant look or smile. A woman who comments something positive to them. Those who make eye contact. Those who look happy or friendly when they catch a guy looking their way. Women who aren’t short or abrupt when communicating. Women who appear to be open to conversation. Women who linger a little after they are spoken to. Women who slow down to speak men when they are interested and don’t rush off. Among other things....

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[Ok-mxpz]

As a man, these videos have helped me identify(remember) and refine my interests as well as my own self respect. As I watch your videos I try to place myself in whatever category that fits as you speak. I realize that I am a lot more respectable than I give myself credit for and I now seek to find an honorable and loyal woman that I can trust. Thanks for your hard work brother.

[dreamerof]

I avoid eye contact 🙊 it’s so hard lol I’m shy af and I hate it 😅

[andreaj]

I attract men that I am not attracted to and I don't understand. 🤔

[doriapatterson]

A smile and a "good morning " can go a long way. It's all about being aware and intentional.

[princesachula]

When you're warm to a man...many times he'll TAKE ADVANTAGE EVEN WHEN he's not interested in sticking around and that's what a lot of responses from male coaches/men addressing this topic lack.

[crystaldblevins]

I smile. I'm approachable but I don't pick up on when men flirt with me. It goes right over my head then I realize a missed opportunity after the fact. By then they are gone. Plus I'm not quick with a flirt comeback if I did catch the flirt. So I'm a mess. Lol

[rayjojo]

I have a whole different problem
When I’m around men and that I think is attractive I become very shy and afraid. Afraid because I’m scared of rejection. I know this is something that I need to get over by myself, but it never seems to get better, but I love your videos and I find them very helpful. I think I just need prayer😂😂

[millag]

Btw a guy, willing to chase a cold and reserved woman is very likely to be some sort of psychopath and/or predator. They like the chase and they like "winning", but they're not interested in anything real.
Just my observation.

[Musika]

I've been told more than once that I am not easily approachable. I am an introvert. I also value my peace of mind (no drama). I am not into games. Relationships can be troublesome. Authenticity is rare to find. I sense BS miles away. So, I am working on finding my own happiness within celibacy.

[Monet-qvjp]

Men love happy women and I usually am when I'm single 🤣

[dianasj]

I am super shy and hate making eye contact. I also have social I literally get so flustered and anxious when i notice someone checking me out and my immediate response is to stare at the floor and find an exit strategy. So.... i guess this means I’ll be single forever 😩😩😭😭😭

[scorpiodread]

I feel attacked! Lmaoooo jk. I've been told I'm unapproachable and intimidating🤷‍♀️. I dont smile much because I'm always in my head thinking about what needs to be done or work or whatever. I'll try to do better but I'm an introvert and an empath. I try to avoid interactions and the diff energy from people. People are sickening sometimes...lol

[brokenjade]

So on point. I've been thinking about this very thing lately. I'm super shy so I have to be more conscious that my shyness can come off as ignoring a man.

[SunniWrld]

Sup Kev!👋🏽 Well the reason is...Me! I come off too guarded and on the defensive. Trust issues...🤷🏽‍♀️😔guess I’m protecting my ❤️. I’m working on that tho...ain’t tryna die alone😂

[FA-cxdt]

I find that I am open and receptive only to men I find physically attractive. If I do not find him physically attractive, then I am a little cold ONLY because in the past when I have been nice and pleasant...that sends a signal that I am interested..meanwhile, I am NOT. So I do not want to recieve harassment from said guy because he mistakes me being nice as "flirting".

[skies]

I cant help not looking an attractive man in the eye! They are intimidating and I get awkward. 😭😭 No wonder I'm alone. 😂😂

[Tabaitha_Elle]

I’m sweating just thinking about speaking first! I guess it’s time to come out my shell a little 😩

[shandraarmstrong]

I Never get approach & the guys that I'm attracted to are not attracted to me 😞

[deelightful]

When you are raised by strict paremts you internalize so many social rules..moral rules...you want to be friemdly but you don't want to be percieved as ray wamton or desperate...so i usually DONT. approach a man first..but i do try to smile or meet eye contact...but i find that most men just look or stare then look away....they may may even smile or make a flirty remark but keep on going. Ill try to practice my eye contact tho

[CuriousCat]

What an eloquent, well versed young man. I appreciate your video, it’s very professional.